How to stop comparing to guys better than me?

[Deleted member 119734]

I keep doing this a lot and it doesn't help. I keep looking at guys who are better than me and end up feeling shit that I'm not good enough compared to them. Whether they are better looking, in better universities, have better jobs, earning more money, have hot girlfriends that I could never get because I'm brown etc.

It just makes me feel so shit. I feel like a tiger than has been beaten up by another tiger and just has to accept the ass whooping. I feel there's nothing I can do to catch up to those guys and it just makes me feel shit.

How do I avoid feeling like this?

 

[Wexilarious]

Become better than them, eventually at one point you will go crazy that you are smarter than most people, but it is worth it

 

[marshadow]

I keep doing this a lot and it doesn't help. I keep looking at guys who are better than me and end up feeling shit that I'm not good enough compared to them. Whether they are better looking, in better universities, have better jobs, earning more money, have hot girlfriends that I could never get because I'm brown etc.

It just makes me feel so shit. I feel like a tiger than has been beaten up by another tiger and just has to accept the ass whooping. I feel there's nothing I can do to catch up to those guys and it just makes me feel shit.

How do I avoid feeling like this?

Dont jst become better than them

 

[Deleted member 119734]

Become better than them, eventually at one point you will go crazy that you are smarter than most people, but it is worth it

But due to mistakes I've made in the past, I never will be able to. They will always be a few steps ahead. E.g. even if I work hard to get the jobs they have, by that time they will have even better jobs or be further progressed in their careers.

 

[Deleted member 119734]

Dont jst become better than them

But due to mistakes I've made in the past, I never will be able to. They will always be a few steps ahead. E.g. even if I work hard to get the jobs they have, by that time they will have even better jobs or be further progressed in their careers.

 

[uksucks]

Don't go outside, don't see women, forget they exist for a few weeks until you remember then go on an incel rage lookmax posting rampage like I've just done

 

[yoshisand]

I keep doing this a lot and it doesn't help. I keep looking at guys who are better than me and end up feeling shit that I'm not good enough compared to them. Whether they are better looking, in better universities, have better jobs, earning more money, have hot girlfriends that I could never get because I'm brown etc.

It just makes me feel so shit. I feel like a tiger than has been beaten up by another tiger and just has to accept the ass whooping. I feel there's nothing I can do to catch up to those guys and it just makes me feel shit.

How do I avoid feeling like this?

 

[fluxx]

you cant
u can only accept theyre better then u and try to move on

 

[Deleted member 119734]

Don't go outside, don't see women, forget they exist for a few weeks until you remember then you on an incel rage lookmax posting rampage like I've just done

I'm socially calibrated unlike most people on here. I actually go out to parties and have mates lol.

 

[Deleted member 119734]

you cant
u can only accept theyre better then u and try to move on

Exactly. There will always be people better than you.

So how do I forgive myself for past mistakes and move forward?

 

[fluxx]

Exactly. There will always be people better than you.

So how do I forgive myself for past mistakes and move forward?

just gotta swallow the bp fully and you will be free

 

[Swarthy Knight]

The fact that you have a device and access to internet to shitpost on this Dalit forum already puts you above a relatively large percentage of the world from an economical standpoint. Be more grateful for things that you do have and don't take it for granted

 

[uksucks]

I actually go out to parties

Mogs me

Fml

 

[Wexilarious]

But due to mistakes I've made in the past, I never will be able to. They will always be a few steps ahead. E.g. even if I work hard to get the jobs they have, by that time they will have even better jobs or be further progressed in their careers.

Many people when they reach a certain level stay there for life, don't think that they will be even better when you become better, maybe they will stay in one place and that's it

 

[Deleted member 119734]

just gotta swallow the bp fully and you will be free

Bluepill?

Reading theory doesn't do much. I need actual advice on how I can forgive myself and accept the world isn't far and focus on being the best version of me.

 

[yoshisand]

Exactly. There will always be people better than you.

So how do I forgive myself for past mistakes and move forward?

Watch the video I sent in full let things take there natural course focus on yourself ascending

 

[Deleted member 119734]

Mogs me

Fml

I'm brown so I will always be beneath you assuming you are a white man

 

[fluxx]

Bluepill?

Reading theory doesn't do much. I need actual advice on how I can forgive myself and accept the world isn't far and focus on being the best version of me.

i still havent done that myself, im still mad chads are gonna slay more than me. but i try to forgive myself knowing its not my fault and that there will always be ppl better then u and think about ppl who are worse then u and you will feel better

 

[Deleted member 119734]

Many people when they reach a certain level stay there for life, don't think that they will be even better when you become better, maybe they will stay in one place and that's it

Yeah I'm better looking than most of them despite being chubby atm lol so I know when I cut down and take steroids I will be an 8/10 brown guy.

