I changed my mind about NoFap

[Deleted member 5927]

I thought NoFap was the king. Anytime I was on it I felt motivated as fuck, I felt like this is the life I'm supposed to be living.

I recently tried NoFap again and by day 4 I started feeling really horny, super horny in fact, I was also getting really lonely and started caring about bitches and shit jfl. This may be cope but the constant horniness and feelings of wanting to get a girlfriend really bad made me actually feel worse about everything.

To fap is to give myself depression and laziness, but zero care about females
To not fap is to be subhumanly desperate and overwhelmingly horny, but highly motivated with achieving goals

It's really just a trade off. They both suck but can be used for their advantages.

Don't say that "jack off every 7 days without porn" shit either. If you jack off you instantly get into a cycle of wanting to do it the same time the next day, so it's impossible to actually modulate yourself with a 7 day timer. I know this is true, and I predict the majority of the people on this site are coomers for that exact reason.

Just go through cycles of fapping and not fapping depending on your goals. It's really not that fucking hard jfl.

 

[Deleted member 9344]

I thought NoFap was the king. Anytime I was on it I felt motivated as fuck, I felt like this is the life I'm supposed to be living.

I recently tried NoFap again and by day 4 I started feeling really horny, super horny in fact, I was also getting really lonely and started caring about bitches and shit jfl. This may be cope but the constant horniness and feelings of wanting to get a girlfriend really bad made me actually feel worse about everything.

To fap is to give myself depression and laziness, but zero care about females
To not fap is to be subhumanly desperate and overwhelmingly horny, but highly motivated with achieving goals

It's really just a trade off. They both suck but can be used for their advantages.

Don't say that "jack off every 7 days without porn" shit either. If you jack off you instantly get into a cycle of wanting to do it the same time the next day, so it's impossible to actually modulate yourself with a 7 day timer. I know this is true, and I predict the majority of the people on this site are coomers for that exact reason.

Just go through cycles of fapping and not fapping depending on your goals. It's really not that fucking hard jfl.

Wanking once a week is probably ideal tbh.

 

[Deleted member 6305]

You're absolutely 100% right
nowadays I don't like to fap cause I don't like the mess it makes

 

[NaturalDisaster]

Wanking once a week is probably ideal tbh.

really hard tbh. i think for most people every 3/4 days is ideal. i can't do it tho

 

[shaugstir]

i had a coom session that lasted a long time and my coom flew far i was caging its so over

 

[Deleted member 10524]

Wanking once a week is probably ideal tbh.

That’s what I’ve been doing no porn and it usually takes 10 minutes I clean up and I’m done and it’s out of my mind

 

[Deleted member 11053]

I'm on day 21 and I don't feel super horny or desesperate for girls. It depends on people's tbh,Im not somebody who fap a lot i do it every 1 or 2 weeks but I steel feel shitty after do it but I have friends who do it everyday and I see that they have no problems.

 

[RichmondBread]

Satan will tempt you with the spirit of lust.

 

[randomuser2407]

Nofap is useful to motivate you to get laid because the less you masturbate, the higher your libido will be. And the higher your libido is, the more you will want to put in effort, time and energy to meet more women and get laid because you become dependent on the outcome of sex in order to be sexually satisfied.

The truth is that this is the only real benefit to nofap, but it may very well be essential because porn and masturbation has made us lazy and destroyed our sex drive. The main reason why I'm still a virgin at 22 is because I was too lazy to put in the effort. I tried nofap for 9 months but failed because I was too afraid of rejection but this was before my double jaw surgery, if I were to do it again in a time where there were no pandemic or even right now, it would be so much more useful.

A lot of men could get laid if they put in the effort and nofap can give them the drive to put in more effort and achieve their goal. Then, once you manage to get laid a few times, it's so much easier to do nofap because you'll have more faith in the process of finding women to have sex with.

