sorrowfulsad
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I am 29, I am a man. I have phimosis (tight foreskin). Sex hurts. It has been unenjoyable since the first time. For years the "OMG I'm having sex, this is awesome!" feeling has died down and the discomfort has come to the forefront.
I no longer have sex regularly. I prefer to not have it at all, but I sometimes crave the intimacy of being with another person. So, for a couple of years, about 2-3 times a year, when I'm inconsolably horny, I'll get plastered drunk, get on Grindr and invite a dude over to blast my b-hole.
Now, I don't really have any problem with this, but I am exclusively attracted to women. I actually am not gay, but I just don't really care enough for this to be an issue. It's just a couple of adults finding pleasure with each other. It's not a big deal to me.
Before you ask, I'm not bisexual. Men do nothing for me, just the act. I cannot look at a man and be attracted to them whether or not they are objectively attractive.
I no longer have sex regularly. I prefer to not have it at all, but I sometimes crave the intimacy of being with another person. So, for a couple of years, about 2-3 times a year, when I'm inconsolably horny, I'll get plastered drunk, get on Grindr and invite a dude over to blast my b-hole.
Now, I don't really have any problem with this, but I am exclusively attracted to women. I actually am not gay, but I just don't really care enough for this to be an issue. It's just a couple of adults finding pleasure with each other. It's not a big deal to me.
Before you ask, I'm not bisexual. Men do nothing for me, just the act. I cannot look at a man and be attracted to them whether or not they are objectively attractive.
