Bewusst
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I don't like the term 'incel' because it's often used to describe someone ugly even if that particular person isn't looking to have sex with women.
An incel is someone who despite approaching and trying to get women to have sex with him repeatedly fails at that for a long period of time.
But what about guys that are just ugly and not chasing the opposite sex (or same sex if homosexual)? Why is there no term for that? I am ugly but I don't consider myself incel - if anything I'm a volcel or voluntarily celibate. I'd like the incel/blackpill/whatever community to extend beyond sexuality and also focus on looks from a perspective that is separate from attracting the opposite (or same) sex.
There should be terms for ugly non-incels imo.
I'd also love if there were local places or meetups (irl) where ugly people/incels can meet and learn to know and support each other and engage in activities together. Many incels/ugly people like myself are lonely and have no or very few friends and such meetups could change that and bring some light into one's life.
We should stop hiding behind our desktops and actually leave the basement once in a while to get ourselves out of this emotional shithole. It's a downward spiral with many worse possible consequences than just staying single or not having sex.
That's just my opinion. What do you guys think about that?
An incel is someone who despite approaching and trying to get women to have sex with him repeatedly fails at that for a long period of time.
But what about guys that are just ugly and not chasing the opposite sex (or same sex if homosexual)? Why is there no term for that? I am ugly but I don't consider myself incel - if anything I'm a volcel or voluntarily celibate. I'd like the incel/blackpill/whatever community to extend beyond sexuality and also focus on looks from a perspective that is separate from attracting the opposite (or same) sex.
There should be terms for ugly non-incels imo.
I'd also love if there were local places or meetups (irl) where ugly people/incels can meet and learn to know and support each other and engage in activities together. Many incels/ugly people like myself are lonely and have no or very few friends and such meetups could change that and bring some light into one's life.
We should stop hiding behind our desktops and actually leave the basement once in a while to get ourselves out of this emotional shithole. It's a downward spiral with many worse possible consequences than just staying single or not having sex.
That's just my opinion. What do you guys think about that?
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