I (F25) fell for someone (M31) without seeing his face, and now that I have seen it I don’t know how to proceed.

[qazw]

I’m hoping that this subreddit will be the best place to find others that met someone special online, maybe without even seeing them.

I met someone here on reddit, and we’ve been speaking for 4 months. Nothing is labeled, but we’ve begun talking more deeply into seeing each other in person and moving forward. I care deeply about this person and I’m so very attracted to his personality and who he is. He’s a beautiful person- patient, funny, mature, caring, intelligent, empathetic.

The problem is, I never saw his face or heard his voice for these 4 months. I didn’t think I would care what he looks like, because I’m drawn to personality above all else. The keeping him anonymous was actually a game I started because it seemed kind of fun and mysterious (and I’m an idiot). But then we fucked around and found out and fell for each other.

As it turns out, I’m not attracted to his face at all. His body and hygiene/grooming are just fine, but he has a really unique facial feature that I’m struggling to see past. I know it sounds shallow, but what can I do? I’m not going to give up on this man over looks, but now I’m very very worried I won’t be able to find that physical attraction despite caring for him so so much. We have great romantic chemistry it’s just a visual thing- I hate that I did this to us by waiting so long.

Has anyone ever dealt with a ldr where you weren’t sure of attraction? Were you able to build that attraction?

 

[HostSamurai]

"Unique facial structure" JFL just say ugly, stupid bitch.

 

[cris_222]

I’m hoping that this subreddit will be the best place to find others that met someone special online, maybe without even seeing them.

I met someone here on reddit, and we’ve been speaking for 4 months. Nothing is labeled, but we’ve begun talking more deeply into seeing each other in person and moving forward. I care deeply about this person and I’m so very attracted to his personality and who he is. He’s a beautiful person- patient, funny, mature, caring, intelligent, empathetic.

The problem is, I never saw his face or heard his voice for these 4 months. I didn’t think I would care what he looks like, because I’m drawn to personality above all else. The keeping him anonymous was actually a game I started because it seemed kind of fun and mysterious (and I’m an idiot). But then we fucked around and found out and fell for each other.

As it turns out, I’m not attracted to his face at all. His body and hygiene/grooming are just fine, but he has a really unique facial feature that I’m struggling to see past. I know it sounds shallow, but what can I do? I’m not going to give up on this man over looks, but now I’m very very worried I won’t be able to find that physical attraction despite caring for him so so much. We have great romantic chemistry it’s just a visual thing- I hate that I did this to us by waiting so long.

Has anyone ever dealt with a ldr where you weren’t sure of attraction? Were you able to build that attraction?

 

[cris_222]

Brutal

 

[EthiopianMaxxer]

I bet they are literally looksmatched

 

[HostSamurai]

I bet they are literally looksmatched

Always the case.

 

[EthiopianMaxxer]

And who the fuck finds a partner on reddit

 

[160cmcurry]

 

[AscensionMan98]

I bet they are literally looksmatched

or he's some gook or curry and she's white. That's more likely

 

[AscensionMan98]

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Yes that's the curry scenario

Asian scenario

 

[ROPEBYATHOUSANDMOGS]

I’m hoping that this subreddit will be the best place to find others that met someone special online, maybe without even seeing them.

I met someone here on reddit, and we’ve been speaking for 4 months. Nothing is labeled, but we’ve begun talking more deeply into seeing each other in person and moving forward. I care deeply about this person and I’m so very attracted to his personality and who he is. He’s a beautiful person- patient, funny, mature, caring, intelligent, empathetic.

The problem is, I never saw his face or heard his voice for these 4 months. I didn’t think I would care what he looks like, because I’m drawn to personality above all else. The keeping him anonymous was actually a game I started because it seemed kind of fun and mysterious (and I’m an idiot). But then we fucked around and found out and fell for each other.

As it turns out, I’m not attracted to his face at all. His body and hygiene/grooming are just fine, but he has a really unique facial feature that I’m struggling to see past. I know it sounds shallow, but what can I do? I’m not going to give up on this man over looks, but now I’m very very worried I won’t be able to find that physical attraction despite caring for him so so much. We have great romantic chemistry it’s just a visual thing- I hate that I did this to us by waiting so long.

