How to stop LDARing and actually ascend?

[Deleted member 10989]

I just mindlessly browse the internet, bookmarking any looksmaxxing(softmaxxing) guides and not read them. The only threads I read are of people trolling each other on this forum or those that don't actually contain any advice. Why is my mind attracted and motivated to read these threads instead of the ones that will actually bring value to my life like the softmaxxing guides. I am still just 18 so I can actually change a lot of things, I have read people say so many times that they wish they had discovered something that I discovered at a much earlier age but here I am in that age doing nothing, either this forum or mindlessly watching content on youtube that I dont even like or listening to songs.

And my stats are not that bad either, I have never really tried looksmaxxin before so there should be a lot of room for improvement, I am underweight, never had a skincare routine, a not so thick neck, simple ass hairstyle, used simple soap for every part of body, no moisturizer or face wash for most of my life, watching porn and fapping like a rat in an experiment. So, there should be a significant if not a very very huge room for improvement. I got rated atleast 4.0/8.0 PSL by almost everyone, my highest was 4.8/8.0. Most ratings were around 4.5/8.0 that classifies me as HTN, I would be able to reach chadlite(5.0) if I actually don't LDAR and I don't even wanna live the life that I am living right now. Even some girls have confessed their feelings for me in the last few days but still I am living my life like this even though I clearly know what path to take in order to make my life even better. HOW THE FUCK DO I FIX THIS?!?!?!? I am afraid I will look back at my 18 yo self and curse him for wasting his time when I become older which I definitely don't wanna do, I have already cursed my past selves a lot.

 

[Ermab4]

Is this the first chapter of your novel?

 

[Deleted member 10915]

Is this the first chapter of your novel?

JFL

 

[Deleted member 10536]

I just mindlessly browse the internet, bookmarking any looksmaxxing(softmaxxing) guides and not read them. The only threads I read are of people trolling each other on this forum or those that don't actually contain any advice. Why is my mind attracted and motivated to read these threads instead of the ones that will actually bring value to my life like the softmaxxing guides. I am still just 18 so I can actually change a lot of things, I have read people say so many times that they wish they had discovered something that I discovered at a much earlier age but here I am in that age doing nothing, either this forum or mindlessly watching content on youtube that I dont even like or listening to songs.

And my stats are not that bad either, I have never really tried looksmaxxin before so there should be a lot of room for improvement, I am underweight, never had a skincare routine, a not so thick neck, simple ass hairstyle, used simple soap for every part of body, no moisturizer or face wash for most of my life, watching porn and fapping like a rat in an experiment. So, there should be a significant if not a very very huge room for improvement. I got rated atleast 4.0/8.0 PSL by almost everyone, my highest was 4.8/8.0. Most ratings were around 4.5/8.0 that classifies me as HTN, I would be able to reach chadlite(5.0) if I actually don't LDAR and I don't even wanna live the life that I am living right now. Even some girls have confessed their feelings for me in the last few days but still I am living my life like this even though I clearly know what path to take in order to make my life even better. HOW THE FUCK DO I FIX THIS?!?!?!? I am afraid I will look back at my 18 yo self and curse him for wasting his time when I become older which I definitely don't wanna do, I have already cursed my past selves a lot.

...read the threads about looksmaxxing and then do whatever they tell you to do in order to improve the feature that you should improve on or focus on... Are you 0 iq?

 

[Deleted member 10989]

Is this the first chapter of your novel?

ARGmaxxing

 

[Deleted member 10989]

...read the threads about looksmaxxing and then do whatever they tell you to do in order to improve the feature that you should improve on or focus on... Are you 0 iq?

That's exactly what I need advice on doing bro, I don't read them, I can't get myself to read them instead I read the troll threads here or mindlessly browse the net. Consuming useless content instead of the guides that I have bookmarked.

 

[Deleted member 10615]

it depends on your situation

1 you might not have a place to be around girls take last year for example. Where im from there was no school irl but now lockdown is lifted in Australia im back at school in person

2 you might not have money to buy the things you need, if your 18 you most likely don't have the money for surgery or you don't want to spend the little money you have on things for looksmaxxing

3 you just can't be bothered or don't know what to do, this is me right now, two and half years ago before i even discovered the blackpill or looksmax i was looksmaxing hard using eyelash home recipies, getting good hair styles, finding things to help acne ect but now i don't even do nay of that, and keep in mind i was looksmaxing more at 14 before i discovered any of this and it was working but this site just made me deppresed and made me ldr

 

[Deleted member 10536]

That's exactly what I need advice on doing bro, I don't read them, I can't get myself to read them instead I read the troll threads here or mindlessly browse the net. Consuming useless content instead of the guides that I have bookmarked.

