I am such a pussy bro

[Plushie]

I had the PERFECT opportunity to eat lunch with my crush and her friend today, my entire class is split into 2 during science lessons and my entire friend group got the other group, and my crush + her friend are basically the only people I know well enough to hang out with other than them, and THEY got into my split of the class. I was plotting all lesson on how I could as non-awkwardly as possible ask if we could eat lunch together (I don't usually eat lunch with them, but if I know no other people it makes sense in my head that I eat with them since they are cool with me too)

During the lesson we needed to pair up in pairs of 2, of course, and my crush + her friend paired up obviously. This led to me pairing up with the most popular dude in my class and he was clearly annoyed by us having to be a pair, and he treated me kinda like a popular girl treats an autistic ltn, with the whole "we are best bros right?" and fake nice bullshit. This led to my confidence being fucking eviscerated, and I ended up quickly walking out of the classroom when the lesson ended, skipping lunch, and going to the gym instead, listening to me and the birds and hitting back

How do I quit being such a fucking pussy bro

 

[Sceptical]

I ended up quickly walking out of the classroom when the lesson ended, skipping lunch, and going to the gym instead, listening to me and the birds and hitting back

stop listening to doomer music when you're feeling sad, it only makes your mood even worse

 

[SoundnVision]

1g test

 

[Quncho]

I had the PERFECT opportunity to eat lunch with my crush and her friend today, my entire class is split into 2 during science lessons and my entire friend group got the other group, and my crush + her friend are basically the only people I know well enough to hang out with other than them, and THEY got into my split of the class. I was plotting all lesson on how I could as non-awkwardly as possible ask if we could eat lunch together (I don't usually eat lunch with them, but if I know no other people it makes sense in my head that I eat with them since they are cool with me too)

During the lesson we needed to pair up in pairs of 2, of course, and my crush + her friend paired up obviously. This led to me pairing up with the most popular dude in my class and he was clearly annoyed by us having to be a pair, and he treated me kinda like a popular girl treats an autistic ltn, with the whole "we are best bros right?" and fake nice bullshit. This led to my confidence being fucking eviscerated, and I ended up quickly walking out of the classroom when the lesson ended, skipping lunch, and going to the gym instead, listening to me and the birds and hitting back

How do I quit being such a fucking pussy bro

Dont think, do. Discipline is key. If you're rejected you're rejected. Better then never knowing what could've been.

 

[Napoleon1800]

This is interesting, I’ll be honest I didn’t read but usually there’s two things:

- either you are just ugly and your lack of confidence comes from that and if that is the case then I’d recommend you actually avoid engaging in social shit especially trying to interact with girls because you will just be traumatised from the brutal rejection and reputation destruction
- you are not ugly but clearly became non ugly late and thus your lack of confidence from when you weren’t ugly lingers on, in that case it’s a very hard transition but you basically have to go gorilla mode and live with a YOLO mindset, do meditation, or take drugs (anything that reduces inhibitions)

Ideally when you are young you should be either good looking so you’re social shit doesn’t matter or good looking to the point that you can then get integrated into a popular social group and then develop from there. That’s why normies are so effortless

 

[xevuxia]

Dnr
@Gaygymmaxx

 

[crazyguy]

I had the PERFECT opportunity to eat lunch with my crush and her friend today, my entire class is split into 2 during science lessons and my entire friend group got the other group, and my crush + her friend are basically the only people I know well enough to hang out with other than them, and THEY got into my split of the class. I was plotting all lesson on how I could as non-awkwardly as possible ask if we could eat lunch together (I don't usually eat lunch with them, but if I know no other people it makes sense in my head that I eat with them since they are cool with me too)

During the lesson we needed to pair up in pairs of 2, of course, and my crush + her friend paired up obviously. This led to me pairing up with the most popular dude in my class and he was clearly annoyed by us having to be a pair, and he treated me kinda like a popular girl treats an autistic ltn, with the whole "we are best bros right?" and fake nice bullshit. This led to my confidence being fucking eviscerated, and I ended up quickly walking out of the classroom when the lesson ended, skipping lunch, and going to the gym instead, listening to me and the birds and hitting back

How do I quit being such a fucking pussy bro

increase your ego

 

[Plushie]

1g test

this honestly might be the way

 

[SoundnVision]

this honestly might be the way

Dont

 

[joan]

I had the PERFECT opportunity to eat lunch with my crush and her friend today, my entire class is split into 2 during science lessons and my entire friend group got the other group, and my crush + her friend are basically the only people I know well enough to hang out with other than them, and THEY got into my split of the class. I was plotting all lesson on how I could as non-awkwardly as possible ask if we could eat lunch together (I don't usually eat lunch with them, but if I know no other people it makes sense in my head that I eat with them since they are cool with me too)

During the lesson we needed to pair up in pairs of 2, of course, and my crush + her friend paired up obviously. This led to me pairing up with the most popular dude in my class and he was clearly annoyed by us having to be a pair, and he treated me kinda like a popular girl treats an autistic ltn, with the whole "we are best bros right?" and fake nice bullshit. This led to my confidence being fucking eviscerated, and I ended up quickly walking out of the classroom when the lesson ended, skipping lunch, and going to the gym instead, listening to me and the birds and hitting back

How do I quit being such a fucking pussy bro

You are not a pussy. Atleast imo. I kinda understand you.

 

[Plushie]

This is interesting, I’ll be honest I didn’t read but usually there’s two things:

- either you are just ugly and your lack of confidence comes from that and if that is the case then I’d recommend you actually avoid engaging in social shit especially trying to interact with girls because you will just be traumatised from the brutal rejection and reputation destruction
- you are not ugly but clearly became non ugly late and thus your lack of confidence from when you weren’t ugly lingers on, in that case it’s a very hard transition but you basically have to go gorilla mode and live with a YOLO mindset, do meditation, or take drugs (anything that reduces inhibitions)

Ideally when you are young you should be either good looking so you’re social shit doesn’t matter or good looking to the point that you can then get integrated into a popular social group and then develop from there. That’s why normies are so effortless

I started school absolutely chopped, now im less chopped atleast. Because I joined school absolutely chopped and looking like an outsider (I didn't take care of myself at all basically) I got into the worst friend group ever. I was a big extrovert before high school, but in my new class I am an absolute beta so it's hard to be confident. I used to not fit in at all and I still get treated like an outsider obviously, which is why I am currently considering switching schools. Sorry for the big rant reply lol

 

[Plushie]

stop listening to doomer music when you're feeling sad, it only makes your mood even worse

listening to it rn