I feel like one of the reasons I'm unlucky with women is because...

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I am very self-conscious.

Is it so. When I see a girl I'm attracted to, I immediately imagine things from her life, even when I don't even know her. And worst of all, I don't even bother to do it.

For example, when I see a white girl, the idea comes to mind that she is probably high class and she is going to reject me for that. My oneitis that rejected me a few weeks ago was a Hapa girl (in her case, Japanese-Hispanic) and I fetishized her too much for her Asian side, I guess I got excited about that, I mean, I have the idea that if I go to Eastern Asia may be lucky, may not. I hope so.

In the end, it comes down to making wrong assumptions about the women I know. I judge women a lot and, in addition to my physical appearance, I feel that this is a factor that slows me down a lot.
 
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If you look good you will still get rejected but not as often. Look better then you will get rejected less, simple enough no?
 
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Over for highinhibcels
 
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Tambien hablas espanol?
 
Sound like some nice cope
 
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For me having a relationship and sex with a woman seems too far fetched and too good to be true. Deep down there's this part of me that knows I am too subhuman for any girl, and that I will always get rejected no matter what. I have never even approached or asked out or tried making any moves on a female ever because of this.
 
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If there's anything slowing you down, it is the looks... You're just coping.
 
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that's a whole lotta words for "because I am a subhuman"
 
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If there's anything slowing you down, it is the looks... You're just coping.
It may be, but this also influences a lot.

Chad can be inhibited and will continue to be lucky.
 

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