I feel like nobody ever enjoys talking to me

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Every time I find someone who has the same interest as me I tend to get really exicted and crap cus my mind goes “dude we got a new friend” alr and when I talk with them I get so lost cus happy I am I expect them to talk back and be as interested it’s not just me talking if it was it wouldn’t be a convo more like a lecture and I think I end up talking to too much and the person will say something like “that’s crazy bro” which is hint that they want stop talking.

Well now after they say that crap I shut up and then I go back to feeling all lonely and miserable :lul: and it’s crazy how ppl always have something to say about me not talking a lot or ask me sum dumb question like “hey bro why don’t you talk” n wordsare the reason im introverted highinhib and have acute anxiety.
 
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Its becuz ur a passionate chad and theyre depressed chuds dont let it get to you bro
 
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Its becuz ur a passionate chad and theyre depressed chuds dont let it get to you bro
Dawg don’t tell me that crap bro cus yo I’ve been trying to learn how to talk to people for weeks on the idk but I have prayed to God to help get rid of this high inhib crap and this is what I get and if I don’t talk to people my mind gets all miserable and sad
 
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PM if you want to talk about what ever bhai
 
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Every time I find someone who has the same interest as me I tend to get really exicted and crap cus my mind goes “dude we got a new friend” alr and when I talk with them I get so lost cus happy I am I expect them to talk back and be as interested it’s not just me talking if it was it wouldn’t be a convo more like a lecture and I think I end up talking to too much and the person will say something like “that’s crazy bro” which is hint that they want stop talking.

Well now after they say that crap I shut up and then I go back to feeling all lonely and miserable :lul: and it’s crazy how ppl always have something to say about me not talking a lot or ask me sum dumb question like “hey bro why don’t you talk” n wordsare the reason im introverted highinhib and have acute anxiety.
I don’t wanna invalidate your feelings and shit dude. But as someone who’s experienced similar thought patterns I really want to emphasize how the overwhelming majority of this shit is just in your head.

Just keep being yourself and saying what comes to your mind, most people aren’t as analytical as you think they are
 
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Every time I find someone who has the same interest as me I tend to get really exicted and crap cus my mind goes “dude we got a new friend” alr and when I talk with them I get so lost cus happy I am I expect them to talk back and be as interested it’s not just me talking if it was it wouldn’t be a convo more like a lecture and I think I end up talking to too much and the person will say something like “that’s crazy bro” which is hint that they want stop talking.

Well now after they say that crap I shut up and then I go back to feeling all lonely and miserable :lul: and it’s crazy how ppl always have something to say about me not talking a lot or ask me sum dumb question like “hey bro why don’t you talk” n wordsare the reason im introverted highinhib and have acute anxiety.
Very relatable
 
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Every time I find someone who has the same interest as me I tend to get really exicted and crap cus my mind goes “dude we got a new friend” alr and when I talk with them I get so lost cus happy I am I expect them to talk back and be as interested it’s not just me talking if it was it wouldn’t be a convo more like a lecture and I think I end up talking to too much and the person will say something like “that’s crazy bro” which is hint that they want stop talking.

Well now after they say that crap I shut up and then I go back to feeling all lonely and miserable :lul: and it’s crazy how ppl always have something to say about me not talking a lot or ask me sum dumb question like “hey bro why don’t you talk” n wordsare the reason im introverted highinhib and have acute anxiety.
Same
 
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You're too excited and are actively looking for friends, probs come off as needy, you need to be chill, they'll come to you. That's crazy isn't a cue for you to shut up btw, everyone does it.
 
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