I feel empty after looksmaxxing

[Deleted member 15674]

I've been getting new matches and new dates with girls almost everyday now for the past few days, got a few numbers and shit. I feel empty as fuck rn, like these girls bring no fucking value to my life. They won't bring me to my BJJ bluebelt or judo blackbelt any faster, it's a fucking weird feeling tbh. I've NTmaxxed hard and have top tier talk (ask @gymcel7 ), it's fucking weird. It just feels like I have this weird fkin power where I can just say stuff to girls and make them laugh and giggle and give me their number.

Maybe I'm thinking about shit too much and years of blackpill and philosophy has rotted my brain. I think I've reached normie level of appeal or something, idk. I'm seeing 2 girls this week confirmed. Another potential 3 too, but 2 of them live quite far and logistics might be a bit of an issue. All of these girls I think want an LTR (The 2 who i am deffo seeing want an LTR haha). It's pretty crazy, how just fitting into a niche will change women's perceptions of you. I'm still the same man, I just look a little different. Maybe I am tripping a bit, maybe im not.

For now, I will enjoy the moment but from next week onwards, I think I'm going to stop talking to girls again, and just grind hard.

 

[Sphinx]

@gymcel7 Hey bro, does he have a top tier talk?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

@gymcel7 Hey bro, does he have a top tier talk?

it's legit bro. I am possibly one of the most NTmaxxed users on this site tbh

 

[thegoat]

baseline level of happiness theory. U can get everything u want in life and itll give you a temporary happiness spike but ultimately youll always go back to your initial baseline level of happiness thats been programmed by your genetics

 

[Deleted member 15674]

baseline level of happiness theory. U can get everything u want in life and itll give you a temporary happiness spike but ultimately youll always go back to your initial baseline level of happiness thats been programmed by your genetics

legit tbh. I'm a naturally neurotic person who ends up thinking very introspectively about stuff. It makes me interesting to talk to I guess, but it feels so wrong. Like the girls are fully dehumanised for me

 

[BeenLMSsinceMSN]

I've been getting new matches and new dates with girls almost everyday now for the past few days, got a few numbers and shit. I feel empty as fuck rn, like these girls bring no fucking value to my life. They won't bring me to my BJJ bluebelt or judo blackbelt any faster, it's a fucking weird feeling tbh. I've NTmaxxed hard and have top tier talk (ask @gymcel7 ), it's fucking weird. It just feels like I have this weird fkin power where I can just say stuff to girls and make them laugh and giggle and give me their number.

Maybe I'm thinking about shit too much and years of blackpill and philosophy has rotted my brain. I think I've reached normie level of appeal or something, idk. I'm seeing 2 girls this week confirmed. Another potential 3 too, but 2 of them live quite far and logistics might be a bit of an issue. All of these girls I think want an LTR (The 2 who i am deffo seeing want an LTR haha). It's pretty crazy, how just fitting into a niche will change women's perceptions of you. I'm still the same man, I just look a little different. Maybe I am tripping a bit, maybe im not.

For now, I will enjoy the moment but from next week onwards, I think I'm going to stop talking to girls again, and just grind hard.

Lifefuel tbh , has looksmaxing affected you positively in other areas ?

 

[Deleted member 15004]

 

[dwohh]

fix heighttttt

 

[Cidre enjoyer]

what did you do to looksmax ?
no hardmaxxing ?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Lifefuel tbh , has looksmaxing affected you positively in other areas ?

Honestly, girls check me out more, strangers and people are a bit nicer to me - but I was always treated well because I have baby face and look innocent. I'd say I just have better confidence and can just approach girls and be direct without really caring. I say what I want, I don't really get an adrenaline spike when msging these girls tbh

what did you do to looksmax ?
no hardmaxxing ?

Tret + got perm. I always looked a bit a cute. I have an interesting life with hobbies and shit and honestly I'm very NT and likeable irl. Most people like hearing me talk

 

[Deleted member 15556]

@gymcel7 Hey bro, does he have a top tier talk?

Hard to say I've been using his messages and it's yielded me about 1/8 response rate so far

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Hard to say I've been using his messages and it's yielded me about 1/8 response rate so far

Not too bad. My response rate on tinder isn't that good tbh. I do a lot better on hinge, like fuck loads better. Bumble I do okayish, but tinder is awful for me haha

 

[BeenLMSsinceMSN]

Honestly, girls check me out more, strangers and people are a bit nicer to me - but I was always treated well because I have baby face and look innocent. I'd say I just have better confidence and can just approach girls and be direct without really caring. I say what I want, I don't really get an adrenaline spike when msging these girls tbh

Tret + got perm. I always looked a bit a cute. I have an interesting life with hobbies and shit and honestly I'm very NT and likeable irl. Most people like hearing me talk

Has the race pill affected your experience a lot ? Would you say you were able to get a good social circle in college

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Has the race pill affected your experience a lot ? Would you say you were able to get a good social circle in college

Racepill is by far the biggest factor in my dating experiences. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I'm going to argue race > height. Srs. I am a curry, I do much better with curries, over half of the girls I'm talking to are curries. Curry girls are often shorter, don't care about height and probably feel a sense of security around me compared to white dudes (they prolly think white dudes will pump and dump).

