how to reverse 7 years of neetdom and total isolation (3 yrs no talking online even)

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Me in my avi btw, how do I get the courage to work a minimum wage job with no experience, I have no courage and am socially retarded (undiagnosed autism) and never had a social circle virgin etc. Any advice?
 
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start selling shit on ebay. that's what i did. i was in your same position. now i'm a wealthy businessman
 
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start selling shit on ebay. that's what i did. i was in your same position. now i'm a wealthy businessman
What type of shit? I don't have much to sell except useless funko pops I get as birthday presents. What happens when stock runs out?
 
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What type of shit? I don't have much to sell except useless funko pops I get as birthday presents. What happens when stock runs out?
Do you live in the US?
 
no clue bro but im in the same boat
 
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no clue bro but im in the same boat
its so brutal every time i want to do something productive i just see some depressing ass shit or foids having it easy and it makes me sink right back top kekington
 
im tellin ya
keep grindin, keep hustlin, shoot for your dreams
never get up
 
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its so brutal every time i want to do something productive i just see some depressing ass shit or foids having it easy and it makes me sink right back top kekington
im starting to accept that ill probably not make it in this life, just rot until i die
 
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its so brutal every time i want to do something productive i just see some depressing ass shit or foids having it easy and it makes me sink right back top kekington
Watching others live happy lives is what motivates me to crawl out of this hellhole tbh

Have you ever looked into captioning?
 
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Watching others live happy lives is what motivates me to crawl out of this hellhole tbh

Have you ever looked into captioning?
i have. looks impossible rev is very strict on that.
 
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Well, I don't know how things work there as far as estate sales. You might have an advantage because the pound mogs. Find something that's not as valued in UK that Americans or Chinese will pay more for, something abundant in UK and scarce in US - antique silver maybe, or like band shirts from British bands. People pay like $1000 for a band shirt. Buy big lots of antique silver from the-saleroom or that other UK auction site and sell it on ebay. Or buy shit estate sales. You have to take some initiative for yourself. Focus on small stuff that you can ship to US for cheap. I know Royal mail is cheap and fast so that shouldn't be an issue. You're still at a disadvantage because a lot of people aren't going to want to order from overseas, although if you find a good niche that might not be a problem. I've purchased stuff from UK, shipped it to US, and then shipped back to UK and still made a profit.

If you have autism you should be good at memorizing prices and details and recognizing objects. I don't know how hard that is for the average person but I can see something once and remember where I've seen it and how much it's worth like 2 years later. Also decades of hunting for free porn has made me great at searching for like auction records and stuff. It's the perfect profession for NEET coomer autist. I literally went so long without having a real job that I was too embarrassed to ever apply for one.
 
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Very hard to get out of that situation bro, I suggest you find some online friends first with whom you can talk to on vc (important)

this will improve your social skills some bit probably, from there just go to clubs or something
 
Very hard to get out of that situation bro, I suggest you find some online friends first with whom you can talk to on vc (important)

this will improve your social skills some bit probably, from there just go to clubs or something
i dont care about ascending anymore i can cope with prostitutes i just want to get some monthly easy income without 9-5 waging but it's sadly impossible
 
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What are your goals exactly?
 
i wanna get a monthly income for copes that's it. £1000 is good enough
That's doable, but what are you trying to cope with?
 
at this point its over. Just LDAR and claim benefits or UC. If you are over 18 message me and i can change ur life tho
 
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at this point its over. Just LDAR and claim benefits or UC. If you are over 18 message me and i can change ur life tho
i used to have fantasies about being NT and shotting crack as a roadman smh
 
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Idk but I wish you luck so I’m bumping
 
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takeaway, betting, drugs etc
Those are copes. I wasn't asking what your copes were but why you are trying to cope in the first place
 
Those are copes. I wasn't asking what your copes were but why you are trying to cope in the first place
im coping cus i am sub 4 and non-nt, i will be 26 or so by the time i have bimax etc (on welfare healthcare NHS), so my life is basically over. i have never been creatively driven and am content rotting doing nothing all day. only problem is im bored out of my nut cus i can't cope with videogames anymore so i need new copes.
 
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Your 26 and never had a job?

Sounds like the pathway i'm going. Same position as you, just a few years younger.

Do you have any friends?

Best way is to find a friend that brings you out for clubbing, social activities, etc

Over time that will improve your social anxiety/autism.

Or...

