I can't help but to feel that women proposing to you is gay and emasculating

[iblamechico]

Even though you typically kneel to your partner and put yourself in a vulnerable position when you propose (sometimes even in public), which is low t and emasculating too, I can't help but to feel like it's the man that should do that. Kinda cucked ngl.

 

[iblamechico]

Although if you take away the performative bullshit and just pull out a ring and propose in private, it's not emasculating at all and it'd make sense for the man to do it since it's like taking charge and making the first move type of thing. Being bold is masculine.