I can't handle the personalitypill

[SpearOfOrion]

I just can't, it's too brutal. Lotta guys here will say it's "all looks" but that is simply not true. whether you like it or not personality plays a role.

And what women find attractive and what gets them horny is just to be a plain fucking douchebag asshole. We all know this from our IRL experiences, here's a thread about it:

Personality Theory Destroyed

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19558447 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5519305/ https://googleweblight.com/i?u=https://www.studyfinds.org/unattractive-men-dating-material-study/&hl https://www.newsweek.com/study-finds-men-nice-women-not-other-way-around-261269...

looksmax.org

I cna't deal with the fact that I can only get a girl addicted to me if I am toxic as fuck and manipulative. I don't want to learn red pill manipulative tactics, I don't want to be a fucking asshole. It's just not who I am. I just want genuine unconditional love like family or brotherly love. Can't seem to find it, everywhere I look is the hottest women getting into toxic abusive relationships.

It's too brutal.

 

[Deleted member 3702]

Aren’t you Zeus

 

[Danish_Retard]

Tbh that is 1 of the main reasons I don't want to get into a LTR...

 

[SpearOfOrion]

Tbh that is 1 of the main reasons I don't want to get into a LTR...

yo I edited the thread check it again

 

[Entschuldigung]

Personality only matters in friendships

 

[SpearOfOrion]

Personality only matters in friendships

its jsut so broootal

 

[Deleted member 6538]

Ngl but I had a lot more success when I acted more polite towards girls, you just need to not act needy and have a social life outside of her

 

[BlackPillChad]

It's worth considering that it could be the other way around.

"Individuals who are sociosexually unrestricted tend to score higher on openness to experience,[7] and be more extraverted,[8] less agreeable,[8] lower on honesty-humility,[9] more erotophilic,[10] more impulsive,[11] more likely to take risks,[11] more likely to have an avoidant attachment style,[12] less likely to have a secure attachment style,[13] and score higher on the Dark Triad traits (i.e. narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy).[14][15] Higher masculinity[16] and eveningness[17] in women is related to unrestricted sociosexuality. High self-monitoring is also associated with unrestricted sociosexuality, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.[18]

Individuals with an intrinsic religious orientation (i.e., religion as an end) tend to be sociosexually restricted, while those with an extrinsic religious orientation (i.e., religion as a means to achieve non-religious goals) tend to be unrestricted.[19]"

Sociosexual orientation - Wikipedia

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"The revised Sociosexual Orientation Inventory (SOI-R) was designed to measure sociosexuality, with high SOI scores corresponding to an unrestricted orientation and low SOI scores denoting a more restricted orientation. The SOI-R also allows for the separate assessment of three facets of sociosexuality: behavior, attitude and desire."

I'd be interested to see if they made a distinction between the three facets in the above studies. If they excluded behavior entirely, this would essentially prove that dark triad people are the most likely to seek casual sex, indicating a reverse causality from the more obvious conclusion.

To put it simply, it would be evidence that sluts are evil instead of that evil people make better sluts.

 

[Kingcel32]

inb4 everyone calls OP a low T cuck for just wanting to be himself in a relationship.

 

[Kingcel32]

But seriously I get you, that's not me either but it's either doing that or being alone.

 

[Deleted member 6095]

Doesn't fucking matter at 7PSL. You can be as nice and kind to them as you want.

 

[Patrick Baitman]

I just can't, it's too brutal. Lotta guys here will say it's "all looks" but that is simply not true. whether you like it or not personality plays a role.

And what women find attractive and what gets them horny is just to be a plain fucking douchebag asshole. We all know this from our IRL experiences, here's a thread about it:

Personality Theory Destroyed

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19558447 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5519305/ https://googleweblight.com/i?u=https://www.studyfinds.org/unattractive-men-dating-material-study/&hl https://www.newsweek.com/study-finds-men-nice-women-not-other-way-around-261269...

looksmax.org

I cna't deal with the fact that I can only get a girl addicted to me if I am toxic as fuck and manipulative. I don't want to learn red pill manipulative tactics, I don't want to be a fucking asshole. It's just not who I am. I just want genuine unconditional love like family or brotherly love. Can't seem to find it, everywhere I look is the hottest women getting into toxic abusive relationships.

