I don't know how to talk to girls.

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Whenever I talk to a girl, the conversation is awkward and not very smooth.
I know I'm not a chad, but I don't think my appearance is that off-putting to cause awkwardness. :(
It's over! :AYAYAgasmTriggered:
 
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I'm autistic as fuck though
 
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Never began
 
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I'm very scared too :forcedsmile:
 
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Real im so nervous each time I have to Talk to them :feelsrope:
 
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Treat them like children
Playful, nonchalant, and all that stuff
 
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only in ohio
 
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Whenever I talk to a girl, the conversation is awkward and not very smooth.
I know I'm not a chad, but I don't think my appearance is that off-putting to cause awkwardness. :(
It's over! :AYAYAgasmTriggered:
You needed 7 years to figure out that personality is law, it might truly be over

What's next? you're going to tell me to take a shower... NO WAY!!
 
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You needed 7 years to figure out that personality is law, it might truly be over

What's next? you're going to tell me to take a shower... NO WAY!!
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You just need to get to know her better and u will be more comfortable around her :feelsyay:
 
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Same, unfortunately whenever i speak to a girl or anyone really who I don’t know my face flushes bright red and I become uncomfortably hot.
 
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I get so many reps lol :PLGurom:
 
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Just get drunk bro
 
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On a side note, I think most people are awkward but while some get away with it because of looks others get demoralized
 
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did u read the emeraldglass banger i dont see you in the rep column
 
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I’m not gonna lie, same shit for me, like I can talk to males, make friends, like I can even talk with girls that are older than me, just not the ones that are my age :Sadge:
 
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This is the same for me tbh and it’s gotten worse after hs. For college I just go and I leave. If it weren’t for my friend who lives 2 blocks away from me I’d have no friends (he has people that hang with him that I also see). Also I definitely think I might be autistic there’s a good chance I have ADHD tho
 
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I thought this too but it turned out I'm just ugly
 
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I’m not gonna lie, same shit for me, like I can talk to males, make friends, like I can even talk with girls that are older than me, just not the ones that are my age :Sadge:
Im in the exactly same situation brother :feelswah:
 
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Loneliness is driving me insane :AYAYAgasmTriggered:
 
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Whenever I talk to a girl, the conversation is awkward and not very smooth.
I know I'm not a chad, but I don't think my appearance is that off-putting to cause awkwardness. :(
It's over! :AYAYAgasmTriggered:
You talk to a woman or girl the same way as a man or boy; That is with respect and by acknowledging that they are an indivdiual with their own perspectives and boundaries and personality.
 
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Whenever I talk to a girl, the conversation is awkward and not very smooth.
I know I'm not a chad, but I don't think my appearance is that off-putting to cause awkwardness. :(
It's over! :AYAYAgasmTriggered:
You have to keep exposing yourself to them and keep talking. The more you do it, the more normal it becomes, and the more comfortable you’ll feel in those conversations. Check my thread about how social interaction works. The only real path here is to fail at the beginning so you can succeed later. Rejection and awkward interactions are part of the process, they will be unavoidable.
 
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Whenever I talk to a girl, the conversation is awkward and not very smooth.
I know I'm not a chad, but I don't think my appearance is that off-putting to cause awkwardness. :(
It's over! :AYAYAgasmTriggered:
Blaming Spider-Man GIF
 
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Whenever I talk to a girl, the conversation is awkward and not very smooth.
I know I'm not a chad, but I don't think my appearance is that off-putting to cause awkwardness. :(
It's over! :AYAYAgasmTriggered:
I'll go out with you :p
 
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Whenever I talk to a girl, the conversation is awkward and not very smooth.
I know I'm not a chad, but I don't think my appearance is that off-putting to cause awkwardness. :(
It's over! :AYAYAgasmTriggered:
i have the same problem my friend.

i can only talk when drunk then i have the confidence but i dont want to have sex only, which most women think when drunk.
 
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Whenever I talk to a girl, the conversation is awkward and not very smooth.
I know I'm not a chad, but I don't think my appearance is that off-putting to cause awkwardness. :(
It's over! :AYAYAgasmTriggered:
Have u tried using anxiety medication like benzos to become more low inhib?
 
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i have the same problem my friend.

i can only talk when drunk then i have the confidence but i dont want to have sex only, which most women think when drunk.

I met this girl yesterday at a party.

got so frustrated when he just wanted sex(n)(n)

Never had a girlfriend, just sex
 
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Oh what the world does to a sensitive young man :cry:
 
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Youre cute bro
 
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You don’t need to know. If they like you, they will talk to you and make it very easy. If you have to try in the slightest, she‘s not into you and you‘re just wasting your time
 
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NTpill is too brutal, try exposure therapy. The more you talk to foids, the better you will get at it.
 
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NTpill
 
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