I can’t cope with losing her

[AuraMaxxing]

Fuck man, I really liked this girl and now it’s just over, she is giving me bs about how it’s not me and I’m one of the best guy anyone could ever be with because I’m so loving and whatever bs but she has to leave because her mental health is really bad and she needs help.

I have known her for 3 months and it hurts so bad, I can’t even imagine what guys that get married and spend years feel like when their wife suddenly files for divorce despite everything going well.

I want to fucking hit her and kill her because even the thought of her with an another guy pisses me the fuck off, the thought of her sharing that excitement she shared with me with an another guy makes me wanna bash her head against the wall. I know that sounds selfish but that’s just the way I am and I can’t do anything about my possessive nature.

Muh women are the romantic gender bro, that’s the biggest lie we have been told. Women may feel love strongly but it’s nowhere near as deep and long lasting as the love a man feels.

Women’s emotions have strong highs but really low lows and once it hits that low point, it’s pretty much over.

A man’s emotions are much much more stable and small blows to the relationship doesn’t deplete us of the love we feel.

 

[Duke Archer]

You'll move on bud

 

[AuraMaxxing]

You'll move on bud

True but it just felt like everything was great, she clearly liked me and so did I. Even the day before she left, everything was fine then suddenly something changed and I have no idea what it is and that just hurts.

Was I too nice and “sweet”? Did she just find someone more attractive? Is she just being honest and her mental health really is that fucked?

Guess I’ll never know.

 

[girthygirt]

Fuck man, I really liked this girl and now it’s just over, she is giving me bs about how it’s not me and I’m one of the best guy anyone could ever be with because I’m so loving and whatever bs but she has to leave because her mental health is really bad and she needs help.

same thing with me man, almost the exact same wording to.

 

[girthygirt]

Did she just find someone more attractive? Is she just being honest and her mental health really is that fucked?

my ex popped out wiht a taller, htn a week later .

 

[AuraMaxxing]

same thing with me man, almost the exact same wording to.

It’s just and I quote she said “I’m the best fucking guy to be in a relationship with”

If that were truly the case she wouldn’t have left. We could have found a way through. I was even willing to not talk as much as she sought “help”.

 

[AuraMaxxing]

my ex popped out wiht a taller, htn a week later .

That would be my final straw, the thought of her with an another guy is already infuriating, actually seeing it would break me.

 

[Duke Archer]

True but it just felt like everything was great, she clearly liked me and so did I. Even the day before she left, everything was fine then suddenly something changed and I have no idea what it is and that just hurts.

Was I too nice and “sweet”? Did she just find someone more attractive? Is she just being honest and her mental health really is that fucked?

Guess I’ll never know.

The confusion is normal and it's ok

But there's no need to overthink

No matter what happened it's not on you as she left

I remember when I broke up with my ex

Our career paths were simply different and we left on good terms

 

[Duke Archer]

my ex popped out wiht a taller, htn a week later .

That is messed up tbh

My ex didn't date anyone else until we both graduated college

And we remained close for a while

 

[girthygirt]

That would be my final straw, the thought of her with an another guy is already infuriating, actually seeing it would break me.

worst thing is after the htn, she broke up with him then dated 2 of my best friends (and cuz of it the friendhsip was ruined to)

 

[User28823]

 

[AuraMaxxing]

The confusion is normal and it's ok

But there's no need to overthink

No matter what happened it's not on you as she left

I remember when I broke up with my ex

Our career paths were simply different and we left on good terms

Thank you and yes its just hard for me to come to terms with the fact that maybe I’m really not in the wrong at all because I’m very self critical and struggle with self esteem issues.

But I guess it will all turn out to be fine. I’ll eventually lose that infatuation I’m deeply feeling right now.

 

[User28823]

I want to fucking hit her and kill her because even the thought of her with an another guy pisses me the fuck off, the thought of her sharing that excitement she shared with me with an another guy makes me wanna bash her head against the wall.

"babe it wasn't u... it was my mental health, i needed a break.."

 

[AuraMaxxing]

worst thing is after the htn, she broke up with him then dated 2 of my best friends (and cuz of it the friendhsip was ruined to)

Yeah I would leave my friends too, I assume your best friends were friends with each other as well so that’s another relation gone just because of them not being able to control themselves.

I try not even talking with the women my friends hang out with even if they’re not dating unless I’m forced to.

 

[girthygirt]

Yeah I would leave my friends too, I assume your best friends were friends with each other as well so that’s another relation gone just because of them not being able to control themselves.

I try not even talking with the women my friends hang out with even if they’re not dating unless I’m forced to.

yeah we were all in a friend group ( my ex included), then she dated one guy a week after, then dated my two best friends and they even tried hiding it from me

 

[AuraMaxxing]

"babe it wasn't u... it was my mental health, i needed a break.."

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Brutal but true, I even asked her to just say it like it is and not bs me but she couldn’t.

 

[AuraMaxxing]

yeah we were all in a friend group ( my ex included), then she dated one guy a week after, then dated my two best friends and they even tried hiding it from me

Yeah were they incelish? I have noticed a lot of men that struggle with women typically (a large amount) will throw anything and anyone under the bus just for some female attention.

I remember in high school, a close friend of mine started making fun of me and revealed personal shit I told him so he can jestermaxx for this foid.

I had known him for a year and he met that foid on that day, but he sacrificed our relationship for her.

It’s sad to see the extent most men will go to just for some pussy

 

[girthygirt]

Yeah were they incelish? I have noticed a lot of men that struggle with women typically (a large amount) will throw anything and anyone under the bus just for some female attention.

nah they were both jsut social good looking popular guys

 

[svarddre]

Dawg I got over my oneitis. 7 years with her I think you’ll be fine

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Fuck man, I really liked this girl and now it’s just over, she is giving me bs about how it’s not me and I’m one of the best guy anyone could ever be with because I’m so loving and whatever bs but she has to leave because her mental health is really bad and she needs help.

I have known her for 3 months and it hurts so bad, I can’t even imagine what guys that get married and spend years feel like when their wife suddenly files for divorce despite everything going well.

I want to fucking hit her and kill her because even the thought of her with an another guy pisses me the fuck off, the thought of her sharing that excitement she shared with me with an another guy makes me wanna bash her head against the wall. I know that sounds selfish but that’s just the way I am and I can’t do anything about my possessive nature.

Muh women are the romantic gender bro, that’s the biggest lie we have been told. Women may feel love strongly but it’s nowhere near as deep and long lasting as the love a man feels.

Women’s emotions have strong highs but really low lows and once it hits that low point, it’s pretty much over.

A man’s emotions are much much more stable and small blows to the relationship doesn’t deplete us of the love we feel.

She's fucking chad jfl at "mental health"

Yeah my mental health is bad so I need to get rid of a major person who supports me and I value

I hope to God you didn't actually buy that

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Dawg I got over my oneitis. 7 years with her I think you’ll be fine

How many BBCs you think she took during those 7 years? If you were to estimate

 

[svarddre]

How many BBCs you think she took during those 7 years? If you were to estimate

Honestly probably none, she is white worshipping gook straight from the islands

 

[AuraMaxxing]

She's fucking chad jfl at "mental health"

Yeah my mental health is bad so I need to get rid of a major person who supports me and I value

I hope to God you didn't actually buy that

Well yeah, it’s brutal to think about tbh. Wanted to JoeGoldbergMaxx on her

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Honestly probably none, she is white worshipping gook straight from the islands

Unsuccessful ragebait

 

[AuraMaxxing]

Dawg I got over my oneitis. 7 years with her I think you’ll be fine

I still think about my middle school oneitis sometimes lmaoo

She straight up rejected me