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FutureTrueTyrone
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I liked this one girl and thought she was feeling me but couldn't even get pass close friends jfl. It all started on some random Tuesday when she decided to sit on my table, obviously it was unexpected because well I dont get much female attention in general so it was quite unexpected for this to happen but then I realised it was cuz one of her guy friends pulled up next to me. We all use to talk together and I noticed myself getting closer to her as the weeks went by, eventually she would tell me what she's doing this weekend and her week and stuff it was really nice to hear, but obviously I didn't have anything to say back as id mostly just stay home or go to the gym from time to time. She added me on snap but I would rarely open snap before so I didn't even notice she added me so she asked me irl why I didn't add her back and yeah I realised and just added her back a bit after that, on a random Friday after school and before a one week break she just texted me and was really friendly and I enjoyed talking to her we talked quite a lot and we both had to do stuff right but at night we found ourselves speaking again n she even wanted to play games with me but I had to do something with my family so I told her to give me a bit and I went ahead, I came back home after around 25-30 minutes to notice she's blocked me on every platform. I was genuinely wondering what I even did wrong and was obviously very weirded out n kinda bummed about the whole situation and was bitching to my friend (which is her friend also) and he texted her asking why she did that and she just said "I dont want to get into a talking stage with him" lmfasoo I didn't even imply this whatsoever but she assumed this even though she texted first and decided to just not engage, eventually my friend managed to convince her to unblock me and I found myself having her on my friends list again.
Our first convo after she added me again was essentially just trying to comprehend why she even did that, eventually I told her "I find you really pretty but im not trying to get into anything with you" she really appreciated this comment and basically we got kinda close after that one. I know she already made it clear she didn't want to get into anything and I didn't directly attempt to make any moves to her but man we would text until 3am, she would talk about her struggles and I would would ensure that id always be there for her and she would say things like awhhh or I appreciate you so much you're so sweet, now that im thinking back that may have been platonic but I guess it all depends on perspective but the DEFINING moment was the last day of school before summer. I said to my friend I wanted to hug her and he actually told her I was like fuckk but it actually benefited me. She wanted to do it as well and was actually excited (yes ik a hug isn't that deep but this was a basically 1.5 years ago) she opened her arms and hugged me, it felt so nice I would've accepted to just die there and would've felt accomplished in life (ik I sound like a virgin bum) but yeah I was actually that happy. As I went home I IMMEDIATELY reposted a video saying"how it felt hugging her for the first time" and she liked my repost and said to me this is so real, so now I actually thought that yessss I could be actually get with her.
Start of summer she was a bit distant but to be fair we were all, she was travelling meeting family okay okay that's chill. We were somehow getting even closer in summer then when we would see each other everyday, I was SO SURE me and her could be something when I sent her a photo of myself shirtless, and she replayed the snap and sent a photo of her in a bikini at some beach. This was when I was like yeah me and this girl are locked locked in and she would ask me to pick her titkoks for her as well haha.
When school started that was th great downfall, me and her started of really close but I was jealous and overprotective even though she wasn't even my girlfriend and yeah that made her feel like kinda weird but she appreciated it kind of. Me and her would talk in school, walk together but one thing I didn't really like was how over-friendly she was AGAIN this wasn't my place because she wasn't my girlfriend but when I saw her sitting down with my friend from years, I highly got mad but not at her though at my friend and she asked me if im okay after and I was like yes yes and she was like are you sureee so yeah she knew I was but said I shouldn't be so I calmed down realising of course its just her talking to another human like no big deal. I genuinely forgot why I did this but I told her "you know I like you yeah" and she said she knew and this was ON TEXT but she told me she doesn't date and its not me (obviously lies) but asked me if I still wanted to be friends so I said yes off. Holy, everyone of her friends knew she rejected me and the school as well I was actually seen as a bum, but in my dumbahh head I said "at least me n her are best friends" and would even send her those me n my girl best friend gay ass tiktoks. She blocked and unblocked me like twice man my cortisol was really high I was stressed out n always thinking about her. In some random class with ym friends I made some politically not okay jokes that revolved her country, yeah her friend was in that class and straight up told her. She never wanted to speak to me again after that but I had a feeling it wasn't because of the jokes, it was simply to get away from me.
She officially stopped talking to me and it didn't kinda hurt honestly, even if it wasn't as a partner, I wanted to be her but friend. The most brutal part is that she would talk to my "best friend" at the time and yeah she knew he also said those jokes but well he mogs me and she didn't really care about him making those jokes, so that also hurt.
