How to stop anxiety on dates?

[Deleted member 2268]

When going on dates I get a bit nervous despite having gone on a ton of dates. I want to be more aggressive and ballsy and carefree. Are there any good compounds I can use for this? I have propanalol at home. Also considering having a drink beforehand or something.

 

[TrestIsBest]

Propranolol could cause temporary ED so I'd stay away.

Phenibut,, pregabalin, etifoxine all work well to reduce anxiety and lower inhibition in my experience

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Propranolol could cause temporary ED so I'd stay away.

Phenibut,, pregabalin, etifoxine all work well to reduce anxiety and lower inhibition in my experience

I heard Etifoxine is weak? Can you run it 3-4 times a week or does it build tolerance fast like phenivut?

 

[lilpumpisukrainian]

If alcohol gives you any kind of liquid confidence then just take a shot before leaving unless you have to drive

 

[Deleted member 2268]

If alcohol gives you any kind of liquid confidence then just take a shot before leaving unless you have to drive

Ok cool

 

[TrestIsBest]

I heard Etifoxine is weak? Can you run it 3-4 times a week or does it build tolerance fast like phenivut?

It‘s effective enough for me and I enjoyed it a lot so far. It feels like a natural state of being relaxed/anxiety-free, while stuff like Phenibut, Pregabalin and alcohol feels more like a drug-induced state of being anxiety-free; they induce a high while Etifoxine doesn’t really.

I also heard Eti doesn’t build tolerance but I have no clue how true that statement is. I‘ll limit my use to 1-2 days a week

 

[DawgyDawg]

Propranolol could cause temporary ED so I'd stay away.

Phenibut,, pregabalin, etifoxine all work well to reduce anxiety and lower inhibition in my experience

I have phenibut, how much should i take before my date? 2 grams?

 

[TrestIsBest]

I have phenibut, how much should i take before my date? 2 grams?

If you never tried it before, go for a lower dose imo. Like 500 mg a couple of hours before you meet her.

 

[DawgyDawg]

If you never tried it before, go for a lower dose imo. Like 500 mg a couple of hours before you meet her.

I have tried it but haven't felt a noticeable effect with as much as 1g

 

[TrestIsBest]

I have tried it but haven't felt a noticeable effect with as much as 1g

Aight then 2g should be good

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Aight then 2g should be good

Do you guys get massive comedowns from phenibut?

 

[Deleted member 22714]

Your fear probaly comes from 2 things, not having an abudance of women + inexperience. you fix both by going on more dates

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Your fear probaly comes from 2 things, not having an abudance of women + inexperience. you fix both by going on more dates

Nope I already get a ton of dates it just is there

 

[Deleted member 22714]

Nope I already get a ton of dates it just is there

Then it comes down to inexperience. you might be able to go on a lot of dates but if you dont escalate on any of them then you will never be able to become more aggressive and ballsy. next time just go yolo if you see a chick is into you she will oblige 9 of 10 times

 

[TrestIsBest]

Do you guys get massive comedowns from phenibut?

Not really

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Then it comes down to inexperience. you might be able to go on a lot of dates but if you dont escalate on any of them then you will never be able to become more aggressive and ballsy. next time just go yolo if you see a chick is into you she will oblige 9 of 10 times

Wdym by oblige 9/10 times? Usually when I drink alcohol I can be very aggressive and escalate hard. Recently, I have been trying to drink less so it has made me more high inhib. This is whats causing the problem.

 

[Deleted member 22714]

Wdym by oblige 9/10 times? Usually when I drink alcohol I can be very aggressive and escalate hard. Recently, I have been trying to drink less so it has made me more high inhib.

oblige as in you esclating and her reciprocating. if a girl is into you you can literally do anything you want put her hand on your dick yolo!!

Alcohol will always give fake confidence I wouldnt rely on it too much

 

[Deleted member 2268]

oblige as in you esclating and her reciprocating. if a girl is into you you can literally do anything you want put her hand on your dick yolo!!

Alcohol will always give fake confidence I wouldnt rely on it too much

Yeah I need to build up my confidence without alcohol.

 

[Germania]

When going on dates I get a bit nervous despite having gone on a ton of dates. I want to be more aggressive and ballsy and carefree. Are there any good compounds I can use for this? I have propanalol at home. Also considering having a drink beforehand or something.

I am also a bit nervous sometimes before a date, but as soon as i am in front of her it's gone in a second. How is it with you?

 

[Deleted member 2268]

I am also a bit nervous sometimes before a date, but as soon as i am in front of her it's gone in a second. How is it with you?

Yes similar to you. After having a beer it usually goes away for me.

 

[DawgyDawg]

Aight then 2g should be good

The date went well, other than some blushing in the beginning and some jitters that went away as I got more comfortable. I was able to talk to her for a whole 2 hours and have a pretty good date. Wasn't self conscious or nervous after the initial meeting of 5 minutes. She was 4-5/10 tho and I am like 6+. Still decent experience.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

The date went well, other than some blushing in the beginning and some jitters that went away as I got more comfortable. I was able to talk to her for a whole 2 hours and have a pretty good date. Wasn't self conscious or nervous after the initial meeting of 5 minutes. She was 4-5/10 tho and I am like 6+. Still decent experience.

Date going well means you fucked her.

 

[TrestIsBest]

The date went well, other than some blushing in the beginning and some jitters that went away as I got more comfortable. I was able to talk to her for a whole 2 hours and have a pretty good date. Wasn't self conscious or nervous after the initial meeting of 5 minutes. She was 4-5/10 tho and I am like 6+. Still decent experience.

So did you take the phenibut or no?

 

[klamus]

Just get More date experience. Also knowing that you just gotta literally Be yourself. If shes not interested in genuine you Then theres nothing you could Do.

 

[kalefartbomb]

One mental trick is to arrange something immediately after the date, like invite friends over for drinks, go to see live music etc. Could be anything, and focus on that not the date. The date is just a preliminary distraction to you and you will still get positive validation from people that night regardless of the date's success. If you subconsciously feel like a lot is at stake on a date then you will feel anxious.

 

[DawgyDawg]

So did you take the phenibut or no?

Yes 2 grams of phenibut in the morning of the date on empty stomach along with 1200mg of ksm-66 ashwaganda (idk if that did anything). The date was at 5pm so i took it early so it had time to take effect.

 

[DawgyDawg]

Date going well means you fucked her.

Teach me how to escalate brother!

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Teach me how to escalate brother!

Ramp it up slowly. Make eye contact, touch her lightly, make sexual comments, and then go for kiss. Give it sometime and ask her to come back to your place