I asked

[IWantToMax]

Just asked my friend about oneitis.

He told me not to type he on IG because she's a lot selective, and probably wouldn't reply (which I already assumed)

He told me to know her irl.

The problem is, how the fuck am I supposed to get to know her jfl.

He legit told me my best bet is to follow her around, and get to know her irl.

How tf am I supposed to start a conversation with her how of the blue considering we don't know each other jfl.

Fucking over

 

[Deleted member 1140]

just approach her and stop being a pussy

 

[LookistWorld]

I'd just give up on her and go for the girls who are actually into you bro. This is going to be more trouble than it's worth, and probably won't end well

 

[Downey]

from the title thought it was gonna be a response to the “thats cool bro but I didnt ask” thing

 

[Deleted member 4209]

i am finally getting over my oneitis after several brutal rejections

 

[Deleted member 1140]

I'd just give up on her and go for the girls who are actually into you bro. This is going to be more trouble than it's worth, and probably won't end well

cope. i cold approached my gf and im with her since 4 years. she didnt give a single ioi

 

[IWantToMax]

just approach her and stop being a pussy

How'd you do it? I'm not really good at small talks tbh
Also I rarely see her, my best bet would be to get back to the gym and get to know her there

I'd just give up on her and go for the girls who are actually into you bro. This is going to be more trouble than it's worth, and probably won't end well

Why would I give up on her if I haven't even tried jfl.
I've seen her twice in 4 years, and hanged out once, she probably doesn't even know who I am.

 

[Deleted member 1140]

How'd you do it? I'm not really good at small talks tbh
Also I rarely see her, my best bet would be to get back to the gym and get to know her there


Why would I give up on her if I haven't even tried jfl.
I've seen her twice in 4 years, and hanged out once, she probably doesn't even know who I am.

i saw her at the gym a few times, then when i was going home from school i saw her in the same train as me, going out at the same station and then after following her for like 20-30 seconds i just walked fast and said "hi, are you going to the same gym as me?". she replied with yes and smiled, then we had casual small talk for like 15 minutes while walking to the gym. a few months later i asked her for number after seeing her again

 

[IWantToMax]

i saw her at the gym a few times, then when i was going home from gym i saw her in the same train as me, going out at the same station and then after following her for like 20-30 seconds i just walked fast and said "hi, are you going to the same gym as me?". she replied with yes and smiled, then we had casual small talk for like 15 minutes while walking to the gym. a few months later i asked her for number after seeing her again

Fuark, motivates me.

 

[Deleted member 1140]

Fuark, motivates me.

but keep in mind i slightly looksmog her as people on here told me

 

[IWantToMax]

but keep in mind i slightly looksmog her as people on here told me

I think she mogs me a little tbh, she's really good looking