ElySioNs
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My girlfriend’s best friend is staying with us for the weekend and they were talking about a guy that one of their mutual friends is seeing, and how he’s really freaky in bed and he makes her scream and all of that. Then my gf’s friend pulled up a picture of the dudes dick that the friend sent to her, and I can’t help but feel a little upset about how my girlfriend reacted.
She basically was speechless, but not in the way somebody is when they’re uncomfortable and don’t want to give a reaction, she was like “wow, that’s… holy shit, that’s not even right… fuck” or something along those lines. Basically she was impressed and she didn’t bother to make any mention of me or say anything reassuring towards me even though I was sitting right there, and she knows I can be sexually insecure.
I know the picture wasn’t sent directly to her from this dude and it was just a part of ‘girl talk’, but I wouldn’t react to another woman’s body like that, especially not in front of her. Sometimes she shows me pictures of IG models and ask me if I think they are hotter than her, or if they have a nice body and I always give a nonchalant response out of respect. So it was very hurtful to see her react in such a way about another guy’s dick. Also, it seems kind of shitty to me that they’re sharing around this guy’s package amongst the friend group, but that’s a different issue.
Since I have a history of (sometimes unreasonable) sexual insecurity I want some feedback to see my feelings are justified before I bring them up to her. We’ve been together for a year.
She basically was speechless, but not in the way somebody is when they’re uncomfortable and don’t want to give a reaction, she was like “wow, that’s… holy shit, that’s not even right… fuck” or something along those lines. Basically she was impressed and she didn’t bother to make any mention of me or say anything reassuring towards me even though I was sitting right there, and she knows I can be sexually insecure.
I know the picture wasn’t sent directly to her from this dude and it was just a part of ‘girl talk’, but I wouldn’t react to another woman’s body like that, especially not in front of her. Sometimes she shows me pictures of IG models and ask me if I think they are hotter than her, or if they have a nice body and I always give a nonchalant response out of respect. So it was very hurtful to see her react in such a way about another guy’s dick. Also, it seems kind of shitty to me that they’re sharing around this guy’s package amongst the friend group, but that’s a different issue.
Since I have a history of (sometimes unreasonable) sexual insecurity I want some feedback to see my feelings are justified before I bring them up to her. We’ve been together for a year.