I am very shy and cant speak clearly in meetings

[Deusmaximus]

Have a new job in finance. When I have to speak in the daily meetings, my adrenaline starts to pump immediately, my voice gets shaky and I speak like a weak nervous idiot. I also had to make a presentation in front of my boss and totally fucked up. At the end she said: "No need to be nervous, just speak clearly with load voice and confidence". I was so embarassed that I still want to quit this job since I completely lost my face.

I will experiment with Lyrica and beta blockers, but I dont see how I could stop my nervousness when speaking in front of people.

 

[Beastimmung]

You choose the wrong career then cause this job is just about useless meeting about useless processes and projects all the time

 

[Pavol]

 

[fuxkdakikez]

this is why i don’t want to get a job

 

[not__cel]

Bro just be confident you shouldn’t be scared you already got the job

 

[Deusmaximus]

You choose the wrong career then cause this job is just about useless meeting about useless processes and projects all the time

Yeah its a bullshit company with a bad product that cant even compete against highly digital and efficient competitors. The team and manager is very toxic and negative.

 

[normie_joe]

At the end she said: "No need to be nervous, just speak clearly with load voice and confidence".

That would piss me off hearing that tbh. It's the same energy as "why are you so quiet?"

 

[Deusmaximus]

Bro just be confident you shouldn’t be scared you already got the job

Its not a confidence issue, its hormonal. As if my body is producing too much adrenaline. Its literally impossible to stop this once I have to present myself.

 

[not__cel]

It’s not a confidence issue, it’s hormonal. As if my body is producing too much adrenaline. It’s literally impossible to stop this once I have to present myself.

Yeah take drugs and practice ask a friend to help you practice

 

[vanillaicecream]

"No need to be nervous, just speak clearly with load voice and confidence".

Stupid bitch, you should've said "yeah, let me go ahead and magically make myself a different person and change all the events of the past that made me the way I am"

People don't understand how reality works. You can't just develop confidence out of thin air for no reason.