My social circle at uni is weird. I know a lot of people from BJJ, and even got offered a job working at a pharmacy by one guy who trains there (i don't study pharam tho sadly). I have friends, but I am selective about who I consider a friend. A friend is someone I can rely on, if I just get along with someone, they're not my friend. They're just someone who is chill to hang with.

If I use normie definiton of friend as someone who is chill to hang with, then my social circle is quite large. Easily like 20+. But in reality I consider a mere 2 people my friends at uni

 

[Deleted member 16986]

I've been getting new matches and new dates with girls almost everyday now for the past few days, got a few numbers and shit. I feel empty as fuck rn, like these girls bring no fucking value to my life. They won't bring me to my BJJ bluebelt or judo blackbelt any faster, it's a fucking weird feeling tbh. I've NTmaxxed hard and have top tier talk (ask @gymcel7 ), it's fucking weird. It just feels like I have this weird fkin power where I can just say stuff to girls and make them laugh and giggle and give me their number.

Maybe I'm thinking about shit too much and years of blackpill and philosophy has rotted my brain. I think I've reached normie level of appeal or something, idk. I'm seeing 2 girls this week confirmed. Another potential 3 too, but 2 of them live quite far and logistics might be a bit of an issue. All of these girls I think want an LTR (The 2 who i am deffo seeing want an LTR haha). It's pretty crazy, how just fitting into a niche will change women's perceptions of you. I'm still the same man, I just look a little different. Maybe I am tripping a bit, maybe im not.

For now, I will enjoy the moment but from next week onwards, I think I'm going to stop talking to girls again, and just grind hard.

Did you have sex with any of the girls you are seeing/plan to see?

What was the last time you had sex?

 

[Deleted member 17829]

Dude ur 5'5 man. as soon as they see ur height in person I guarantee they will stop speaking to you.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Did you have sex with any of the girls you are seeing/plan to see?

What was the last time you had sex?

Not yet, I'm seeing a girl this monday, the other one on friday. The monday girl is dtf, the friday girl is a muslim girl who is same race as me, and i met off a muslim dating app. She wants marriage and shit, so I will have to corrupt her or some shit tbh - maybe she is a whore tho, she deffo wants a bf though because she carries the convo on text and asks about my day and shit a lot.

Never bro, I had some mental/high inhib issues, I had a date with a black girl a few months ago, but she was too ugly to fuck. So at the end of the date, when she waited for a hug/kiss I ran into my room. The other white girl I dated, she just creeped me out. She kept taking videos of me and her friends would always say I was cute and she wanted me to meet them like 3 dates in. I ghosted her.

I fully plan on going through with these girls though, I just need to man up at this point. I'm a bit of a volcel tbh

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Dude ur 5'5 man. as soon as they see ur height in person I guarantee they will stop speaking to you.

Nah my height is in my bio. Almost all of the girls are shorter than me, apart from 1. She's 5'7 and I think has a weird gentle femdom thing...

 

[Deleted member 17829]

Nah my height is in my bio. Almost all of the girls are shorter than me, apart from 1. She's 5'7 and I think has a weird gentle femdom thing...

good luck i guess. But why would a girl date a 5'5 guy when 5'5 is so rare and so many 5'10+ guys want her? when height is the no.1 thing women select for in this generation.

why would a girl want to reproduce with you when you both know that kid is gonna have an extremely shitter life, compared to if she reproduced with a taller guy?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

good luck i guess. But why would a girl date a 5'5 guy when 5'5 is so rare and so many 5'10+ guys want her? when height is the no.1 thing women select for in this generation.

why would a girl want to reproduce with you when you both know that kid is gonna have an extremely shitter life, compared to if she reproduced with a taller guy?

I'm very NT I guess and can make girls laugh? Idk all the girls I've dated have always said I was cute and made them laugh a lot, and I guess the idea of being in an LTR with a not ugly, but very NT and just chill guy is appealing?

Also the 2 girls im seeing this work confirmed, are curries. They probably don't care for my height. They're both 5'1 and 5'3 respectively.

