I cannot imagine being sexually active and being a good person at the same time

[Van]

One excludes the other.

If I had sex, there is no way I could also be a good friend/son/volunteer/brother, etc.

That would be cognitive dissonance.

There is no way I could have sex and not feel like stupid animal, evil criminal, machiavellian psychopath.

When I imagine it, the only way for me to be who I trully want to is to never engage in sexual acts.

And that's actually one of the reasons why the society is deeply flawed and full of ignorant/psychopatic/evil/non-caring/dull people. Most of them have sex and it is impossible for them to actually have what it takes to be truly good person.

They are dulled by this animalic sweaty orgasmic chronic trance, they are in constant state of either expecting sex or having it. Their whole life revolves around it. They are in a state of constant psychosis, never actually being sober.

They half-ass every other aspect of life and everything that is actually important. They cannot focus on real problems, troubled people's stories, empathy, effort to be proactive, to change...

No. They go with the flow. Swimming in illusory sea of dopamine. For them, there are no problems, world s perfect - as long as they have sex. They are blind for every pain of other's, every injustice, every exploitation.

Their hearts are hardened.

 

[mohi_100]

You have to choose between nature and morality

 

[IronMike]

having sex is not a big deal bro. masturbating is honestly 10x better because a vagina can't emulate the friction of your hand. Plus it may stink depending on her Ph levels.

I think you're looking too much into this

 

[HTN_FoidSlayer]

Beczuse when you have sex you let go of those instincts and get some momentarily relief

 

[HTN_FoidSlayer]

having sex is not a big deal bro. masturbating is honestly 10x better because a vagina can't emulate the friction of your hand. Plus it may stink depending on her Ph levels.

I think you're looking too much into this

The hand cant emulate the vagina*
Stop talking about sex bro please

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

One excludes the other.

If I had sex, there is no way I could also be a good friend/son/volunteer/brother, etc.

That would be cognitive dissonance.

There is no way I could have sex and not feel like stupid animal, evil criminal, machiavellian psychopath.

When I imagine it, the only way for me to be who I trully want to is to never engage in sexual acts.

And that's actually one of the reasons why the society is deeply flawed and full of ignorant/psychopatic/evil/non-caring/dull people. Most of them have sex and it is impossible for them to actually have what it takes to be truly good person.

They are dulled by this animalic sweaty orgasmic chronic trance, they are in constant state of either expecting sex or having it. Their whole life revolves around it. They are in a state of constant psychosis, never actually being sober.

They half-ass every other aspect of life and everything that is actually important. They cannot focus on real problems, troubled people's stories, empathy, effort to be proactive, to change...

No. They go with the flow. Swimming in illusory sea of dopamine. For them, there are no problems, world s perfect - as long as they have sex. They are blind for every pain of other's, every injustice, every exploitation.

Their hearts are hardened.

DNR but yeah Im an awful guy and Im sexually active so dont try to imagine that

 

[mtfmxxng]

More for me, lol

 

[mtfmxxng]

But seriously, I can't see how having a gf or fwb and melting her in bed before sleep could do any harm. Except STD's. It just seems like "if i can't have it then it wasn't all that good anyways" type attitude.

 

[suicidemonkey]

One excludes the other.

If I had sex, there is no way I could also be a good friend/son/volunteer/brother, etc.

That would be cognitive dissonance.

There is no way I could have sex and not feel like stupid animal, evil criminal, machiavellian psychopath.

When I imagine it, the only way for me to be who I trully want to is to never engage in sexual acts.

And that's actually one of the reasons why the society is deeply flawed and full of ignorant/psychopatic/evil/non-caring/dull people. Most of them have sex and it is impossible for them to actually have what it takes to be truly good person.

They are dulled by this animalic sweaty orgasmic chronic trance, they are in constant state of either expecting sex or having it. Their whole life revolves around it. They are in a state of constant psychosis, never actually being sober.

They half-ass every other aspect of life and everything that is actually important. They cannot focus on real problems, troubled people's stories, empathy, effort to be proactive, to change...

No. They go with the flow. Swimming in illusory sea of dopamine. For them, there are no problems, world s perfect - as long as they have sex. They are blind for every pain of other's, every injustice, every exploitation.

Their hearts are hardened.

How old are you?

I think that the act of sex is often just an extension of the kind of romantic validation that people need. I could be completely wrong but it is a particularly intimate form of validation that can either be completely perverted or a meaningful part of a healthy relationship. That's why if you go out to bars/clubs for example, there is this lingering aftertaste of inauthenticity.

But I'm a bad person, I still think a lot about casual sex anyway. Social media places it on a pedastal and brainwashes people.

 

[mtfmxxng]

I think that the act of sex is often just an extension of the kind of romantic validation that people need. I could be completely wrong but it is a particularly intimate form of validation that can either be completely perverted or a meaningful part of a healthy relationship.

facts

 

[Van]

How old are you?

I think that the act of sex is often just an extension of the kind of romantic validation that people need. I could be completely wrong but it is a particularly intimate form of validation that can either be completely perverted or a meaningful part of a healthy relationship. That's why if you go out to bars/clubs for example, there is this lingering aftertaste of inauthenticity.

But I'm a bad person, I still think a lot about casual sex anyway. Social media places it on a pedastal and brainwashes people.

31

Why do you think you can't be intimate and genuine with a person without exchanging bodily fluids

 

[LTNUser]

31

Why do you think you can't be intimate and genuine with a person without exchanging bodily fluids

You are 31
What are you doing on this forum ?

 

[suicidemonkey]

31

Why do you think you can't be intimate and genuine with a person without exchanging bodily fluids

Biology. Sex provides a sense of validation and connection - which was intended by nature to fuel meaningful relationships.

Also I understand your point. "For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also" - Is this what you were getting at?

I'm 20.

 

[suicidemonkey]

You are 31
What are you doing on this forum ?

This forum is full of people in their 20s and 30s, the average age across these incel forums 4 years ago was probably like 25. Since 2023, there has been a huge influx of teenagers though.

Don't go scaring away the oldecels nigga

 

[g4rlic]

You have to choose between nature and morality

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