I plan to do nofap right now but this time, I will really try to make online dating work to get laid and I will put all my effort into it whenever I am horny and this will give me the drive to succeed. I remember that when I tried it last time (4 years ago), it was like I was torturing myself but there have been so many times since after my double jaw surgery where I could have gotten laid if I was on nofap.

It's not a lie when users of nofap.com claim to have gotten a girlfriend thanks to nofap, being horny makes you more motivated to meet women and although it does make us more desperate in a way, having casual sex or a girlfriend is so much better than using porn because it's actually natural. I believe that even if you had sex once per day with a girlfriend, you would have a much higher libido than if you used porn once every 2 days, simply because sex is not damaging like porn is.

 

[Deepraj7]

Don't say that "jack off every 7 days without porn" shit either. If you jack off you instantly get into a cycle of wanting to do it the same time the next day, so it's impossible to actually modulate yourself with a 7 day timer. I know this is true, and I predict the majority of the people on this site are coomers for that exact reason

100% agree with that

 

[CupOfCoffee]

Very horny and motivated to achieve your goals is 1000% better. Trust me compare that with being a low libido low motivation low money loser versus a dude who's horny and desperate and works hard to get what's best for him. Come on

 

[CupOfCoffee]

Nofap is useful to motivate you to get laid because the less you masturbate, the higher your libido will be. And the higher your libido is, the more you will want to put in effort, time and energy to meet more women and get laid because you become dependent on the outcome of sex in order to be sexually satisfied.

The truth is that this is the only real benefit to nofap, but it may very well be essential because porn and masturbation has made us lazy and destroyed our sex drive. The main reason why I'm still a virgin at 22 is because I was too lazy to put in the effort. I tried nofap for 9 months but failed because I was too afraid of rejection but this was before my double jaw surgery, if I were to do it again in a time where there were no pandemic or even right now, it would be so much more useful.

A lot of men could get laid if they put in the effort and nofap can give them the drive to put in more effort and achieve their goal. Then, once you manage to get laid a few times, it's so much easier to do nofap because you'll have more faith in the process of finding women to have sex with.

I plan to do nofap right now but this time, I will really try to make online dating work to get laid and I will put all my effort into it whenever I am horny and this will give me the drive to succeed. I remember that when I tried it last time (4 years ago), it was like I was torturing myself but there have been so many times since after my double jaw surgery where I could have gotten laid if I was on nofap.

It's not a lie when users of nofap.com claim to have gotten a girlfriend thanks to nofap, being horny makes you more motivated to meet women and although it does make us more desperate in a way, having casual sex or a girlfriend is so much better than using porn because it's actually natural. I believe that even if you had sex once per day with a girlfriend, you would have a much higher libido than if you used porn once every 2 days, simply because sex is not damaging like porn is.

How old are you bro?

 

[randomuser2407]

How old are you bro?

I'm 22, some people think I am KHHV but in reality I'm a KV. I held hands and hugged girls even when I was a kid, talking to people has never been a problem for me, I'm not as aspie as most users claim, but I'm a virgin due to laziness and pornography addiction. And, for a very long time I had low self confidence due to me having the worst underbite, but I fixed with with a double jaw surgery 2 years ago, since then, my self confidence is way better and women check me out more.

So, I'm going to try nofap by not masturbating to porn and limiting myself to only sex to satisfy my desires and it will motivate me enough to finally get laid and get a girlfriend at some point if I find a girl that I like enough to date long term.

 

[CupOfCoffee]

I'm 22, some people think I am KHHV but in reality I'm a KV. I held hands and hugged girls even when I was a kid, talking to people has never been a problem for me, I'm not as aspie as most users claim, but I'm a virgin due to laziness and pornography addiction. And, for a very long time I had low self confidence due to me having the worst underbite, but I fixed with with a double jaw surgery 2 years ago, since then, my self confidence is way better and women check me out more.

