I became beautiful and it changed nothing

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I looksmaxxed and ascended hard. I was already blessed with good facial bones but losing weight, having a nice hair style, improving fashion and putting on a bit of muslce has ascneded me. I get plenty of matches and dates from hinge/tinder and the girls are genuinly beautiful. But i dont get any second dates. Dont get me wrong, over the years i fucked some beautiful girls and one wa genuinly model tier but otherwise, its mostly the girls in the 5-7 bracket that are down to fuck. Any real beautiful girl is hard. They want not only looks but either charisma and "game" or status. It blackpilled me hard. All this looksmaxing to settle for a 6/10 roastie?

I am genuinly beautiful. I have top tier cheekboens, i have a strong jawline. Every party one fag comes up to me and tells me i look like a greek god. But its still not enough for my looksmatch in 2025. I lack the confidence, the suave personality that someone has who was good looking his whole life. My brain is still in rott mode or in fat chubby kid mode. Looksmaxing doesnt change anything.

Sry for black pilling but just money and escortmaxx guys. Its more worth it then trying to looksmax unless you can really achieve model tier level like few here did.
 
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Of course you need charsima/personality to be attractive, if they went on a date but you didn't have a second one it is either bc you fraud your pics (doesn't seem that it is the case) or you're just behaving in a non-likable manner
 
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just insult foids man, by the way you type you're a high inhib nice guy
change it up and start abusing girls
 
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how I imagine OP looking while typing this:

1736771895892
 
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Of course you need charsima/personality to be attractive, if they went on a date but you didn't have a second one it is either bc you fraud your pics (doesn't seem that it is the case) or you're just behaving in a non-likable manner
I get told every date that i look even better irl. I know its my personality.
just insult foids man, by the way you type you're a high inhib nice guy
change it up and start abusing girls
How? U are definitely right. I behave too timid but i am normal guy. I just chat with them. Try to touch and initiate kiss. Nothing special
 
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Looks are not enough to get looksmatch for LTR.
 
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Youre nowhere near as gl as you think you are
 
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Most of those girls have boyfriends or go back to their ex soon after the date. You are not going to get a lot of second dates. But you should be able to get some.
 
Youre nowhere near as gl as you think you are
I can only go off on what people tell me and treat me. If i get approached by guys/girls every party who tell me that i look like greek god, then it means that i am above average looking. I am no chad, but definitely chadlite.
 
I can only go off on what people tell me and treat me. If i get approached by guys/girls every party who tell me that i look like greek god, then it means that i am above average looking. I am no chad, but definitely chadlite.
Do you show your face in pms?
 
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I can only go off on what people tell me and treat me. If i get approached by guys/girls every party who tell me that i look like greek god, then it means that i am above average looking. I am no chad, but definitely chadlite.
so chicks approach you at parties telling you that you're hot but somehow you don't end up having sex with them :forcedsmile::lul:?

fishy thread
 
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yeah thats how it works bud, time you realized it, charisma and status will top looks 9/10 times when it comes to ltr
 
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I get told every date that i look even better irl. I know its my personality.

How? U are definitely right. I behave too timid but i am normal guy. I just chat with them. Try to touch and initiate kiss. Nothing special
that's why you get your foot in the door but can't make the foids obsessed and yearn for cock

U have to play on their feelings and make them go from extra happy to suicidal in a matter of minutes, girls are easy once you figure out how to play on their brains. They like rollercoasters of emotions, they HATE stability

don't 'try to touch or kiss', just tell them 'yea you can yap all you want but just fucking kiss me already bitch'. you know what I mean?
 
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Whining about being able to get easy 5-7s while some of us are truecel and can’t even get a 0/10…
 
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I get told every date that i look even better irl. I know its my personality.

How? U are definitely right. I behave too timid but i am normal guy. I just chat with them. Try to touch and initiate kiss. Nothing special
You need to practice assetiveness
Behave like someone who has the results you want did behave, when you wanna say something, imagine if Matthew McConaughey said it in a romcom the girl would like it.
Do you want to go eat ramen ? vs Let's go eat ramen.
Then interpret he facial & body reactions as answers

there's a lot of info on how to be more assertive and speak in a more masculine manner over the internet, look into that.
You must make her feel good and feminine.
 
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Chadlite since teen years is not the same as someone who became chadlite at some late stage of their life. You'll need to catch up.
 
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so chicks approach you at parties telling you that you're hot but somehow you don't end up having sex with them :forcedsmile::lul:?

fishy thread
low inhib and nt pill is underrated asf
u can look like ramirez all u want but if you're a high inhib twitchy nerd, you getting 0 pussy
 
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"some of us truecel"
"slay count: 48"
You are not truecel

I became truecel due to old age and rapidly rising standards bro. I have not been able to get any type of girl in over a year.
 