On some random day last year I walked past her and she came up to me asking how ive been, I was hating on her so much but of course I was happy she talked to me after this long. She asked how I've been and told me ive missed so much and was smiling but then my fucking friend interrupted us n she just left, AND WE NEVERRR SPOKE AGAIN. Today she has a manlet boyfriend, "I dont date: she stated but yeah I watch them sit together n even hug and man it's really just something. She's also gotten really close to my old best friend and again I watch them speak during my frees while im sitting alone scrolling through here or any things.
TDLR: I got close to a girl I liked and we had a lot of mixed signals (late-night texting, snaps, hugging), which made me think something could happen. She said she didn’t want to date and only wanted to be friends, then things got messy and she eventually cut me off. Now she has a boyfriend and is close with my old best friend, and I’m left feeling replaced.
Our first convo after she added me again was essentially just trying to comprehend why she even did that, eventually I told her "I find you really pretty but im not trying to get into anything with you" she really appreciated this comment and basically we got kinda close after that one. I know she already made it clear she didn't want to get into anything and I didn't directly attempt to make any moves to her but man we would text until 3am, she would talk about her struggles and I would would ensure that id always be there for her and she would say things like awhhh or I appreciate you so much you're so sweet, now that im thinking back that may have been platonic but I guess it all depends on perspective but the DEFINING moment was the last day of school before summer. I said to my friend I wanted to hug her and he actually told her I was like fuckk but it actually benefited me. She wanted to do it as well and was actually excited (yes ik a hug isn't that deep but this was a basically 1.5 years ago) she opened her arms and hugged me, it felt so nice I would've accepted to just die there and would've felt accomplished in life (ik I sound like a virgin bum) but yeah I was actually that happy. As I went home I IMMEDIATELY reposted a video saying"how it felt hugging her for the first time" and she liked my repost and said to me this is so real, so now I actually thought that yessss I could be actually get with her.
Start of summer she was a bit distant but to be fair we were all, she was travelling meeting family okay okay that's chill. We were somehow getting even closer in summer then when we would see each other everyday, I was SO SURE me and her could be something when I sent her a photo of myself shirtless, and she replayed the snap and sent a photo of her in a bikini at some beach. This was when I was like yeah me and this girl are locked locked in and she would ask me to pick her titkoks for her as well haha.
When school started that was th great downfall, me and her started of really close but I was jealous and overprotective even though she wasn't even my girlfriend and yeah that made her feel like kinda weird but she appreciated it kind of. Me and her would talk in school, walk together but one thing I didn't really like was how over-friendly she was AGAIN this wasn't my place because she wasn't my girlfriend but when I saw her sitting down with my friend from years, I highly got mad but not at her though at my friend and she asked me if im okay after and I was like yes yes and she was like are you sureee so yeah she knew I was but said I shouldn't be so I calmed down realising of course its just her talking to another human like no big deal. I genuinely forgot why I did this but I told her "you know I like you yeah" and she said she knew and this was ON TEXT but she told me she doesn't date and its not me (obviously lies) but asked me if I still wanted to be friends so I said yes off. Holy, everyone of her friends knew she rejected me and the school as well I was actually seen as a bum, but in my dumbahh head I said "at least me n her are best friends" and would even send her those me n my girl best friend gay ass tiktoks. She blocked and unblocked me like twice man my cortisol was really high I was stressed out n always thinking about her. In some random class with ym friends I made some politically not okay jokes that revolved her country, yeah her friend was in that class and straight up told her. She never wanted to speak to me again after that but I had a feeling it wasn't because of the jokes, it was simply to get away from me.
She officially stopped talking to me and it didn't kinda hurt honestly, even if it wasn't as a partner, I wanted to be her but friend. The most brutal part is that she would talk to my "best friend" at the time and yeah she knew he also said those jokes but well he mogs me and she didn't really care about him making those jokes, so that also hurt.
On some random day last year I walked past her and she came up to me asking how ive been, I was hating on her so much but of course I was happy she talked to me after this long. She asked how I've been and told me ive missed so much and was smiling but then my fucking friend interrupted us n she just left, AND WE NEVERRR SPOKE AGAIN. Today she has a manlet boyfriend, "I dont date: she stated but yeah I watch them sit together n even hug and man it's really just something. She's also gotten really close to my old best friend and again I watch them speak during my frees while im sitting alone scrolling through here or any things.
TDLR: I got close to a girl I liked and we had a lot of mixed signals (late-night texting, snaps, hugging), which made me think something could happen. She said she didn’t want to date and only wanted to be friends, then things got messy and she eventually cut me off. Now she has a boyfriend and is close with my old best friend, and I’m left feeling replaced.
. feelsbadbhai
