I feel like my mom is starting to resent me for loosing weight…

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Is it normal for a parent to start to kinda hate on you when you’re doing good for yourself….
 
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obviously that isnt normal but maybe she just thought you looked cuter when you were chubbier or maybe when she thinks of you she sees the chubby version of you in her head who knows
 
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Is it normal for a parent to start to kinda hate on you when you’re doing good for yourself….
no its not normal maybe try to speak with her about it instead of posting on .org
 
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just angry at you for trying to look better or maybe she thinks your going through some self-hate or doubt. its pretty common for me at least
 
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My mum hates me being skinny, she always has. She would overfeed me and made me eat the same portion of food as my dad when I was a child. And I did put some weight on in my teens and when I decided and told her I wanted to go on a diet, she would continue making food for me and would get mad at me for not eating it.
 
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My mum hates me being skinny, she always has. She would overfeed me and made me eat the same portion of food as my dad when I was a child. And I did put some weight on in my teens and when I decided and told her I wanted to go on a diet, she would continue making food for me and would get mad at me for not eating it.
Your Mexican arnt you. I ain tryna be racist but a lot of Mexican moms be like that
 
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My mum hates me being skinny, she always has. She would overfeed me and made me eat the same portion of food as my dad when I was a child. And I did put some weight on in my teens and when I decided and told her I wanted to go on a diet, she would continue making food for me and would get mad at me for not eating it.
Height?
 
My mum hates me being skinny, she always has. She would overfeed me and made me eat the same portion of food as my dad when I was a child. And I did put some weight on in my teens and when I decided and told her I wanted to go on a diet, she would continue making food for me and would get mad at me for not eating it.
lucky, my parents don’t feed me or let me eat, i was bmi 16 until the age of 14
 
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bmi 20, had to work my ass off to even have a normal bmi
Holy shit so you were basically anorexic. Good job. I used to be skinny (not as skinny as you) and I know how hard putting on any weight is.
 
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Holy shit so you were basically anorexic. Good job. I used to be skinny (not as skinny as you) and I know how hard putting on any weight is.
i know bro thank you, i fucking despise them, they won’t let me get a job or do anything, i’m constantly hungry and i get made fun of at school for being “poor” when they both make 300k+ annually combined, they actively try to make my life as hard as possible and they are kicking me out at age 18 for ONLY having a 3.5 GPA and above average SAT/ACT scores
 
i know bro thank you, i fucking despise them, they won’t let me get a job or do anything, i’m constantly hungry and i get made fun of at school for being “poor” when they both make 300k+ annually combined, they actively try to make my life as hard as possible and they are kicking me out at age 18 for ONLY having a 3.5 GPA and above average SAT/ACT scores
Holy shit I got kicked out of my house hella times but you sound like an amazing student and actually trying hard. That’s actually sad asf bro. Best thing I can say is prob just to get your money up by yourself. Get a side hustle or a job. Save up enough to get out of there. If not find a friend to stay with until you can get back on your feet (I promise if your parents say “you’re going to ruin your life” don’t believe them. Your still 18.)

Ay man proud of you though. Sounds like you came a long way
 
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