I find the idea behind 'dates' disturbing

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You meet a stranger (most likely met via OLD) and go have lunch with them.

I've only ever had two short flings with girls and outside of that I'm pretty much incel and never approached any women. But these two were from mutual friends/class it felt a lot more natural. We would already spend time with each other and our social circles before we go closer, naturally. But in OLD you are taking a stranger, a literal stranger to a restaurant and having lunch with them. Regardless of if you spoke to the bitch for days - the end goal was always a date anyway. Chatting is just another filtering process. The real stuff happens when you meet IRL.

I could never do this. I'm too high inhib. Socialcirclemaxx of death.I have to know someone naturally not artificially. This isn't blue pill this is how things should be.
Too bad for me, my inhibition prevents me from social circlmaxxing.
 
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This is how the majority of people would find relationships back in the day. Workplace, school, or friend group.
 
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Everyone starts out as a stranger

When your mom gives you birth she is a stranger to you, at first
 
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