pandamonium
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Used to happen to me all the time like last year and i think i figured out just about what thrings cause it. Now i have basically all success with occasional fails
Now obviously the #1 way to not be ignored is to just be chad. But obviously you arent chad so ur here
And btw it is entirely possible for her to find u attractive and still not wanna date u. Last year me and a girl hang made out literally fucked and she said im the hottest guy shes ever been with, it still went nowhere and she ended up ghosting me.
1.dont manufacture a relationship
Dont manufacture a relationship what i mean by that is dont force a relationship or even bother tk have a relationship. Since i was a nd loser i sort of had this idea that you should constantly be at ur best behavior and not be sexual ever and just try to get her to date you then ask fir sex
That almost never works cause it sets the vibe from casual to some sort of enviromnet where it seems almost robotic. Idk if thats a good explanation
dont let her know u want to date her until shes obviously actually fallen for you. My success rate before was like 40% now its like 90% with rhis strategy
When it seems like its going fast or rushed it will just set her off unless ur a chad
Look at it from this perspective, the only person a relationship benefits is the girl obviously. It just makes guys feel like they shouldnt cheat, if she wants to cheat she will cheat regarfless of whether ur in a relationship or not
So yeah just hang out fuck do everything. Dont ask for a relationship. I kid u not every time i did this they got obsessed and pulled then “what are we card”
“But what if she says she doesnt have sex till marriage or till a relationship”.
If she puls the im waiting till marriage card thats either some genuine bullshit or shes some devoted catholic. If u can tell shes never read the bible a day in her life then shes just saying ur not attractive enough for me to get fucked by.
Either way just move on
And if she says she wants to wait till a relationship to have sex just hang out with her over and over and claim ull never have sex but every time u hang out be flirty and maybe even cuddle and she will just eventually end up folding anyways (works 100% of the time)
Anyways doing this ull come to realize a lot of girls who ud think want a relationship just wanna fuck tbh anyways jfl
Dont take her too seriously or she wont take you seriously
2. Dont waste your time with girls who dont have interest in the first place
You will never ever convince a girl to like you who doesnt atleast have some initial attraction to you in the first place unless ur willing to play the oofy doofy game for the next 2 years
3. If the convo is dry dont force it
Dont have to talk to her every second. If convo is dry just find some other thing to talk about later.
My rule of thumb is, if its not goig to get u closer to linking, fucking, calling or somethjng important then just dont text her, anything else is just adding more risk and gonna make you come off as boring anyways since all she will remember about you are boring placeholder convos
4. Never just straight up say i want to fuck
Tried that and it will almost 100% of the time get u blocked except in occasions where the girl is significantly less attractive
5. Recycle old girls
If theres a girl who doesnt respond or ghosts u or whatever
Instead of ruining it just become friends w her and try to see if she has friends. Ive literally had s girl ghost me she told me she had friends and i ended up w/ their friend
So yea even if a girl is chopped, ghosty, annoying, etc just take advantage of her anyways
6. Stop being unnecessary polite
Apologizing for no reason, being on ur best behavior at all times, etc
7. Dont put her on a pedestal
Following from 6 stop trying to be entertaining and be the life of the party or whatever to grab her attention it just comes off as seeking validation.
8. If they dont respond stop trying
Now sometimes ill give one or two double texts here and there. But if it happens more than that or constantly just do one of the following
- try to hangiut and just be straightforward. If she says no who cares it was over anyways. Surprisingly it actually led to a yes a few times
- try to see if she has friends u can talk to instead
Something is like “u got any group chats” find a girl from the groupchat. Or whos rhat (in response to her story)
Never straight up ask if she has friends for you. It will end extremely bad
- just move on
Or just be chad and dnr any of this
Now obviously the #1 way to not be ignored is to just be chad. But obviously you arent chad so ur here
And btw it is entirely possible for her to find u attractive and still not wanna date u. Last year me and a girl hang made out literally fucked and she said im the hottest guy shes ever been with, it still went nowhere and she ended up ghosting me.
1.dont manufacture a relationship
Dont manufacture a relationship what i mean by that is dont force a relationship or even bother tk have a relationship. Since i was a nd loser i sort of had this idea that you should constantly be at ur best behavior and not be sexual ever and just try to get her to date you then ask fir sex
That almost never works cause it sets the vibe from casual to some sort of enviromnet where it seems almost robotic. Idk if thats a good explanation
dont let her know u want to date her until shes obviously actually fallen for you. My success rate before was like 40% now its like 90% with rhis strategy
When it seems like its going fast or rushed it will just set her off unless ur a chad
Look at it from this perspective, the only person a relationship benefits is the girl obviously. It just makes guys feel like they shouldnt cheat, if she wants to cheat she will cheat regarfless of whether ur in a relationship or not
So yeah just hang out fuck do everything. Dont ask for a relationship. I kid u not every time i did this they got obsessed and pulled then “what are we card”
“But what if she says she doesnt have sex till marriage or till a relationship”.
If she puls the im waiting till marriage card thats either some genuine bullshit or shes some devoted catholic. If u can tell shes never read the bible a day in her life then shes just saying ur not attractive enough for me to get fucked by.
Either way just move on
And if she says she wants to wait till a relationship to have sex just hang out with her over and over and claim ull never have sex but every time u hang out be flirty and maybe even cuddle and she will just eventually end up folding anyways (works 100% of the time)
Anyways doing this ull come to realize a lot of girls who ud think want a relationship just wanna fuck tbh anyways jfl
Dont take her too seriously or she wont take you seriously
2. Dont waste your time with girls who dont have interest in the first place
You will never ever convince a girl to like you who doesnt atleast have some initial attraction to you in the first place unless ur willing to play the oofy doofy game for the next 2 years
3. If the convo is dry dont force it
Dont have to talk to her every second. If convo is dry just find some other thing to talk about later.
My rule of thumb is, if its not goig to get u closer to linking, fucking, calling or somethjng important then just dont text her, anything else is just adding more risk and gonna make you come off as boring anyways since all she will remember about you are boring placeholder convos
4. Never just straight up say i want to fuck
Tried that and it will almost 100% of the time get u blocked except in occasions where the girl is significantly less attractive
5. Recycle old girls
If theres a girl who doesnt respond or ghosts u or whatever
Instead of ruining it just become friends w her and try to see if she has friends. Ive literally had s girl ghost me she told me she had friends and i ended up w/ their friend
So yea even if a girl is chopped, ghosty, annoying, etc just take advantage of her anyways
6. Stop being unnecessary polite
Apologizing for no reason, being on ur best behavior at all times, etc
7. Dont put her on a pedestal
Following from 6 stop trying to be entertaining and be the life of the party or whatever to grab her attention it just comes off as seeking validation.
8. If they dont respond stop trying
Now sometimes ill give one or two double texts here and there. But if it happens more than that or constantly just do one of the following
- try to hangiut and just be straightforward. If she says no who cares it was over anyways. Surprisingly it actually led to a yes a few times
- try to see if she has friends u can talk to instead
Something is like “u got any group chats” find a girl from the groupchat. Or whos rhat (in response to her story)
Never straight up ask if she has friends for you. It will end extremely bad
- just move on
Or just be chad and dnr any of this
