rexuyq
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Hello my friends, it's me Rexuya and today I'm going to tell you a few steps on how you can hide the fact that you're an ndcell
First, I want to explain that if you are familiar with Looksmaxing/blackpill, etc., you don't automatically have neurodivergent disorders. What is medically termed "neurodivergent" usually refers to people with autism, ADHD/ADD, dyslexia, dyscalculia, dysgraphia, dyspraxia, Tourette syndrome, or obsessive-compulsive disorder.
However, it is possible to have neurodivergent traits without having any of the listed disorders.
Neurotypical people often find it difficult to deal with neurodivergents because their differing communication styles, different perceptions of social rules, differing needs for closeness or withdrawal, and different sensory processing lead to misunderstandings, uncertainty, and incorrect expectations.
Since 85-90% of the population is neurotypical, as an ND you have to adapt to them so you don't die in loneliness
here are my tips/methods:
1. Style:
It's not bad to be a bandwagoner; in fact, it's positive and advantageous. If you dress too niche, or even worse, in an emo or alt style, it could make you stand out from the others and you might come across as "weird." I'm not saying you have to copy the style of your classmates or other people exactly, but you should aim for a stylish but not overly flashy look.
Here are a few examples of what I found on Pinterest:
2. Social media
Social media is one of the most important things where you can do a lot right and wrong. You should never post anything on TikTok, Instagram, Snapchat, etc., for which you could be accused with good reason, e.g., something racist or sexist. You should also never upload anything about bp or looksmaxing on social media, NOT even transformation videos of what you looked like a few years ago. I uploaded normal transformation videos, and people from my school called me a "looksmaxer," which was pretty embarrassing
I would recommend making normal videos of yourselves with neutral or trendy sounds where you show your face, do an outfit check, or lip-sync videos.
Here's an example from my TikTok account (it's not perfect but I'm doing my best)
3. Communication with people (especially girls)
You should try to communicate with girls every day as much as possible, for example, from your school, your gym, or random girls in town. You first have to overcome this initial hesitation, and you have to talk as if the conversation is only about HER and not about you. Ask interesting questions and don't constantly talk about yourself without being asked.
4. partiemaxxing
Stop with the cope that you have other goals in life and that going out to parties is for losers, because the only loser is you, hanging around in your room 24/7 and goon jfl
Start going out and partying! If you have the chance to go to any party, go for it! I don't know how it is in your country, but I'm 16, and in Germany, there are clubs for 16-year-olds. If that's not the case where you are, then look for a house party near you. At the party, you HAVE to dance, no matter how embarrassed you are. Remember that 95% of the people there will be drunk and won't remember anything. If you make eye contact with a girl and she smiles at you, then you HAVE to try to dance with her and then take her to bed. That will definitely boost your confidence, and you'll feel much more "normal."
I hope these methods will help you, and remember that these tips won't help you if you're below MTN, and you won't need them if you're above CL
Peace out Rexuya
First, I want to explain that if you are familiar with Looksmaxing/blackpill, etc., you don't automatically have neurodivergent disorders. What is medically termed "neurodivergent" usually refers to people with autism, ADHD/ADD, dyslexia, dyscalculia, dysgraphia, dyspraxia, Tourette syndrome, or obsessive-compulsive disorder.
However, it is possible to have neurodivergent traits without having any of the listed disorders.
Neurotypical people often find it difficult to deal with neurodivergents because their differing communication styles, different perceptions of social rules, differing needs for closeness or withdrawal, and different sensory processing lead to misunderstandings, uncertainty, and incorrect expectations.
Since 85-90% of the population is neurotypical, as an ND you have to adapt to them so you don't die in loneliness
here are my tips/methods:
1. Style:
It's not bad to be a bandwagoner; in fact, it's positive and advantageous. If you dress too niche, or even worse, in an emo or alt style, it could make you stand out from the others and you might come across as "weird." I'm not saying you have to copy the style of your classmates or other people exactly, but you should aim for a stylish but not overly flashy look.
Here are a few examples of what I found on Pinterest:
2. Social media
Social media is one of the most important things where you can do a lot right and wrong. You should never post anything on TikTok, Instagram, Snapchat, etc., for which you could be accused with good reason, e.g., something racist or sexist. You should also never upload anything about bp or looksmaxing on social media, NOT even transformation videos of what you looked like a few years ago. I uploaded normal transformation videos, and people from my school called me a "looksmaxer," which was pretty embarrassing
I would recommend making normal videos of yourselves with neutral or trendy sounds where you show your face, do an outfit check, or lip-sync videos.
Here's an example from my TikTok account (it's not perfect but I'm doing my best)
Code:
https://www.tiktok.com/@maybehayk?_r=1&_t=ZG-931NGblM7G4
3. Communication with people (especially girls)
You should try to communicate with girls every day as much as possible, for example, from your school, your gym, or random girls in town. You first have to overcome this initial hesitation, and you have to talk as if the conversation is only about HER and not about you. Ask interesting questions and don't constantly talk about yourself without being asked.
4. partiemaxxing
Stop with the cope that you have other goals in life and that going out to parties is for losers, because the only loser is you, hanging around in your room 24/7 and goon jfl
Start going out and partying! If you have the chance to go to any party, go for it! I don't know how it is in your country, but I'm 16, and in Germany, there are clubs for 16-year-olds. If that's not the case where you are, then look for a house party near you. At the party, you HAVE to dance, no matter how embarrassed you are. Remember that 95% of the people there will be drunk and won't remember anything. If you make eye contact with a girl and she smiles at you, then you HAVE to try to dance with her and then take her to bed. That will definitely boost your confidence, and you'll feel much more "normal."
I hope these methods will help you, and remember that these tips won't help you if you're below MTN, and you won't need them if you're above CL
Peace out Rexuya
