I don't understand why people ask for help. Why do they want to depend on others?

[TalesFromTheSlums]

Constantly are people willingly showing dependent; vulnerability; wanting help.

They are doing NOTHING but ensuring that they depend on others to save them.

They ask another for help, opinions, input, etc. They don't want to be independent.

I get community -- but I feel too many people just fucking want help constantly.

I don't ask for help opening a pickle jar. I mean I don't need it, but still.......

The idea of not doing things yourself just so others can do everything for you?

Don't you want independence? To be sure of yourself? Why let others have that?

Is it laziness or dependence? Both maybe? Like, I try & do everything myself.

I try and handle all of my needs myself. I don't ask others to do anything for me.

They WANT to have others help them. They want to bother others to "get help."

Why not try & do everything you can yourself? And instead of asking for "help..."

TAKE what you need. Demand what you need. Stop "asking" for things so damn much.

You need to do everything you can on your own. Why depend on others to "save" you?

Demand help. DO NOT ask for it. There's a big difference. Asking is ... Depending.

Demanding is ... Requiring. STOP FUCKING ASKING FOR PEOPLE TO HELP/ASSIST YOU.

STOP ASKING FOR "SMALL FAVORS." STOP BOTHERING PEOPLE OVER NONSENSE.

Why can't people just get by on their own for the most part? If you need help, DEMAND.

Do NOT ask. If you need to ask, you should demand instead -- otherwise, be on your own.

 

[Jatt]

Tldr please

 

[Vermilioncore]

 

[Krisis]

It's perfectly normal and should be encouraged to ask for help. We're all fallible.

 

[Futura]

Constantly are people willingly showing dependent; vulnerability; wanting help.

They are doing NOTHING but ensuring that they depend on others to save them.

They ask another for help, opinions, input, etc. They don't want to be independent.

I get community -- but I feel too many people just fucking want help constantly.

I don't ask for help opening a pickle jar. I mean I don't need it, but still.......

The idea of not doing things yourself just so others can do everything for you?

Don't you want independence? To be sure of yourself? Why let others have that?

Is it laziness or dependence? Both maybe? Like, I try & do everything myself.

I try and handle all of my needs myself. I don't ask others to do anything for me.

They WANT to have others help them. They want to bother others to "get help."

Why not try & do everything you can yourself? And instead of asking for "help..."

TAKE what you need. Demand what you need. Stop "asking" for things so damn much.

You need to do everything you can on your own. Why depend on others to "save" you?

Demand help. DO NOT ask for it. There's a big difference. Asking is ... Depending.

Demanding is ... Requiring. STOP FUCKING ASKING FOR PEOPLE TO HELP/ASSIST YOU.

STOP ASKING FOR "SMALL FAVORS." STOP BOTHERING PEOPLE OVER NONSENSE.

Why can't people just get by on their own for the most part? If you need help, DEMAND.

Do NOT ask. If you need to ask, you should demand instead -- otherwise, be on your own.

Same i get extremely annoyed when people ask for help

 

[justguashabro]

skimmed but i remember hearing about it sometimes being a type of psychological thing where they ask favors to look more favorable / friendly.

 

[Sleeper]

Constantly are people willingly showing dependent; vulnerability; wanting help.

They are doing NOTHING but ensuring that they depend on others to save them.

They ask another for help, opinions, input, etc. They don't want to be independent.

I get community -- but I feel too many people just fucking want help constantly.

I don't ask for help opening a pickle jar. I mean I don't need it, but still.......

The idea of not doing things yourself just so others can do everything for you?

Don't you want independence? To be sure of yourself? Why let others have that?

Is it laziness or dependence? Both maybe? Like, I try & do everything myself.

I try and handle all of my needs myself. I don't ask others to do anything for me.

They WANT to have others help them. They want to bother others to "get help."

Why not try & do everything you can yourself? And instead of asking for "help..."

TAKE what you need. Demand what you need. Stop "asking" for things so damn much.

You need to do everything you can on your own. Why depend on others to "save" you?

Demand help. DO NOT ask for it. There's a big difference. Asking is ... Depending.

Demanding is ... Requiring. STOP FUCKING ASKING FOR PEOPLE TO HELP/ASSIST YOU.

STOP ASKING FOR "SMALL FAVORS." STOP BOTHERING PEOPLE OVER NONSENSE.

Why can't people just get by on their own for the most part? If you need help, DEMAND.

Do NOT ask. If you need to ask, you should demand instead -- otherwise, be on your own.

They dont want to depend on others, they just want to leech off of others. People like this are taking what they want as the instant the person they are asking help from does not have it then they immediately move on to another. To be more accurate they are usually just like this with all people they meet. Lots of people are parasitic in this way as theres basically no reason not to be, theres no punishment for behaving in such a way and its actually encouraged