ElySioNs
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Last year me and my wife found out my daughter (then 14, now 15) had sex. It was a punch in the gut for sure but we decided not to flip out and handle it like grown ups. We told her that she was going to see an OB-GYN and get on birth control. This was not to give a free pass to have sex but, to be safe if it happened again.
3 days ago my wife came home early and found her alone in the house with a 17 year old boy in her room. We started asking questions and looked through her phone, with her next to us and what we found was worse than we could’ve imagined.
She’s had sex with 3 different men in the last year.
She’s had un-protected sex more than once.
She hasn’t been taking her birth control for several months.
She’s been smoking and vaping inside the house.
She took very sexual explicit videos and pictures and sent them to people through social media. I couldn’t bring myself to look at these pictures but my wife told me about them.
She’s snuck out at night and got into a car with 19 year old for sex.
She says she hates life and hates existing. I asked her what that meant, but she couldn’t say any more. She says she cuts her self but we couldn’t find any marks.
She says she wants to talk to a therapist, and we all agreed that she should.
This is Dr. Phil level shit, I don’t where to go or what to do besides the obvious. Took her phone, TV even the door off her room and she can’t be home alone anymore. We have had the sex and drug talk with her before any of this started.
We’re going to have her tell older sister (F21) because the get along really well and maybe she can talk some sense into her.
My biggest fear is that she gets into a car with a stranger and we never see her again. That she gets pregnant before she’s ready and has to raise a kid, or get an abortion.
Please give me any advice or thoughts you have. We’re just tired, angry and feel so small right now. We had kids very young and don’t that for her, but if this keeps up I know eventually it’s going to happen.
3 days ago my wife came home early and found her alone in the house with a 17 year old boy in her room. We started asking questions and looked through her phone, with her next to us and what we found was worse than we could’ve imagined.
She’s had sex with 3 different men in the last year.
She’s had un-protected sex more than once.
She hasn’t been taking her birth control for several months.
She’s been smoking and vaping inside the house.
She took very sexual explicit videos and pictures and sent them to people through social media. I couldn’t bring myself to look at these pictures but my wife told me about them.
She’s snuck out at night and got into a car with 19 year old for sex.
She says she hates life and hates existing. I asked her what that meant, but she couldn’t say any more. She says she cuts her self but we couldn’t find any marks.
She says she wants to talk to a therapist, and we all agreed that she should.
This is Dr. Phil level shit, I don’t where to go or what to do besides the obvious. Took her phone, TV even the door off her room and she can’t be home alone anymore. We have had the sex and drug talk with her before any of this started.
We’re going to have her tell older sister (F21) because the get along really well and maybe she can talk some sense into her.
My biggest fear is that she gets into a car with a stranger and we never see her again. That she gets pregnant before she’s ready and has to raise a kid, or get an abortion.
Please give me any advice or thoughts you have. We’re just tired, angry and feel so small right now. We had kids very young and don’t that for her, but if this keeps up I know eventually it’s going to happen.