You don't need an "advice on how to read" you just read... Are you a toddler that's from kindergarten who's learning what are the letters? Or what? I don't get what the issue is.

 

[Deleted member 10989]

3 you just can't be bothered or don't know what to do, this is me right now, two and half years ago before i even discovered the blackpill or looksmax i was looksmaxing hard using eyelash home recipies, getting good hair styles, finding things to help acne ect but now i don't even do nay of that, and keep in mind i was looksmaxing more at 14 before i discovered any of this and it was working but this site just made me deppresed and made me ldr

Yes this is the same situation I am in but I don't want to start blaming anything else but myself for my lack of discipline/taking action to ascend. We both gotta do something about this man, we are both young and can ascend very hard if we actually start taking effort.
I dont even know what the fuck I am depressed about tbh I can't think of a reason but do feel depressed.

As for surgerymaxxing, nah I will just be softmaxxing. Necktraining, gymmaxing alone has a lot of room for improvement in my case, I dont plan to get any surgeries, only skincare etc

 

[Deleted member 10989]

You don't need an "advice on how to read" you just read... Are you a toddler that's from kindergarten who's learning what are the letters? Or what? I don't get what the issue is.

The issue is whatever you wanna call it, procrastination/indiscipline. It's the same thing as why a student doesn't study his books, he knows careermaxxing will help him but he still browses youtube/plays games/watches porn, in my case it's not studying, it's reading the looksmaxxing guides and applying their methods.

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

do you need any hardmaxxing? if not, then finish whatever softmaxxing you have to do and get laid moron

 

[Deleted member 10615]

Yes this is the same situation I am in but I don't want to start blaming anything else but myself for my lack of discipline/taking action to ascend. We both gotta do something about this man, we are both young and can ascend very hard if we actually start taking effort.
I dont even know what the fuck I am depressed about tbh I can't think of a reason but do feel depressed.

As for surgerymaxxing, nah I will just be softmaxxing. Necktraining, gymmaxing alone has a lot of room for improvement in my case, I dont plan to get any surgeries, only skincare etc

true tbh, for me my main issue is my skin and i will be buying more acne products soon to adress that

for you idk your situation but my advice is to try fix whatever is taking away from your looks as soon as possible fix it as fast and as hard as you can because time adds up and you will be looking back at the times thinking why didn't i looksmax earlier


good luck bro i hope you find what you need and ascend

 

[Deleted member 10536]

The issue is whatever you wanna call it, procrastination/indiscipline. It's the same thing as why a student doesn't study his books, he knows careermaxxing will help him but he still browses youtube/plays games/watches porn, in my case it's not studying, it's reading the looksmaxxing guides and applying their methods.

Studying to a degree can make sense, if it's something you don't like, care about or if it makes you feel bad, in a way you're "forced" to, too. Something else potentially too. But here? Looksmaxxing? It's all up to you, nobody forces you to or expects you to, it's purely on your own volition. You don't have to. You only need to want to do it. If you care about yourself.
Anyway, you don't make sense to me.

 

[Deleted member 10989]

do you need any hardmaxxing? if not, then finish whatever softmaxxing you have to do and get laid moron

That's what I am saying, I am unable to finish softmaxxing because I am a master procrastinator. I am unable to make myself read all the softmaxxing material and then implement in my life.

fix whatever is taking away from your looks as soon as possible fix it as fast and as hard as you can because time adds up and you will be looking back at the times thinking why didn't i looksmax earlier

This is my biggest fear in life

Studying to a degree can make sense, if it's something you don't like, care about or if it makes you feel bad, in a way you're "forced" to, too. Something else potentially too. But here? Looksmaxxing? It's all up to you, nobody forces you to or expects you to, it's purely on your own volition. You don't have to. You only need to want to do it. If you care about yourself.
Anyway, you don't make sense to me.

Okay man, I can understand that.

good luck bro i hope you find what you need and ascend

Good luck to you too

 

[Deleted member 7419]

I’m laying here nose stuffed and uncomfortable on my last day before cast removal for rhino and I’m already dreaming of Taban 4th quarter this year lol if you want it bad enough, you’ll figure it out.