 

[Deleted member 17829]

I'm very NT I guess and can make girls laugh? Idk all the girls I've dated have always said I was cute and made them laugh a lot, and I guess the idea of being in an LTR with a not ugly, but very NT and just chill guy is appealing?

Also the 2 girls im seeing this work confirmed, are curries. They probably don't care for my height. They're both 5'1 and 5'3 respectively.

Bro this is a blackpill site. im sure your smarter than to start talking about personality.

'they probably dont care for my height'. trust me. every girl cares about height. whether shes deformed fat tall ugly, they all equally care.

and 5'1 and 5'3. your kids would probably be even shorter than you. that is a death sentence

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Bro this is a blackpill site. im sure your smarter than to start talking about personality.

'they probably dont care for my height'. trust me. every girl cares about height. whether shes deformed fat tall ugly, they all equally care.

and 5'1 and 5'3. your kids would probably be even shorter than you. that is a death sentence

I'm most likely one of the most NT users on this site bro. Idk why girls match with me and agree to meetup and shit. They all seem to be looking for bfs and shit, I'm not a slayer so they just won't fuck me freely, I have to fkin promise monogamy and shit - I'm not, I'm just going to see more girls lol.

I don't intend on taking any of these girls srsly, apart from the bengali muslim one tbh. I'd only breakup with her over a good reason - im still going to see other girls tho

 

[Deleted member 15778]

Damn. I'm looks maxed but still incel.

You could focus on one girl and build a strong connection. It might make you feel better.

 

[Deleted member 16970]

I know that feels.
Its because u know u are not their first, so this interaction could be u being a cuck or alpha based on their past lays.

U need fresh virgin jb poon or a girl whos been with 1 lower value guy

Dont ever give in, a whore can never be saved

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Damn. I'm looks maxed but still incel.

You could focus on one girl and build a strong connection. It might make you feel better.

I've thought of that, and honestly the only worthwhile girl I'm even talking to is the muslim bengali girl who wants a husband and shit. Like she carries the convo on text, asks about my day etc. But it's like, I want to stay loyal and stuff. But truth is you need abundance mindset, otherwise these girls don't really respect you.

I know that feels.
Its because u know u are not their first, so this interaction could be u being a cuck or alpha based on their past lays.

U need fresh virgin jb poon or a girl whos been with 1 lower value guy

Dont ever give in, a whore can never be saved

It's not that.

I've been an incel for 21 years of my life, I had finally reached a point in my life where I was just happy being single and loved everyday of it. I now get this female attention, and nothing has really changed. No value has been brought, it feels like my looksmaxxing efforts went to waste - ofc it hasn't but feelings aren't rational.

 

[Deleted member 17829]

I'm most likely one of the most NT users on this site bro. Idk why girls match with me and agree to meetup and shit. They all seem to be looking for bfs and shit, I'm not a slayer so they just won't fuck me freely, I have to fkin promise monogamy and shit - I'm not, I'm just going to see more girls lol.

I don't intend on taking any of these girls srsly, apart from the bengali muslim one tbh. I'd only breakup with her over a good reason - im still going to see other girls tho

alright let me know if they still wanna see u again after they see ur height in person. im genuinely curious if this will work out for you and disprove the blackpill

 

[Deleted member 15674]

alright let me know if they still wanna see u again after they see ur height in person. im genuinely curious if this will work out for you and disprove the blackpill

it's okay man. I've been on dates with a taller girl before and a shorter girl. I always get 2nd dates and stuff, I just don't act insecure about my height nor do I really bring it up.

The taller girl did bring it up and said "I'm taller than you, are you sure you want to date me?" before meeting me.

I just told her if she feels bad, I'll just wear high-heels.

Blackpill is legit bro, but you niggas underestimate NTpill. Blackpill is real in clubs and shit I reckon, but dating and stuff more factors come into play. Club whores don't care I do bjj, judo, wrestle, read philosophy and have clear goals in life. Girls who want to date however do care for that shit.

I found my niche, and just have to work with it tbh

 

[TITUS]

That's because you are a manlet and manlet's can't enjoy life no matter what.

 

[Preoximerianas]

it's legit bro. I am possibly one of the most NTmaxxed users on this site tbh

Shit man what did you do to become NT?

 

[Squirtoutmabooty]

when height is the no.1 thing women select for in this generation.

I keep seeing this here but never irl. As long as you aren't noticeably short, face and nt mog hard. I have seen maybe 2 couples in the last few months were the guy was tall and below the girl in facial looks, the vast majority are facial looksmatches

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Shit man what did you do to become NT?