It's too brutal.

It sometimes doesn't make sense. How does an average income normie gets laid with a qt3.14?

 

[SpearOfOrion]

inb4 everyone calls OP a low T cuck for just wanting to be himself in a relationship.

Actually I had only 1 "relationship" (if you can call it that) and I was puting on a mask the whole time. I was redpilled at the time and it was exhausting to focus on acting "alpha" and shiet. It's just not worth it.

 

[jackthenerd]

Lol, part of the personalitypill is that it doesn't even matter. How attractive a guy is an how "good" his personality is, is more or less a linear relationship. Just be good looking theory and your personality is automatically top tier.

 

[Deleted member 8064]

If this is the looks required to have zero personality and to slay, 75% of this forum can go and slay. This dude is PSL 4.5 at best.

 

[SpearOfOrion]

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If this is the looks required to have zero personality and to slay, 75% of this forum can go and slay. This dude is PSL 4.5 at best.

thats the point. It's not just looks, the fact he is a criminals adds to his SMV.

 

[Patrick Baitman]

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If this is the looks required to have zero personality and to slay, 75% of this forum can go and slay. This dude is PSL 4.5 at best.

Cope he's easily a Chad, look at that masc features + robust jaw, that shit is rare

 

[Deleted member 8064]

Cope he's easily a Chad, look at that masc features + robust jaw, that shit is rare

Who on this forum except a select few doesn't have masc features or good jaw? This is a chadlite forum, and if he's chad, then most of us are gigachads.

 

[Deleted member 8064]

thats the point. It's not just looks, the fact he is a criminals adds to his SMV.

Yeah...to some 30+ year old bitch who still has daddy issues and still thinks she's a sorority girl. High value girls don't get off to criminal shit.

 

[Patrick Baitman]

Who on this forum except a select few doesn't have masc features or good jaw? This is a chadlite forum, and if he's chad, then most of us are gigachads.

Dude look at his Bigonal to bizygomatic width, it's straight up Chad tier most people don't have it. You need to lurk moar greycel

 

[Deleted member 8064]

Dude look at his Bigonal to bizygomatic width, it's straight up Chad tier most people don't have it. You need to lurk moar greycel

All I know is with Meeks it was 10000x more understandable than this guy.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Most men nowadays are too nice, caring, empathic. Women hate this, its indeed better to be a douchebag criminal than be too nice.

But theres a healthy middleground where you seem like an asshole to the avg soy man nowadays, but you are actually not bad at all from an objective viewpoint.

 

[SpearOfOrion]

Most men nowadays are too nice, caring, empathic. Women hate this, its indeed better to be a douchebag criminal than be too nice.

But theres a healthy middleground where you seem like an asshole to the avg soy man nowadays, but you are actually not bad at all from an objective viewpoint.

you're right. I need to find the good middle ground

 

[Deleted member 7192]

I just can't, it's too brutal. Lotta guys here will say it's "all looks" but that is simply not true. whether you like it or not personality plays a role.

And what women find attractive and what gets them horny is just to be a plain fucking douchebag asshole. We all know this from our IRL experiences, here's a thread about it:

Personality Theory Destroyed

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19558447 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5519305/ https://googleweblight.com/i?u=https://www.studyfinds.org/unattractive-men-dating-material-study/&hl https://www.newsweek.com/study-finds-men-nice-women-not-other-way-around-261269...

looksmax.org

I cna't deal with the fact that I can only get a girl addicted to me if I am toxic as fuck and manipulative. I don't want to learn red pill manipulative tactics, I don't want to be a fucking asshole. It's just not who I am. I just want genuine unconditional love like family or brotherly love. Can't seem to find it, everywhere I look is the hottest women getting into toxic abusive relationships.

It's too brutal.

even then you’ll probably get cheated on. over for disney style relationship fantasizes