 

[Alexanderr]

I´d say I´ve been rotting for most of my time here only recently starting to truly put in some effort into achieving a better me. I can´t say its been easy but it's rewarding. I guess having a strong sense of urgency really helped.

Listening to David Goggin´s audiobook ´´Can´t Hurt Me´´ also really inspired me to take action and get after it.

 

[TITUS]

Start adding softmaxes to your routine, optimizing them and dropping the ones that are shit.

 

[ChangeOfHeart]

Not reading this shit. Hit the gym, and stop being an autist.

 

[Essonerian]

I'm bookmarking this thread for extra motivation

 

[Lihito]

Start easy bro. Im also turning 18, doing little by little when i have some time. Start with dick maxxing and cewmaxxing with morning breakfast, then move on to face pilling and shit

I just mindlessly browse the internet, bookmarking any looksmaxxing(softmaxxing) guides and not read them. The only threads I read are of people trolling each other on this forum or those that don't actually contain any advice. Why is my mind attracted and motivated to read these threads instead of the ones that will actually bring value to my life like the softmaxxing guides. I am still just 18 so I can actually change a lot of things, I have read people say so many times that they wish they had discovered something that I discovered at a much earlier age but here I am in that age doing nothing, either this forum or mindlessly watching content on youtube that I dont even like or listening to songs.

And my stats are not that bad either, I have never really tried looksmaxxin before so there should be a lot of room for improvement, I am underweight, never had a skincare routine, a not so thick neck, simple ass hairstyle, used simple soap for every part of body, no moisturizer or face wash for most of my life, watching porn and fapping like a rat in an experiment. So, there should be a significant if not a very very huge room for improvement. I got rated atleast 4.0/8.0 PSL by almost everyone, my highest was 4.8/8.0. Most ratings were around 4.5/8.0 that classifies me as HTN, I would be able to reach chadlite(5.0) if I actually don't LDAR and I don't even wanna live the life that I am living right now. Even some girls have confessed their feelings for me in the last few days but still I am living my life like this even though I clearly know what path to take in order to make my life even better. HOW THE FUCK DO I FIX THIS?!?!?!? I am afraid I will look back at my 18 yo self and curse him for wasting his time when I become older which I definitely don't wanna do, I have already cursed my past selves a lot.

 

[MikeMew'sBitch]

im looksmaxxing by lifestylemaxxing. im 30 yo but i have wrinkle-free skin with no nasolabial folds and no wrinkles whatsoever, i often get confused for a 23 yo facially. i dont smoke, never smoked and will never smoke. i dont drink, last time i had alcohol was like 2 years ago and that was only a glass of wine if i remember correctly. i've been drinking green and black tea daily for last 6 years, i also drink other teas like chamomile, mint, ginger etc. i live in mediterranean country and eat alot of tuna salad with olive oil. i gymcell 6 days a week. i avoid direct sunlight, especially during summer and i only sunbath for 20 mins daily.

 

[oldcelloser]

I just mindlessly browse the internet, bookmarking any looksmaxxing(softmaxxing) guides and not read them. The only threads I read are of people trolling each other on this forum or those that don't actually contain any advice. Why is my mind attracted and motivated to read these threads instead of the ones that will actually bring value to my life like the softmaxxing guides. I am still just 18 so I can actually change a lot of things, I have read people say so many times that they wish they had discovered something that I discovered at a much earlier age but here I am in that age doing nothing, either this forum or mindlessly watching content on youtube that I dont even like or listening to songs.

And my stats are not that bad either, I have never really tried looksmaxxin before so there should be a lot of room for improvement, I am underweight, never had a skincare routine, a not so thick neck, simple ass hairstyle, used simple soap for every part of body, no moisturizer or face wash for most of my life, watching porn and fapping like a rat in an experiment. So, there should be a significant if not a very very huge room for improvement. I got rated atleast 4.0/8.0 PSL by almost everyone, my highest was 4.8/8.0. Most ratings were around 4.5/8.0 that classifies me as HTN, I would be able to reach chadlite(5.0) if I actually don't LDAR and I don't even wanna live the life that I am living right now. Even some girls have confessed their feelings for me in the last few days but still I am living my life like this even though I clearly know what path to take in order to make my life even better. HOW THE FUCK DO I FIX THIS?!?!?!? I am afraid I will look back at my 18 yo self and curse him for wasting his time when I become older which I definitely don't wanna do, I have already cursed my past selves a lot.

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