I am naturally NT a little. But going to BJJ and judo club and interacting with lots of people made me good at social situations tbh

 

[koalendo]

Not too bad. My response rate on tinder isn't that good tbh. I do a lot better on hinge, like fuck loads better. Bumble I do okayish, but tinder is awful for me haha

You put your real height on bumble and hinge? What are the races of girls you match with?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

You put your real height on bumble and hinge? What are the races of girls you match with?

curries mainly and a few blacks jfl. On hinge I get a lot more stuff

 

[fifteenflagsfly]

I've been getting new matches and new dates with girls almost everyday now for the past few days, got a few numbers and shit. I feel empty as fuck rn, like these girls bring no fucking value to my life. They won't bring me to my BJJ bluebelt or judo blackbelt any faster, it's a fucking weird feeling tbh. I've NTmaxxed hard and have top tier talk (ask @gymcel7 ), it's fucking weird. It just feels like I have this weird fkin power where I can just say stuff to girls and make them laugh and giggle and give me their number.

Maybe I'm thinking about shit too much and years of blackpill and philosophy has rotted my brain. I think I've reached normie level of appeal or something, idk. I'm seeing 2 girls this week confirmed. Another potential 3 too, but 2 of them live quite far and logistics might be a bit of an issue. All of these girls I think want an LTR (The 2 who i am deffo seeing want an LTR haha). It's pretty crazy, how just fitting into a niche will change women's perceptions of you. I'm still the same man, I just look a little different. Maybe I am tripping a bit, maybe im not.

For now, I will enjoy the moment but from next week onwards, I think I'm going to stop talking to girls again, and just grind hard.

you didn't ascend through learning game, you ascended because your brown in England that's like playing football with no goalie.

It's done. you won.

 

[Deleted member 15778]

I've thought of that, and honestly the only worthwhile girl I'm even talking to is the muslim bengali girl who wants a husband and shit. Like she carries the convo on text, asks about my day etc. But it's like, I want to stay loyal and stuff. But truth is you need abundance mindset, otherwise these girls don't really respect you.

You can have abundance mindset only talking to one girl, if you know that you could get more matches, and more dates if things didn't work out, without too much trouble (Don't let yourself go). Also once you've had sex with a girl six times or so, you can just be yourself and relax around her and she'll most likely stay and be happy.

If you focus on everything you like about one girl, you'll start to enjoy those things more and more over time. Maybe something she does annoys you, but you can choose to see it as a cute, and after a while you'll start loving that thing she does. If you're dating many women you don't ever go that deep in appreciating any of them, so it's very surface level.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

You can have abundance mindset only talking to one girl, if you know that you could get more matches, and more dates if things didn't work out, without too much trouble (Don't let yourself go). Also once you've had sex with a girl six times or so, you can just be yourself and relax around her and she'll most likely stay and be happy.

If you focus on everything you like about one girl, you'll start to enjoy those things more and more over time. Maybe something she does annoys you, but you can choose to see it as a cute, and after a while you'll start loving that thing she does. If you're dating many women you don't ever go that deep in appreciating any of them, so it's very surface level.

I just feel like throwing up tbh at the nature of women. I think I'm going to stay away from them for a while after this

 

[Deleted member 15827]

baseline level of happiness theory. U can get everything u want in life and itll give you a temporary happiness spike but ultimately youll always go back to your initial baseline level of happiness thats been programmed by your genetics

I increased my baseline with celibacy fasting and hardcore exercise/ meditation.

 

[thegoat]

it's okay man. I've been on dates with a taller girl before and a shorter girl. I always get 2nd dates and stuff, I just don't act insecure about my height nor do I really bring it up.

The taller girl did bring it up and said "I'm taller than you, are you sure you want to date me?" before meeting me.

I just told her if she feels bad, I'll just wear high-heels.

Blackpill is legit bro, but you niggas underestimate NTpill. Blackpill is real in clubs and shit I reckon, but dating and stuff more factors come into play. Club whores don't care I do bjj, judo, wrestle, read philosophy and have clear goals in life. Girls who want to date however do care for that shit.

I found my niche, and just have to work with it tbh

Well said. Additionally one thing to consider is that 99% of pslers are non-NT, we dont fucking get anecdotes from what people are able to achieve through NT on this site. That being said NT is at best 10% rest is LMS (theres just too much blackpill evidence disproving NT e.g. the OLD study where personality correlated with looks).

 

[LooksOrDeath]

it's legit bro. I am possibly one of the most NTmaxxed users on this site tbh

No shade but why is it that NTness increases as you get shorter? LooksOverAll is 6'7 and we all know what he is like

 

[Beetlejuice]

It is over

 

[AcneScars]

>Gets a perm