overthinkinghooper
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Up until about 3 months ago I used to be a romantic although never actually having a relationship other than failed talking stages. I used to look for things in a girl that I liked like their personality, way they act, way they dress. Of course looks mattered too but as long as they were somewhat pretty (mtb who isn't 155lbs+) I didn't care too much. But about 3 months ago after another failed talking stage I have practically given up on finding someone who'll like me for who I am. I realize im nothing more than the way I look and how good im able to keep a conversation going to females and therefore I shouldn't treat them anymore than what they are (objects). Relationships require time and work neither of which im willing to put in anymore, I can stand texting one for more than 5 minutes before feeling like im trapped, having to reply back or else they feel they have to protect their ego and don't reply back. I can only have enough willpower to text for a little bit (5 messages max) before asking to link up, I don't even care much about the way they look now, as long they have some a decent body and aren't hideous .I don't look for anything other than sex with these things, they have never liked me for who I am and im done trying to make them.
tldr; woman never liked me so now I only use them for sex.
tldr; woman never liked me so now I only use them for sex.