Husband had gained weight and I feel scammed

[GalacticHero]

I’ve been married to him for 7 years. When I first met him one of the reasons I fell in love with him because he acted like he was into healthy eating and fitness (like me)

These past few years he’s gained 60lbs. He’s went from 170 to 230. I’ve stayed the same weight. He no longer seems to enjoy hiking with me or buying healthy food.

We went to a water park a couple days ago and I was downright embarrassed to be standing next to him! I feel like people are going to judge me for having this opinion but everyone has preferences right? He says he likes thinner women with long hair. Always mentions he wouldn’t wanting me to cut my hair short.

So two years ago I mentioned how he seems to have gained weight and we should go back to mindful eating. He agrees but he won’t ever change. He doesn’t care. He would rather play his phone and binge eat potato chips. It’s caused him health issues like high blood pressure and extremely loud snoring and I can’t sleep.

This morning when I asked him if he was going to work out he said no and said “I thought you were into fitness?” And he said “I am into fitting this cheeseburger into my mouth”

So he’s never going to try or care to get healthy. His grandpa is massively overweight and sits in a chair all day. His grandma has to serve his grandpa food all day. I don’t want this to be my future. Anyone overcome something like this in a marriage? We have children so it’s tough.

Why do people get into marriages by lying to impress and then dropping it all.

 

[FastBananaCEO]

Person behind the original post:

 

[Magnus Ironblood]

Why don't you cook him some healthy and tasty meals then, you lazy bitch.

Get the fuck back to the kitchen, cunt.

He should beat you

 

[PUNK1986]

Why don't you cook him some healthy and tasty meals then, you lazy bitch.

Get the fuck back to the kitchen, cunt.

He should beat you

What i wanna know is how the fuck does he have “insane health issues” at 230, obviously 230 is overweight but by the way she worded it hes more like 430

 

[Eren]

These niggas getting into relationships while I’m a 24 yo shredded khhv

 

[chadhamed]

Ur a fag

 

[DALITMOGGER 6']

Why don't you cook him some healthy and tasty meals then, you lazy bitch.

Get the fuck back to the kitchen, cunt.

He should beat you

Based

 

[italoid]

I’ve been married to him for 7 years. When I first met him one of the reasons I fell in love with him because he acted like he was into healthy eating and fitness (like me)

These past few years he’s gained 60lbs. He’s went from 170 to 230. I’ve stayed the same weight. He no longer seems to enjoy hiking with me or buying healthy food.

We went to a water park a couple days ago and I was downright embarrassed to be standing next to him! I feel like people are going to judge me for having this opinion but everyone has preferences right? He says he likes thinner women with long hair. Always mentions he wouldn’t wanting me to cut my hair short.

So two years ago I mentioned how he seems to have gained weight and we should go back to mindful eating. He agrees but he won’t ever change. He doesn’t care. He would rather play his phone and binge eat potato chips. It’s caused him health issues like high blood pressure and extremely loud snoring and I can’t sleep.

This morning when I asked him if he was going to work out he said no and said “I thought you were into fitness?” And he said “I am into fitting this cheeseburger into my mouth”

So he’s never going to try or care to get healthy. His grandpa is massively overweight and sits in a chair all day. His grandma has to serve his grandpa food all day. I don’t want this to be my future. Anyone overcome something like this in a marriage? We have children so it’s tough.

Why do people get into marriages by lying to impress and then dropping it all.

tf is this

 

[DirtyBlonde]

Can already see the redditcels DM'ing the OP

 

[DrunkenSailor]

But i thought body positivity n all dat?