So, I'm going to try nofap by not masturbating to porn and limiting myself to only sex to satisfy my desires and it will motivate me enough to finally get laid and get a girlfriend at some point if I find a girl that I like enough to date long term.

It's not too late man I lost my virginity at 21 lol and I'm still 22. And now I'm getting regular passionate sex and it isn't hard to get now. I used online dating to get me through the door and lose my virginity but I've been incel since 16 when I had basically zero sexual attention from girls. Wasn't till I was 19 that I got a first kiss and a chance to have sex. Just set the proper goals now and work on them while meeting and talking to girls

 

[Deleted member 6892]

I thought NoFap was the king. Anytime I was on it I felt motivated as fuck, I felt like this is the life I'm supposed to be living.

I recently tried NoFap again and by day 4 I started feeling really horny, super horny in fact, I was also getting really lonely and started caring about bitches and shit jfl. This may be cope but the constant horniness and feelings of wanting to get a girlfriend really bad made me actually feel worse about everything.

To fap is to give myself depression and laziness, but zero care about females
To not fap is to be subhumanly desperate and overwhelmingly horny, but highly motivated with achieving goals

It's really just a trade off. They both suck but can be used for their advantages.

Don't say that "jack off every 7 days without porn" shit either. If you jack off you instantly get into a cycle of wanting to do it the same time the next day, so it's impossible to actually modulate yourself with a 7 day timer. I know this is true, and I predict the majority of the people on this site are coomers for that exact reason.

Just go through cycles of fapping and not fapping depending on your goals. It's really not that fucking hard jfl.

When I don’t fap I start Thinking about females again and be sad but motivated
when I don’t fap I’m apathetic

 

[Deleted member 8576]

just fap without porn theory is legit

 

[randomuser2407]

It's not too late man I lost my virginity at 21 lol and I'm still 22. And now I'm getting regular passionate sex and it isn't hard to get now. I used online dating to get me through the door and lose my virginity but I've been incel since 16 when I had basically zero sexual attention from girls. Wasn't till I was 19 that I got a first kiss and a chance to have sex. Just set the proper goals now and work on them while meeting and talking to girls

For online dating, what pictures do you use? I have a DSLR camera that takes better pictures but I don't know where to go to take those pictures or how to pose in front of the camera. If you could send me examples of the types of photos that you use (through PM), I think it would help me a lot.

For a long time I didn't understand what style would work the best for me, but recently, thanks to this forum, I have found the perfect look for me to look my best, I just copied the look of my avi, and it looks way better than the pictures on my rating thread. If I were to try to take new pictures outside, it would be way easier than before.

 

[Deleted member 9699]

NoFap makes me giga lowinhib with females tbh, I feel like I could straight up ask for sex but jfl I wouldn't do this aspie shit. It does motivate you to get pussy though ngl....

 

[randomuser2407]

just fap without porn theory is legit

That only works if you haven't been watching porn long enough to get weird fetishes from it. Once you have developed fetishes, then every time you masturbate, you'll think of those fetishes and it may be worse than looking at porn. But if you were getting laid, you would only think about the sex.

 

[Deleted member 6572]

Satan will tempt you with the spirit of lust.

Caged

 

[Deleted member 8576]

Satan will tempt you with the spirit of lust.

get a job

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Nofap is useful to motivate you to get laid because the less you masturbate, the higher your libido will be. And the higher your libido is, the more you will want to put in effort, time and energy to meet more women and get laid because you become dependent on the outcome of sex in order to be sexually satisfied.

The truth is that this is the only real benefit to nofap, but it may very well be essential because porn and masturbation has made us lazy and destroyed our sex drive. The main reason why I'm still a virgin at 22 is because I was too lazy to put in the effort. I tried nofap for 9 months but failed because I was too afraid of rejection but this was before my double jaw surgery, if I were to do it again in a time where there were no pandemic or even right now, it would be so much more useful.

