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disclaimer: before i start, this only applies if you are ltn or higher
if you are sub5 or below 5’8 i’m sorry but this thread isn’t for you , girls atleast want at the bare minimum someone who is of average height or taller and someone who isn’t an ogre
1. be different
this doesn’t mean be non-NT, but instead of using cringey pickup lines or directly complimenting a girl, reply to her story with something like ‘where is this? the scenery looks nice’ if she’s on holiday instead of saying ‘ur hot’ jfl
most girls are sick of being hit on all the time and you questioning about her life will come across well to her
2. lie lie and lie some more
once she replies , start getting to know her
always try and lead the convo but give some time between replies so she doesn’t think you’re some loser always on his phone
what i mean by ‘lie lie and lie some more’ is that , for example, if she likes ____ type of music, wow! suddenly so do you and you went to ____’s concert in summer and you enjoyed it
this will make her think you are similar to her and thus make her more inclined to talk to you. just remember to not get caught out on these lies and not take it too far e.g don’t lie about your height etc
3. don’t compliment her too much
contrary to popular belief it will come across as desperate especially if it’s not reciprocated.
instead of direct compliments , act interested in her.
if she sends a photo / selfie and you want to compliment her, avoid generic compliments such as ‘you’re pretty’ and say something like ‘wow your eyes are stunning’ etc etc
complimenting specific features of a girl show you are more gentleman-like
4. don’t ask to meet too soon
give it atleast a few weeks to a month before asking to meet. of course if she suggests it first, go ahead, but give it time before asking to meet
when you do ask to meet her, have a direct plan, instead of saying ‘what shld we do when we meet’ etc etc (makes you come across as unorganized and boring)
say: ‘does a reservation at ____ restaraunt at ____ time on ____ day work for you?
this way she will see you are scheduling time out of your day to see her and will also impress her as most guys just wanna hit
(you can too but don’t ask explicit for it)
end of thread
this has worked for me with ~90 foids and i’ve got with all of them
tag people
if you are sub5 or below 5’8 i’m sorry but this thread isn’t for you , girls atleast want at the bare minimum someone who is of average height or taller and someone who isn’t an ogre
1. be different
this doesn’t mean be non-NT, but instead of using cringey pickup lines or directly complimenting a girl, reply to her story with something like ‘where is this? the scenery looks nice’ if she’s on holiday instead of saying ‘ur hot’ jfl
most girls are sick of being hit on all the time and you questioning about her life will come across well to her
2. lie lie and lie some more
once she replies , start getting to know her
always try and lead the convo but give some time between replies so she doesn’t think you’re some loser always on his phone
what i mean by ‘lie lie and lie some more’ is that , for example, if she likes ____ type of music, wow! suddenly so do you and you went to ____’s concert in summer and you enjoyed it
this will make her think you are similar to her and thus make her more inclined to talk to you. just remember to not get caught out on these lies and not take it too far e.g don’t lie about your height etc
3. don’t compliment her too much
contrary to popular belief it will come across as desperate especially if it’s not reciprocated.
instead of direct compliments , act interested in her.
if she sends a photo / selfie and you want to compliment her, avoid generic compliments such as ‘you’re pretty’ and say something like ‘wow your eyes are stunning’ etc etc
complimenting specific features of a girl show you are more gentleman-like
4. don’t ask to meet too soon
give it atleast a few weeks to a month before asking to meet. of course if she suggests it first, go ahead, but give it time before asking to meet
when you do ask to meet her, have a direct plan, instead of saying ‘what shld we do when we meet’ etc etc (makes you come across as unorganized and boring)
say: ‘does a reservation at ____ restaraunt at ____ time on ____ day work for you?
this way she will see you are scheduling time out of your day to see her and will also impress her as most guys just wanna hit
(you can too but don’t ask explicit for it)
end of thread
this has worked for me with ~90 foids and i’ve got with all of them
tag people
