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It was alot worse before, but I have exams to study for nowRookie numbers lol be alot worse, but my time decreased since I have exams
Would be a waste of my bbcyou could easily trannymax and be tyrone's bitch.
U already are. at least u can lock that thing in a chastity so that its not in daddy''s wayWould be a waste of my bbc
Coz its impossible for me to get a girlfriendWhy would you spend time fantasizing about a goal, rather than working towards it?
What evidence do you have to believe that?Coz its impossible for me to get a girlfriend
The fact that I never had a gf… I mean I didn’t have one coz I was ugly as shit, but now that im kinda gl I have a chance to but the inceldom and autisme from my past will never let meWhat evidence do you have to believe that?
Now that you are kind of good looking, do you think it is possible for you to learn the social skills required to get a girlfriend?The fact that I never had a gf… I mean I didn’t have one coz I was ugly as shit, but now that im kinda gl I have a chance to but the inceldom and autisme from my past will never let me
yeah i do but it will be hard asf and idk if it will fit me tbhNow that you are kind of good looking, do you think it is possible for you to learn the social skills required to get a girlfriend?
I see. What do you mean by, this part? You don't know if learning social skills to get a girlfriend would "fit you"?yeah i do but it will be hard asf and idk if it will fit me tbh
yup... i think ill get overwhelmed quickly and i alr tried it and i didnt geel like myself i felt like i was trying to becomea new person from ground zero which left me feeling lostI see. What do you mean by, this part? You don't know if learning social skills to get a girlfriend would "fit you"?
I tried cold approach in my twenties with zero social skills and got no where with it as well.yup... i think ill get overwhelmed quickly and i alr tried it and i didnt geel like myself i felt like i was trying to becomea new person from ground zero which left me feeling lost
wow... thanks for the effort dude... really i appreciate it you should make this a thread imo... i do have some level of basic and a liittle bit advanced techniques of communication etc... i do have friends that i can easily talk to i can hold a convo with strangers like in a taxi at school in class etc... i can talk to girls easily too im not a fullblown incel but the problem is when i expose myself too quickly... i do have a good humor lol but... the proble for me is i find it very hard to find a girl to my taste i o like a girl rn and she is into me but i really dont know how to not show her thay i like her and im attached to her which will make her lose interestI tried cold approach in my twenties with zero social skills and got no where with it as well.
I think cold approach is more of an advanced thing you can learn, only after having a solid base of social skills and having practiced talking to a wide range of personalities including feminine personalities, for thousands of hours. Baby Steps get you to big goals, but it takes time.
What I recommend is joining a church/mosque and try talking to people after "service" if you can. If not, stand there until some one comes up and talks to you. The people who talk to you will be guys and old people. It's not about meeting women, it's about building the base skill of talking to many different kinds of people, fluidly and naturally. Switch churches/mosques every once in a while, if you feel like you're only talking to the same people every week. You want practice talking to a few hundred people at minimum.
Social skills are transferable. Over time, you'll start picking up humor, and different ways of talking from different people. Talking to nerdy guys (Guys into computers, programming, technology) will give you the least amount of social skills transferable to women, so it's fine to start with them, but you want to move on quickly. Talking to guys that are good with women, charismatic guys, funny guys, and women (even old women) will allow you to pick up more social skills. You want to gradually push yourself into conversations with the most charismatic people, which you won't have the social skills to talk to for long in the beginning (because there is so much competition for those people's attention).
Go to all the events that you can, church dinners, outings, mission trips, even men's bible study, and stay late for all of them to talk to whoever is staying late. Volunteer to help out with things as well.
Think of this as building your base, and it's going to take thousands of hours. But beats 2-3 hours a day where you are fantasizing about your goals rather than moving towards them.
Only after you built up this solid base, of being very comfortable talking to a huge range of personalities (especially more feminine personalities, and emotional conversations rather than logical ones), do you go back to learning cold approach. Again this might take you somewhere between 3-8 years, but it's fine, if you're good looking you can do cold approach even in your forties and fifties tbh.
When you do start with cold approach, just find routines and approaches online to try or in books, but first build a solid base of social skills. And yes, cold approach will still be scary, and uncomfortable, and you won't want to do it, but having a base of social skills, and understanding many different kinds of people will make it possible to learn.
Do you think this approach could work for you? Will you do it? Or any part of it?
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For not showing interest, keep your mind focused on all the girls you could have success with once you learn how to be successful with women/improve your SMV. Do you best to imagine she's your nerdy little sister, and it would be weird to think of her like that. Also force yourself to think about how you're the most cool hot mother fucker around (even if it's not true). Yah, they'll be some cognitive dissonance, but as long as you try to force those thoughts, you'll come off better than if you just let your natural tendency to put her on a pedestal above you, run wild. You can try finding a movie, TV show, challenge, or game that you're going to watch or play regardless of weather she likes you or not, and put your energy focusing on looking forward to that, rather than on her.wow... thanks for the effort dude... really i appreciate it you should make this a thread imo... i do have some level of basic and a liittle bit advanced techniques of communication etc... i do have friends that i can easily talk to i can hold a convo with strangers like in a taxi at school in class etc... i can talk to girls easily too im not a fullblown incel but the problem is when i expose myself too quickly... i do have a good humor lol but... the proble for me is i find it very hard to find a girl to my taste i o like a girl rn and she is into me but i really dont know how to not show her thay i like her and im attached to her which will make her lose interest