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in no particular order (most of these are "water", but still):
- they become (seemingly unnecessarily) defensive the second they register your presence
- they feel comfortable initiating sex/romance talk with you even though they've exchanged like 2 sentences with you prior to that
- they keep asking you questions it's obvious they know the answer to
- they try to get your relationship status out of you (and are mostly not too subtle about it)
- they make themselves dumber than they look to intensify the communication between you and try to get you to engage and, ideally, find an excuse for you to meet in private
- they use every opportunity they can to touch you, whether it's trying to get "accidental" physical contact or them, less subtly, finding some excuse to get you to touch them
- they go out of their way to praise anything they could about you, implying or explicitly stating you are a great boyfriend material
- in general, their baseline/current state of awareness and self-awareness tend to visibly change when they notice you
- dilated pupils and slightly opened mouth, of course
- when the entire group starts laughing, they look at you (this one is extremely reliable)
- already covered, but they find the silliest excuses to get your number from your female friends, or leave papers with cute messages including their name and number in your stuff/books (had this happen to me like 5+ times in 3 weeks of studying in the national library)
- if you haven't communicated with them yet, but they are around you a lot for some reason (neighbors, classmates, colleagues etc), their focus will skyrocket when you start talking to your friends or anyone else; they'll want to hear everything you say
a lot more, but it depends on the circumstances you find yourself in
also, there's quite a difference among girls mentality-wise; some will be way more direct with no hesitation, some will prefer those more passive, cute ways to get your attention. how much you objectively mog them and how much you fit their idea of good looks play a role here too, of course.
(obviously, in party/nightlife environment there's much less subtlety and bullshitting around, since everyone knows what the goal is. can't say much about online dating since i've never been desperate enough to try it.)
- they become (seemingly unnecessarily) defensive the second they register your presence
- they feel comfortable initiating sex/romance talk with you even though they've exchanged like 2 sentences with you prior to that
- they keep asking you questions it's obvious they know the answer to
- they try to get your relationship status out of you (and are mostly not too subtle about it)
- they make themselves dumber than they look to intensify the communication between you and try to get you to engage and, ideally, find an excuse for you to meet in private
- they use every opportunity they can to touch you, whether it's trying to get "accidental" physical contact or them, less subtly, finding some excuse to get you to touch them
- they go out of their way to praise anything they could about you, implying or explicitly stating you are a great boyfriend material
- in general, their baseline/current state of awareness and self-awareness tend to visibly change when they notice you
- dilated pupils and slightly opened mouth, of course
- when the entire group starts laughing, they look at you (this one is extremely reliable)
- already covered, but they find the silliest excuses to get your number from your female friends, or leave papers with cute messages including their name and number in your stuff/books (had this happen to me like 5+ times in 3 weeks of studying in the national library)
- if you haven't communicated with them yet, but they are around you a lot for some reason (neighbors, classmates, colleagues etc), their focus will skyrocket when you start talking to your friends or anyone else; they'll want to hear everything you say
a lot more, but it depends on the circumstances you find yourself in
also, there's quite a difference among girls mentality-wise; some will be way more direct with no hesitation, some will prefer those more passive, cute ways to get your attention. how much you objectively mog them and how much you fit their idea of good looks play a role here too, of course.
(obviously, in party/nightlife environment there's much less subtlety and bullshitting around, since everyone knows what the goal is. can't say much about online dating since i've never been desperate enough to try it.)
