daunas
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never even knew avoidant was a thing, and not so long ago ive learnt about avoidant attachment issues and that its hard loving avoidant ones when you have anxious attachment issues. first 2 months of being a couple was ofcourse a honeymoon phase, and when the third month of our relationship started, i started to notice, she started to be distant with me, and i was anxious, and thought shes losing feelings for me, i tried to talk with her and it didnt work when she the one said that “communication is key” its not gonna work if shes the avoidant one, the pressure is gonna crush her.. i tried proving my love for her and that i was loyal and it didnt work.. she kept distancing herself from me, also she has depression(and she would always say she has no energy to talk or do something with me). and when i learnt about avoidant issues, i tried those tricks like typing the same energy back to her, and i think she just thought im getting bored of her so i boosted losing feelings for me more. is it even possible that she will come back to me?
