I feel like looksmaxxing is self h4rming myself

[Deleted member 99892]

Keep getting rejected on dates so im trying to keep looksmaxxing to improve everything so hopefully eventually someone will accept me

Changing my skin colour - self h4rm

Getting tattoos - self h4rm

Getting veneers where they grinded away my teeth - self hrm

Dyeing my hair with toxic bleach which ur not allowed to even get on ur skin - self hrm

going to the gym, destroying my muscles, so they adapt and get bigger - literally the most obvious self hrm which i do every day


I've got a few more looksmaxxes on the books, next things on the list is like surgeries

jaw surgery aka drilling into my skull - self hrm

earplasty aka cutting off parts of my ears - self hrm


and if im still getting rejected after all of this ill idk what ill do



its all slowly destroying every aspect of myself just to get a girl who might love me?

feels soul destroying

 

[Deleted member 99995]

self perfection you mean

 

[ey88]

You are doing it wrong then

 

[HorseMan7]

The only thing you listed that might actually help you is surgery, dumbass. The rest is just selfharm

 

[Youㅤ]

using .org is self harm jfl overfor me

 

[Deleted member 99892]

self perfection you mean

why do i need to self harm myself to be visually perfect when i go outside and many non-perfect people have girlfriends and happy lives

 

[Deleted member 99995]

why do i need to self harm myself to be visually perfect when i go outside and many non-perfect people have girlfriends and happy lives

If you already can get girlfriend and are happy, why u on here bro?

 

[Deleted member 99892]

If you already can get girlfriend and are happy, why u on here bro?

???

 

[HandsomeHustler]

low t

 

[actualunderstander]

Bro how is going to the gym "self harm"? That's like saying getting better at any skill is self harm cause you have to adapt..wtf