I feel horrible…

[lg5293]

A little backstory:
i grew up as a very ugly duckling before I discovered looksmaxxing forums (not specifically .org) and was about 2 feet shorter and 45+ pounds lighter than everyone else so I was a very easy target to bullying. There is this girl who used to bully me and after I had a small ascension, she didn’t recognize me. I came back from summer 6 inches taller and put a lot of muscle on my frame with the gym, cleared up my acne and got my smile fixed with braces, etc. and overall became more “normal”

Now for the main part of the story:
Since I had came back from summer with a lot better appearance, I had a couple of girls approaching me at football games asking for my social media, etc. There was this girl I talked to before the summer and she chose a more attractive guy, but when I came back “better”, she dumped him and went back to me. I took her to hoco and we didn’t really “click” like we did before. Everything felt forced so I left. I went for another girl who liked me, and everything went fine for a few months until she got lustful (which I am not a fan of). Most of the school knew we broke up since we are both kind of popular. The girl who used to bully me was now in my English class, and she didn’t recognize me but she knew I was single now and we sat next to each other and she was flirting with me etc. She liked me so she shot her shot, and I rejected her (and kind of brutally now that I realize it). My friends (who I go to the gym with) asked me why I said no, and I told them about my past experience with her bullying me, saying I looked like those holocaust starvation camp victims, calling me various names and overall making fun of me. Now she’s moved schools and my friend (who is a girl, who is also friends with the girl I rejected) said she moved because of me rejecting her. I feel really bad and don’t know what to do because I feel like I really hurt her. Despite being treated poorly in the past, she’s still a human at the end of the day. I just don’t know what to do.

 

[123.5]

I just don’t know what to do.

Ignore all of them, move on

 

[shouldiusehgh]

yeah what are u even thinking about this for

 

[hxdsxn]

A little backstory:
i grew up as a very ugly duckling before I discovered looksmaxxing forums (not specifically .org) and was about 2 feet shorter and 45+ pounds lighter than everyone else so I was a very easy target to bullying. There is this girl who used to bully me and after I had a small ascension, she didn’t recognize me. I came back from summer 6 inches taller and put a lot of muscle on my frame with the gym, cleared up my acne and got my smile fixed with braces, etc. and overall became more “normal”

Now for the main part of the story:
Since I had came back from summer with a lot better appearance, I had a couple of girls approaching me at football games asking for my social media, etc. There was this girl I talked to before the summer and she chose a more attractive guy, but when I came back “better”, she dumped him and went back to me. I took her to hoco and we didn’t really “click” like we did before. Everything felt forced so I left. I went for another girl who liked me, and everything went fine for a few months until she got lustful (which I am not a fan of). Most of the school knew we broke up since we are both kind of popular. The girl who used to bully me was now in my English class, and she didn’t recognize me but she knew I was single now and we sat next to each other and she was flirting with me etc. She liked me so she shot her shot, and I rejected her (and kind of brutally now that I realize it). My friends (who I go to the gym with) asked me why I said no, and I told them about my past experience with her bullying me, saying I looked like those holocaust starvation camp victims, calling me various names and overall making fun of me. Now she’s moved schools and my friend (who is a girl, who is also friends with the girl I rejected) said she moved because of me rejecting her. I feel really bad and don’t know what to do because I feel like I really hurt her. Despite being treated poorly in the past, she’s still a human at the end of the day. I just don’t know what to do.

based fuck that foid for bullying you

 

[lg5293]

I know it’s really stupid. I just feel like a human for the first time, not some outcast.

 

[DNR_]

yeah what are u even thinking about this for

trauma simply cannot be ignored

 

[lg5293]

Yeah, it’s not really the fact that it’s the person who bullied me, it’s more just the fact that I made someone feel like an outcast. Everyone has feelings even if they are a bad person. I know what it’s like to be an outcast. I was bullied so frequently in middle school that I would dread school mornings. it would mean a whole day of tormenting was ahead.

 

[dbdrFanboy]

A little backstory:
i grew up as a very ugly duckling before I discovered looksmaxxing forums (not specifically .org) and was about 2 feet shorter and 45+ pounds lighter than everyone else so I was a very easy target to bullying. There is this girl who used to bully me and after I had a small ascension, she didn’t recognize me. I came back from summer 6 inches taller and put a lot of muscle on my frame with the gym, cleared up my acne and got my smile fixed with braces, etc. and overall became more “normal”

Now for the main part of the story:
Since I had came back from summer with a lot better appearance, I had a couple of girls approaching me at football games asking for my social media, etc. There was this girl I talked to before the summer and she chose a more attractive guy, but when I came back “better”, she dumped him and went back to me. I took her to hoco and we didn’t really “click” like we did before. Everything felt forced so I left. I went for another girl who liked me, and everything went fine for a few months until she got lustful (which I am not a fan of). Most of the school knew we broke up since we are both kind of popular. The girl who used to bully me was now in my English class, and she didn’t recognize me but she knew I was single now and we sat next to each other and she was flirting with me etc. She liked me so she shot her shot, and I rejected her (and kind of brutally now that I realize it). My friends (who I go to the gym with) asked me why I said no, and I told them about my past experience with her bullying me, saying I looked like those holocaust starvation camp victims, calling me various names and overall making fun of me. Now she’s moved schools and my friend (who is a girl, who is also friends with the girl I rejected) said she moved because of me rejecting her. I feel really bad and don’t know what to do because I feel like I really hurt her. Despite being treated poorly in the past, she’s still a human at the end of the day. I just don’t know what to do.

Dnr greycel

 

[lg5293]

Dnr greycel
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Yeah, I don’t post often on anything. I just wanted to share an experience and ask why I feel so bad about something so insignificant.

 

[johndoe_]

Yeah, I don’t post often on anything. I just wanted to share an experience and ask why I feel so bad about something so insignificant.

There are multiple reasons as to why you feel the way you do about it. The most probable one is knowing what it feels like to be rejected by others and having felt what you did. You know how terrible your experience was before, and when you do something „similar“ you feel like your giving someone that pain you once had.

In reality, it isn‘t like that. Asking someone out comes with the risk of rejection, no matter how harsh. If you can‘t accept being rejected, you shouldn‘t ask people out. It‘s not your job to baby people because they dont have the intelligence to think ahead.

I‘d just move on with this and recognize that‘s what life is. She isn‘t your responsibility, so you shouldn‘t worry about her feeling bad with a forseeable outcome.