Has anyone ever dealt with a ldr where you weren’t sure of attraction? Were you able to build that attraction?

It never began for uniquefacialstructurecels

 

[AscensionMan98]

It never began for uniquefacialstructurecels

So that's the new word for curries and chinks

 

[AscensionMan98]

And who the fuck finds a partner on reddit

Reddit is 90% men 10% foids

 

[NoReedemingFeature]

"I didn’t think I would care what he looks like, because I’m drawn to personality above all else"

Guess not! Fucking lol

 

[Foreverbrad]

Unique facial feature, not structure.

Wonder what it might be.

 

[White_Bwoi]

Brutal in action, lol at
"how to proceed" - can't comprehend how you can "fell for someone" without face it's fucking retarded. I wouldn't even fall that hard for a girl without at least kissing her to check things out, people are R E T A R D E D, she's most likely UGLY BITCH if she can fall in love with some chatbot

 

[White_Bwoi]

"I know it sounds shallow, but what can I do? I’m not going to give up on this man over looks, but now I’m very very worried I won’t be able to find that physical attraction despite caring for him so so much."

These women, when will they learn, when will they stop gaslighting themselves... maybe never on reddit

 

[Cuervo]

Unique facial feature, not structure.

Wonder what it might be.

Bad jaw huge nose, very masc

 

[Cuervo]

"I know it sounds shallow, but what can I do? I’m not going to give up on this man over looks, but now I’m very very worried I won’t be able to find that physical attraction despite caring for him so so much."

These women, when will they learn, when will they stop gaslighting themselves... maybe never on reddit

it's interesting cuz she's 25 she should be more mature, that soundns like something a teen would say

 

[White_Bwoi]

Also it will END BAD for the guy, because even if she tries to "make it work" (LOL) it would just waste his time, when she find some stupid enough higher psl guy... what the actual fuck

 

[AscensionMan98]

Unique facial feature, not structure.

Wonder what it might be.

Words for curry,gook, or some other ethnic

 

[White_Bwoi]

These comments: "That’s not love… That’s attraction, love is way deeper it looks past the flaws."
Haven't seen that one in a long time

 

[William Anderson]

These comments: "That’s not love… That’s attraction, love is way deeper it looks past the flaws."
Haven't seen that one in a long time

They aren’t wrong

 

[White_Bwoi]

They aren’t wrong

Ofcourse when in LTR you'll need to look past flaws, nobody is perfect yo... But I aint buying forming a relationship without sexual attraction that should never happen! This woman will cope that she'll "grow" attracted to him, and he will be in probably in the role of an oofy_doofy

 

[Gooningdemo23]

I’m hoping that this subreddit will be the best place to find others that met someone special online, maybe without even seeing them.

I met someone here on reddit, and we’ve been speaking for 4 months. Nothing is labeled, but we’ve begun talking more deeply into seeing each other in person and moving forward. I care deeply about this person and I’m so very attracted to his personality and who he is. He’s a beautiful person- patient, funny, mature, caring, intelligent, empathetic.

The problem is, I never saw his face or heard his voice for these 4 months. I didn’t think I would care what he looks like, because I’m drawn to personality above all else. The keeping him anonymous was actually a game I started because it seemed kind of fun and mysterious (and I’m an idiot). But then we fucked around and found out and fell for each other.

As it turns out, I’m not attracted to his face at all. His body and hygiene/grooming are just fine, but he has a really unique facial feature that I’m struggling to see past. I know it sounds shallow, but what can I do? I’m not going to give up on this man over looks, but now I’m very very worried I won’t be able to find that physical attraction despite caring for him so so much. We have great romantic chemistry it’s just a visual thing- I hate that I did this to us by waiting so long.

Has anyone ever dealt with a ldr where you weren’t sure of attraction? Were you able to build that attraction?

brutal

 

[_MVP_]

brutal how judgemental foids are