I am scared of intimacy

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I am scared of slaying and scared of intimacy. How to get over this.
 
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Maybe you can practice as they say practice makes
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I am scared of slaying and scared of intimacy. How to get over this.
Is it because of trauma? (Trauma can be alot of things like bullying, isolation, family issues and physical abuse.) it’s hard to get over it, the best thing you can do that doesn’t involve inhibition inhibitors is getting a dominant gf that takes controll
 
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Scared of what, tell me more
 
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Is it because of trauma? (Trauma can be alot of things like bullying, isolation, family issues and physical abuse.) it’s hard to get over it, the best thing you can do that doesn’t involve inhibition inhibitors is getting a dominant gf that takes controll
Isolation and family issues
 
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Isolation and family issues
Same here, you should practice how to speak with people while being friendly. Like for example greet people while walking, speak to guys and girls in a friendly manner and just listen to them and if it’s awkward or something it’s no need to try and say lots of things. Because it’s there men usually fumble girls. You should speak about your isolation and family issues to a trusted friend, coworker or therapist. Your traumas will never be gone but it can be reduced. I also struggle with women, I never speak to women on my own initiative but guys are easy to talk with because of all the years I have learned to communicate with people. Thankfully my gf liked me for a long time and I didn’t get he hints so my friend told me straight up that you should ask her out. I was kinda nervous but I man myself up and asked her over text😅 but thankfully she said yes and we are together now for 5 months. I have trouble loving her when I’m not with her and the first time she tried to aneciate IT I didn’t know what to do. But after a long time of trying we finally did it and it’s because she helped me a lot to do it. Just find a dominant gf Gotham takes controll if you are scared of having intercourse or just having a normal conversation. Hope this helps;):):Comfy:
 
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Same here, you should practice how to speak with people while being friendly. Like for example greet people while walking, speak to guys and girls in a friendly manner and just listen to them and if it’s awkward or something it’s no need to try and say lots of things. Because it’s there men usually fumble girls. You should speak about your isolation and family issues to a trusted friend, coworker or therapist. Your traumas will never be gone but it can be reduced. I also struggle with women, I never speak to women on my own initiative but guys are easy to talk with because of all the years I have learned to communicate with people. Thankfully my gf liked me for a long time and I didn’t get he hints so my friend told me straight up that you should ask her out. I was kinda nervous but I man myself up and asked her over text😅 but thankfully she said yes and we are together now for 5 months. I have trouble loving her when I’m not with her and the first time she tried to aneciate IT I didn’t know what to do. But after a long time of trying we finally did it and it’s because she helped me a lot to do it. Just find a dominant gf Gotham takes controll if you are scared of having intercourse or just having a normal conversation. Hope this helps;):):Comfy:
I am already seeing a therapist
 
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No need to be scared. Just tell your boyfriend to be gentle
 
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Idk man the new therapist that I’ve got is slightly worse than the old one I had
Get a good therapist that specializes in isolation and family issues that is approximately your age
 
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I’m not a chad. I am a confirmed mtn from the ratings I’ve gotten here via dm and I’m only 5’7
Ur situation is fascinating you shouldnt be able to attract foids that much at 5 7
 
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I am scared of slaying and scared of intimacy. How to get over this.
I'm still at a crossroads, wondering whether I should try to lose my virginity with the blonde low-class HTB, or wait and pray that my oneitis will overcome her ex and give me some pussy.
 
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I'm still at a crossroads, wondering whether I should try to lose my virginity with the blonde low-class HTB, or wait and pray that my oneitis will overcome her ex and give me some pussy.
It depends if you feel like virginity is a burden. I lost it because I felt like it was a burden.
 
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It depends if you feel like virginity is a burden. I lost it because I felt like it was a burden.
Nah i don't think so, i just don't wanna still losing experiences, but i don't want to lose my virginity with a girl i don't love+I'm concern with my religion.I just still thinking about it i don't think there is any advice from anyone who can actually help me, but thanks.
 
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Nah i don't think so, i just don't wanna still losing experiences, but i don't want to lose my virginity with a girl i don't love+I'm concern with my religion.I just still thinking about it i don't think there is any advice from anyone who can actually help me, but thanks.
Understandable
 
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