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but yea, i can confirm that being above average looking isnt enough to get laid if you're high inhib and just a timid guy who makes the girl feel like shes above him.

As opposed to what most hardcore-blackpillers will say, "game" does play a role, unless you're really in the top 1% of men. At that point your face just halos and compensates for all your flaws.
 
check out this thread

 
imagination jerking off GIF
 
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check out this thread

Good thread but how to achieve this as a high-inhib guy in the first place?
 
Good thread but how to achieve this as a high-inhib guy in the first place?
realise life is meaningless and start not caring about anything
or hack your brain with drugs and psychedelics

or tbh hop on roids
 
Literally a skill issue or you're not as good looking as you think, I also got compliments but I look like shit, if you're that good looking then just acting normal is enough, you don't need an extraordinary personality to pull
 
trying to make sense of foids brains is the biggest distraction in life, young buck
 
Pin test or take dexies/adderall/ritalin/cocaine or just grow some balls and work on your charisma through trial and error. That or you're not as good looking as you think but I doubt it if you legitimately get called a greek god on a regular basis and have smashed several hot babes.
 
Pretty much. In my experience its like this: If the girl is below your looks level, her behavior and also your instinctual behavior will make her chase you. If shes closer to your looks level, you have to simulate the former situation through charisma, confidence, "game". Its difficult cause shes gonna try to test you. I lack the nt charisma and social status to really get successful with my looksmatches.
 
try drinking more / taking pregab it will make u more likeable and low inhib.
 
Pretty much. In my experience its like this: If the girl is below your looks level, her behavior and also your instinctual behavior will make her chase you. If shes closer to your looks level, you have to simulate the former situation through charisma, confidence, "game". Its difficult cause shes gonna try to test you. I lack the nt charisma and social status to really get successful with my looksmatches.
So youre basically saying youre not getting youre so called ''looksmatch'' because of your personality?
 
Without pics this is just some bluepilled indian larper.
 
So youre basically saying youre not getting youre so called ''looksmatch'' because of your personality?
Yes. Not that i am a total psycho or autist but i dont excite the women with a interesting lifestyle or being super charismatic and confident. A girl has so many options, especially on her own looksmatch level. You have to stick out in some way to make up for it. If i recall dating girls below my looks level, it was super easy. They fell strongly in love with me, chased me and i didnt need any game whatsoever. It was enough to be just somewhat normal.
 
Yes. Not that i am a total psycho or autist but i dont excite the women with a interesting lifestyle or being super charismatic and confident. A girl has so many options, especially on her own looksmatch level. You have to stick out in some way to make up for it. If i recall dating girls below my looks level, it was super easy. They fell strongly in love with me, chased me and i didnt need any game whatsoever. It was enough to be just somewhat normal.
Youre right, NT is law
 
Personality matters when you're in the average to above average range. You're probably not chadlite / chad tier, you don't need a personality when you look like a model.
 
Personality matters when you're in the average to above average range. You're probably not chadlite / chad tier, you don't need a personality when you look like a model.
Of course you need it when you are dealing with looksmatch/also model tier girl. Also, i never said i am model level. I am chadlite which is below model tier.
 
Inb4 OP gets revealed to be anothef faggot with filler
 
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I tried telling these people here that this would happen unless you work on your social skills and mindset. You can be an 8/10 in looks and be better looking then everyone in most rooms you're in, but if you're not mimicking NT you will waste your potential.

People who have been good looking their whole life know to their core and to their bones they are good looking so when they get rejected they don't think twice about it cause they know they are good looking. People who get good looking later often still feel like the ugly duckling. So you need social skills, confidence, and access to social groups.
 
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I looksmaxxed and ascended hard. I was already blessed with good facial bones but losing weight, having a nice hair style, improving fashion and putting on a bit of muslce has ascneded me. I get plenty of matches and dates from hinge/tinder and the girls are genuinly beautiful. But i dont get any second dates. Dont get me wrong, over the years i fucked some beautiful girls and one wa genuinly model tier but otherwise, its mostly the girls in the 5-7 bracket that are down to fuck. Any real beautiful girl is hard. They want not only looks but either charisma and "game" or status. It blackpilled me hard. All this looksmaxing to settle for a 6/10 roastie?

I am genuinly beautiful. I have top tier cheekboens, i have a strong jawline. Every party one fag comes up to me and tells me i look like a greek god. But its still not enough for my looksmatch in 2025. I lack the confidence, the suave personality that someone has who was good looking his whole life. My brain is still in rott mode or in fat chubby kid mode. Looksmaxing doesnt change anything.

Sry for black pilling but just money and escortmaxx guys. Its more worth it then trying to looksmax unless you can really achieve model tier level like few here did.
The women can sense the blackpill
 

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