It's just that they will earn more money than me smh

 

[yoshisand]

Bluepill?

Reading theory doesn't do much. I need actual advice on how I can forgive myself and accept the world isn't far and focus on being the best version of me.

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[Deleted member 119734]

i still havent done that myself, im still mad chads are gonna slay more than me. but i try to forgive myself knowing its not my fault and that there will always be ppl better then u and think about ppl who are worse then u and you will feel better

I'm actually not that mad at myself for being brown because I can't control that - I'm mad at my parents/God/the universe for making me brown. It's not MY fault that I'm brown.

However I am mad at myself when I don't work hard enough and fuck up good opportunities and get filled with regret which makes me depressed and this holds me back in the present, causing me to miss even more opportunities. It's like a self-fulfilling negative feedback loop.

 

[yoshisand]

Yeah I'm better looking than most of them despite being chubby atm lol so I know when I cut down and take steroids I will be an 8/10 brown guy.

It's just that they will earn more money than me smh

Watch that video

 

[yoshisand]

I'm actually not that mad at myself for being brown because I can't control that - I'm mad at my parents/God/the universe for making me brown. It's not MY fault that I'm brown.

However I am mad at myself when I don't work hard enough and fuck up good opportunities and get filled with regret which makes me depressed and this holds me back in the present, causing me to miss even more opportunities. It's like a self-fulfilling negative feedback loop.

Watch the video

 

[Deleted member 119734]

Watch that video

Okay

 

[TiktokUser]

I keep doing this a lot and it doesn't help. I keep looking at guys who are better than me and end up feeling shit that I'm not good enough compared to them. Whether they are better looking, in better universities, have better jobs, earning more money, have hot girlfriends that I could never get because I'm brown etc.

It just makes me feel so shit. I feel like a tiger than has been beaten up by another tiger and just has to accept the ass whooping. I feel there's nothing I can do to catch up to those guys and it just makes me feel shit.

How do I avoid feeling like this?

You want some advice that tells you everybody is at different stages, and goals in life.

When in reality you should compare yourself. Do you seriously think any fucking athlete, businessman, singer, doctor does not compare themselves to others? Jfl

 

[Deleted member 119734]

You want some advice that tells you everybody is at different stages, and goals in life.

When in reality you should compare yourself. Do you seriously think any fucking athlete, businessman, singer, doctor does not compare themselves to others? Jfl

True but how do I not let it affect my self-esteem?

 

[TiktokUser]

True but how do I not let it affect my self-esteem?

You probably can’t lol
If you feel bad about yourself then you should probably change till you lifemog everyone around you

 

[Deleted member 119734]

You probably can’t lol
If you feel bad about yourself then you should probably change till you lifemog everyone around you

There will always be people better than me in some way and I will always have some level of regret due to past mistakes. That's what makes moving on so hard and it's hard not to feel shit when comparing myself to better guys.

 

[kviijjj]

Same thing happens to me I'm pretty sure this a basic human thing

 

[TiktokUser]

There will always be people better than me in some way and I will always have some level of regret due to past mistakes. That's what makes moving on so hard and it's hard not to feel shit when comparing myself to better guys.

To be honest, I dont think you’ll fix it, because most normies aren’t aware, or at least don’t care about others being better than them, which is why they neglect their health and bodies.

You should focus MAXing your life like swimming, snowboarding, and your knowledge. If you’ve ended up here, then I don’t think you’ll ever not about what others think of you.

 

[Deleted member 119734]

Same thing happens to me I'm pretty sure this a basic human thing

Yeah it's just that part of life that society doesn't prepare guys for. People wonder why so many guys struggle with mental health and one of the main reasons why is because life is ultimately competitive as a guy - you are judged on what you have, who you are, status, money, women, looks. cars, watches, popularity etc.... you name it.

And when many guys realise they are 'losing' in the game of life compared to other men there's no support system for them.

When you win everyone wants to celebrate with you and be a part of your success, but when you lose you lose alone.

 

[tim:(]

I keep doing this a lot and it doesn't help. I keep looking at guys who are better than me and end up feeling shit that I'm not good enough compared to them. Whether they are better looking, in better universities, have better jobs, earning more money, have hot girlfriends that I could never get because I'm brown etc.

It just makes me feel so shit. I feel like a tiger than has been beaten up by another tiger and just has to accept the ass whooping. I feel there's nothing I can do to catch up to those guys and it just makes me feel shit.

How do I avoid feeling like this?

It’s hard but the best thing is to create future thoughts of ego maniac manifesting thing of how you will mog after surgery or gymcelling think of people with the exception of your family as nothing more than scum
And that one day you’ll be better than those that’s the best cope I can think of but that’s just what I do till I get my surgeries and improve from gymcelling