A lot of men could get laid if they put in the effort and nofap can give them the drive to put in more effort and achieve their goal. Then, once you manage to get laid a few times, it's so much easier to do nofap because you'll have more faith in the process of finding women to have sex with.

I plan to do nofap right now but this time, I will really try to make online dating work to get laid and I will put all my effort into it whenever I am horny and this will give me the drive to succeed. I remember that when I tried it last time (4 years ago), it was like I was torturing myself but there have been so many times since after my double jaw surgery where I could have gotten laid if I was on nofap.

It's not a lie when users of nofap.com claim to have gotten a girlfriend thanks to nofap, being horny makes you more motivated to meet women and although it does make us more desperate in a way, having casual sex or a girlfriend is so much better than using porn because it's actually natural. I believe that even if you had sex once per day with a girlfriend, you would have a much higher libido than if you used porn once every 2 days, simply because sex is not damaging like porn is.

do you think I need double jaw surgery to ascend?

 

[Deleted member 8846]

I'm honestly convinced all the nofap mental gains are just placebo. Except for getting rid of porn addiction and getting rid of brain fog.

I've been on plenty of streaks (mostly short streaks) and I can tell you without a doubt that if I go into nofap thinking it will fix my entire life I will get a shit ton of placebo effects and I feel insanely horny. But, If I go into it thinking it's no big deal then it absolutely kills my libido and I feel like a robot.

 

[WTFCGod]

Wanking is extremely estrogenic

 

[Deleted member 3832]

Semen retention is the best ngl.

I ain't fapping anymore and I feel good as fuck ngl.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

I'm honestly convinced all the nofap mental gains are just placebo. Except for getting rid of porn addiction and getting rid of brain fog.

I've been on plenty of streaks (mostly short streaks) and I can tell you without a doubt that if I go into nofap thinking it will fix my entire life I will get a shit ton of placebo effects and I feel insanely horny. But, If I go into it thinking it's no big deal then it absolutely kills my libido and I feel like a robot.

everyone's different about this for some reason. most normies seem to be untouched by the side effects of fapping. but a shit ton of us get depressed (i get massive brain fog and sad feelings as well as anxiety believe it or not).

some people have zero side effects at all but just don't like being a coomer. probably has something to do with the brain or our different hormone levels, im not sure.

 

[Deleted member 8846]

everyone's different about this for some reason. most normies seem to be untouched by the side effects of fapping. but a shit ton of us get depressed (i get massive brain fog and sad feelings as well as anxiety believe it or not).

some people have zero side effects at all but just don't like being a coomer. probably has something to do with the brain or our different hormone levels, im not sure.

One thing I can say for certain is that fapping 100% boosts my social anxiety to another level. If I go atleast 2 weeks without beating my meat, I start to stop dreading social events tbh

 

[CupOfCoffee]

Porn is the issue. And fapping for hours on end.

 

[Deleted member 206]

it's not your libido, it's the addiction to the dopamine source, kinda like a withdrawal symptom after quitting a high dopamine source like drugs

do nofap for several months and the crazy addiction to pussy will be gone

 

[RichmondBread]

Porn was created by Jews to entrap Gentiles

 

[Carolus]

A couple of months of not touching myself resulted in me not being desperate for women or sex. Had at least 10 occasions where I could've had sex but didn't cause it felt worthless. Didn't watch porn either, avoided most instagram foids. Felt low inhib as fuck, talking to girls felt effortless. Had motivation to do things with my own life, the main goal wasn't to fuck girls but to succeed as a man.
Then came the devil...

I'm now back on track.

 

[ShineBright]

Being alone is supposed to make you feel bad, retard. If jacking off everyday makes you feel better about being alone, then you'll never feel the urge to change yourself so that you find a girl or whatever you're looking for.

That's like complaining that when you touch a burning stove, it hurts. It's your body's way of telling you "maybe I should be doing something different". If you're missing that basic mechanism then you're already broken.