How to talk to people?

[mrTaiki]

Hello people, I have a serious question.
Im going into 3rd grade of highschool, my friend circle is very narrow, most of the people i know are way back from primary school.
I never got invited to a party, any party... (maybe except of some fuckass birthday parties back in primary school.) i feel like people like me, talk to me but they dont like me enough to invite to functions. Im very jealous of people my age to go out drinking, talk to others and stuff like that. Can i do something about it?
Second part of the question - how to talk to people?
I swear since i remember i was very bad at small talks and talking in general, if im in a just a bit of stress i start to talk gibberish, my biggest issue though is when talking to girls, I discovered porn at 12, probably while rotting away my soul on discord during the pandemic inbetween playing csgo and minecraft, this could be the reason why im like that. I stress when talking to them and subcosciously ruin the conversation so it just becomes dry and it ends. - Any tips on how to fix that?
PS. Im not a bad looking guy, i feel like high mtn rn, still a cutecel from the early teenage years, i wont send my photo on here just yet.

Please someone just give me a glimpse of hope, i dont want to stay like this for the rest of my teenage years, i want to experience something that was never meant for me.

 

[idnap]

youre autistic and not h mtn

 

[idnap]

Hello people, I have a serious question.
Im going into 3rd grade of highschool, my friend circle is very narrow, most of the people i know are way back from primary school.
I never got invited to a party, any party... (maybe except of some fuckass birthday parties back in primary school.) i feel like people like me, talk to me but they dont like me enough to invite to functions. Im very jealous of people my age to go out drinking, talk to others and stuff like that. Can i do something about it?
Second part of the question - how to talk to people?
I swear since i remember i was very bad at small talks and talking in general, if im in a just a bit of stress i start to talk gibberish, my biggest issue though is when talking to girls, I discovered porn at 12, probably while rotting away my soul on discord during the pandemic inbetween playing csgo and minecraft, this could be the reason why im like that. I stress when talking to them and subcosciously ruin the conversation so it just becomes dry and it ends. - Any tips on how to fix that?
PS. Im not a bad looking guy, i feel like high mtn rn, still a cutecel from the early teenage years, i wont send my photo on here just yet.

Please someone just give me a glimpse of hope, i dont want to stay like this for the rest of my teenage years, i want to experience something that was never meant for me.

find a way to lower your coritsol and inhib and find yourself

 

[why not me?]

finding out about ND pill fuvking brutal mate

become cl so you dont worry about this stuff

 

[mrTaiki]

find a way to lower your coritsol and inhib and find yourself

whats an inhib

 

[LTNUser]

whats an inhib

Inhib is short for inhibition
If one is low inhib,it means he or she doesn't care about what people think of him/her and high Inhib is just its opposite

Being high inhib won't result in anything good and since you ain't no exception (as in someone who is super attractive)so simply try to lower your inhib by a few levels atleast so that your fear and anxiety eradicate to an extent making you feel a bit confident

 

[Linus1888]

You need to get invited to a party, drink some alcohol and get close to drunk. If you can’t predict when that will happen drink beer to slowly get up there, then start approaching random people and talk to them. For me This would get me atleast like 4 new friends in a night but I’m also severely NT

 

[brianZ]

Hello people, I have a serious question.
Im going into 3rd grade of highschool, my friend circle is very narrow, most of the people i know are way back from primary school.
I never got invited to a party, any party... (maybe except of some fuckass birthday parties back in primary school.) i feel like people like me, talk to me but they dont like me enough to invite to functions. Im very jealous of people my age to go out drinking, talk to others and stuff like that. Can i do something about it?
Second part of the question - how to talk to people?
I swear since i remember i was very bad at small talks and talking in general, if im in a just a bit of stress i start to talk gibberish, my biggest issue though is when talking to girls, I discovered porn at 12, probably while rotting away my soul on discord during the pandemic inbetween playing csgo and minecraft, this could be the reason why im like that. I stress when talking to them and subcosciously ruin the conversation so it just becomes dry and it ends. - Any tips on how to fix that?
PS. Im not a bad looking guy, i feel like high mtn rn, still a cutecel from the early teenage years, i wont send my photo on here just yet.

Please someone just give me a glimpse of hope, i dont want to stay like this for the rest of my teenage years, i want to experience something that was never meant for me.

Talk to everyone like they’re old friends, not in a weird way, just with confidence. That way you’ll transmit your confidence and naturally start a conversation. Ask about what they like, and remember you don’t need to be a Wall Street broker to talk to people, just be confident

 

[mrTaiki]

Inhib is short for inhibition
If one is low inhib,it means he or she doesn't care about what people think of him/her and high Inhib is just its opposite

Being high inhib won't result in anything good and since you ain't no exception (as in someone who is super attractive)so simply try to lower your inhib by a few levels atleast so that your fear and anxiety eradicate to an extent making you feel a bit confident

thanks

 

[elfmaxx]

Hello people, I have a serious question.
Im going into 3rd grade of highschool, my friend circle is very narrow, most of the people i know are way back from primary school.
I never got invited to a party, any party... (maybe except of some fuckass birthday parties back in primary school.) i feel like people like me, talk to me but they dont like me enough to invite to functions. Im very jealous of people my age to go out drinking, talk to others and stuff like that. Can i do something about it?
Second part of the question - how to talk to people?
I swear since i remember i was very bad at small talks and talking in general, if im in a just a bit of stress i start to talk gibberish, my biggest issue though is when talking to girls, I discovered porn at 12, probably while rotting away my soul on discord during the pandemic inbetween playing csgo and minecraft, this could be the reason why im like that. I stress when talking to them and subcosciously ruin the conversation so it just becomes dry and it ends. - Any tips on how to fix that?
PS. Im not a bad looking guy, i feel like high mtn rn, still a cutecel from the early teenage years, i wont send my photo on here just yet.

Please someone just give me a glimpse of hope, i dont want to stay like this for the rest of my teenage years, i want to experience something that was never meant for me.

You can practice your social skills in online games then apply it to real life.

You're fine lil bro, you have plenty of time to change and evolve.

 

[mrTaiki]

You can practice your social skills in online games then apply it to real life.

You're fine lil bro, you have plenty of time to change and evolve.

thanks man, I appreciate that alot