Find something ur interested in and go to college. Almost impossible not to make friends in college.
 
Your 26 and never had a job?

Sounds like the pathway i'm going. Same position as you, just a few years younger.

Do you have any friends?

Best way is to find a friend that brings you out for clubbing

Over time that will improve your social anxiety/autism.

Or...

Find something ur interested in and go to college. Almost impossible not to make friends in college.
nah I'm 23 atm, but 26 by the time I am done with jaw surgery etc. I don't want to work looking as deformed as I am atm so I am trying to figure out how to make money online from fuck all.
 
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nah I'm 23 atm, but 26 by the time I am done with jaw surgery etc. I don't want to work looking as deformed as I am atm so I am trying to figure out how to make money online from fuck all.
If it's you in your profile picture then your not deformed at all. It's just body dysmorphia thats fucking with your head. If you have other pics, PM me. I will be 100% honest, and tell you if it's over or not. Most likely, just a severe case of BDD.

You only have one life, are you going to be concerned with how other people think you look?, do you think it's better to just stay inside and rot and have a shitty ass life without friends? Everyone will die one day, stop giving a shit about what other people think of you and just do you.

You need 500mg testosterone together with some weights & confidence man
 
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Start going to the gym. Probs won’t make a huge difference but at least you will be making progress towards a goal which will give you satisfaction.

Also take Lyrica for NT

Get a job that involves you talking to lots of people to improve social skills

Good luck
 
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nah I'm 23 atm, but 26 by the time I am done with jaw surgery etc. I don't want to work looking as deformed as I am atm so I am trying to figure out how to make money online from fuck all.
u can still work while deformed tbh, most people working 9-5 are just as deformed and subhuman if not more than you.
 
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i dont care about ascending anymore i can cope with prostitutes i just want to get some monthly easy income without 9-5 waging but it's sadly impossible
If you're brave enough to hire a prostitute then you're brave enough to do a job. You're literally paying someone who probably doesn't find you attractive to you to have sex with you.

Unironically apply for a job at McDonalds. They have good team member perks, aren't judgemental about previous jobs and will genuinely set you up for a lot of things. You'll learn to be on time, make some good friends, have some laughs and get decent pay too in the UK £8.50 - £10.00 an hour. Work 3x 8 hour shifts weekly and you can get £900 - £1000 a month. You'll meet people from all ages 18 - 45 who are either just starting out in life, or have also been isolated now trying to get a job. That's a start, the rest will push from there.
 
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Nofap is legit for motivation, you need at least a 2 weeks streak for start getting the energy you need to get shit done. Its extremely hard though, especially if you are rotting all day.
 
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Very hard to get out of that situation bro, I suggest you find some online friends first with whom you can talk to on vc (important)

this will improve your social skills some bit probably, from there just go to clubs or something
online friends
“friends“

pick one
 
Wtf did you do for 7 years jfl
 
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You can’t reverse it unless you go ER
 
im bored out of my nut cus i can't cope with videogames anymore
Boredom is the best motivation you could possibly get to turn your life around
 
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Me in my avi btw, how do I get the courage to work a minimum wage job with no experience, I have no courage and am socially retarded (undiagnosed autism) and never had a social circle virgin etc. Any advice?
Yes it doesnt matter, you can learn social skills in a few months. IRL little children learn social skills with undeveloped child brains easily.
Most min wage workers are kind and with no-ego, they wont look down on you
 
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nah I'm 23 atm, but 26 by the time I am done with jaw surgery etc. I don't want to work looking as deformed as I am atm so I am trying to figure out how to make money online from fuck all.
NEET doesnt count as under 18yr old, most people would view you as a 5 year NEET
 
lift weights
get paid online

forget about women they only cause chaos
 
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Me in my avi btw, how do I get the courage to work a minimum wage job with no experience, I have no courage and am socially retarded (undiagnosed autism) and never had a social circle virgin etc. Any advice?
Watch the anime welcome to the NHK it broke my 1 year neet streak

If you need any help let me know I was in your situation and its pretty awful but you can change.
 
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Watch the anime welcome to the NHK it broke my 1 year neet streak

If you need any help let me know I was in your situation and its pretty awful but you can change.
already seen it didnt do much tbh showing scenes of him as some fat 50 year old fuck means nothing to me. id rather take that than being miserable 9-5 for minimum wage
 
my looks are my main reason for not working and also autism and sleep deprivation

if i fix all of these + underbite i may work
 

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