i get approached less even tho im more attractive than i was 2 years ago

SchizoParanoid_

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my first post (and its already a shitty one tbh) but as title says, even tho im more attractive than i was 2 years ago (taller, less bodyfat, better body, fashionmaxxed) im getting approached less than 2 years ago, anyone else suffers from this?
my theory is that i look less approachable, im by no means a intimidating nigga, but i have positively tilted dark eyebrows and high FWHR and lots of people tell me i look serious/pissed/like a player/like an asshole, ive had numerous girls tell me "i wanted to talk to you, but you look fucking pissed"
 
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my first post (and its already a shitty one tbh) but as title says, even tho im more attractive than i was 2 years ago (taller, less bodyfat, better body, fashionmaxxed) im getting approached less than 2 years ago, anyone else suffers from this?
my theory is that i look less approachable, im by no means a intimidating nigga, but i have positively tilted dark eyebrows and high FWHR and lots of people tell me i look serious/pissed/like a player/like an asshole, ive had numerous girls tell me "i wanted to talk to you, but you look fucking pissed"
Youre probably squinting but it happens you get lots of Signs of interest but youre attarctive so that attractiveness makes you intimading
 
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my first post (and its already a shitty one tbh) but as title says, even tho im more attractive than i was 2 years ago (taller, less bodyfat, better body, fashionmaxxed) im getting approached less than 2 years ago, anyone else suffers from this?
my theory is that i look less approachable, im by no means a intimidating nigga, but i have positively tilted dark eyebrows and high FWHR and lots of people tell me i look serious/pissed/like a player/like an asshole, ive had numerous girls tell me "i wanted to talk to you, but you look fucking pissed"
Same thing happens to me xd
 
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Youre probably squinting but it happens you get lots of Signs of interest but youre attarctive so that attractiveness makes you intimading
nah i dont squint, and when i do im just trying to read something bcuz my eyesight is shit, attractiveness making me intimidating sounds like cope even to me tbh but who knows
 
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ive had numerous girls tell me "i wanted to talk to you, but you look fucking pissed"
So you did get approached by girls then huh? You literally just said that girls told you that
 
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So you did get approached by girls then huh? You literally just said that girls told you that
i dont think im quite understanding what you said but yes, i still get approached (not much tho, im not chadlite nor chad) but i used to get approached more before even tho i was objectively less attractive
 
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i dont think im quite understanding what you said but yes, i still get approached (not much tho, im not chadlite nor chad) but i used to get approached more before even tho i was objectively less attractive
What do you rate yourself before and now?
 
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before LTN, now HTN if im not bloated and hair is on point
How do you even get approached as a LTN???? Like how does that make sense? Does that not disprove the blackpill?
 
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It's probably because you are more intimidating but not so GL to make low inhib women want to take the risk. Not a bad problem to have tbh.

Generally you shouldn't rely on women to approach you anyway because 99% won't.

The main thing to look for is did the amount of ioi's you receive (women looking at you, playing with their hair around you, smiling at you, standing near you unnecessarily, etc.) go up or down?
 
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How do you even get approached as a LTN???? Like how does that make sense? Does that not disprove the blackpill?
thats the thing, i shouldnt have been approached as much as i was being, i mean a girl literally told me she wanted to suck me dry one time, and now that i am more attractive i don't get approached as much? glitch in the matrix imo
 
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thats the thing, i shouldnt have been approached as much as i was being, i mean a girl literally told me she wanted to suck me dry one time, and now that i am more attractive i don't get approached as much? glitch in the matrix imo
When you were ltn how frequently were you getting approached and where were you getting approached? Example : school. And also how you you rate the girls /10 who approached you?
 
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The main thing to look for is did the amount of ioi's you receive (women looking at you, playing with their hair around you, smiling at you, standing near you unnecessarily, etc.) go up or down?
yeah i think the amount of iois went up
 
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my first post (and its already a shitty one tbh) but as title says, even tho im more attractive than i was 2 years ago (taller, less bodyfat, better body, fashionmaxxed) im getting approached less than 2 years ago, anyone else suffers from this?
my theory is that i look less approachable, im by no means a intimidating nigga, but i have positively tilted dark eyebrows and high FWHR and lots of people tell me i look serious/pissed/like a player/like an asshole, ive had numerous girls tell me "i wanted to talk to you, but you look fucking pissed"
its cus ur dark triad rira gigachad yooo chico slayer
 
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When you were ltn how frequently were you getting approached and where were you getting approached? Example : school. And also how you you rate the girls /10 who approached you?
i dont recall the rate, but i got approached 2 times in a week for example, and one of them was older than me jfl, another time i got approached by 2 (yes fucking 2 girls) at the same time (i didnt quite like them, they kinda forced me to give them my socials). most times i got approached where at school, but i would also get approached outside just more rarely. i would rate the girls plain mtb
 
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i dont recall the rate, but i got approached 2 times in a week for example, and one of them was older than me jfl, another time i got approached by 2 (yes fucking 2 girls) at the same time (i didnt quite like them, they kinda forced me to give them my socials). most times i got approached where at school, but i would also get approached outside just more rarely. i would rate the girls plain mtb
tho there was this girl (the older than me one) which is in my opinion htb, sadly i fumbled her
 
yeah i think the amount of iois went up
You should find out. Do you catch women looking at you often? Or holding eye contact? Or sitting near you when they have other options?

Approaching is a good sign but if you're getting approached because you don't seem like a sexual threat then that's not necessarily good. ioi's always indicate sexual interest, approaches don't always indicate sexual interest (unless she explicitly states sexual interest.)

Also maybe you just nichemaxxed into a less approachable style? Is your fashion less NT than it used to be ie: more dark colors?
 
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You should find out. Do you catch women looking at you often? Or holding eye contact? Or sitting near you when they have other options?

Approaching is a good sign but if you're getting approached because you don't seem like a sexual threat then that's not necessarily good. ioi's always indicate sexual interest, approaches don't always indicate sexual interest (unless she explicitly states sexual interest.)

Also maybe you just nichemaxxed into a less approachable style? Is your fashion less NT than it used to be ie: more dark colors?
yeah i sometimes catch them little shits looking at me, kinda makes me uncomfortable ngl, im too much of an aspie to make eye contact tho.
and when i say approach i dont mean "asking for directions" type approach i was literally getting approached as a potential partner.
on the nichemaxxed thing, i dress more nt but i do recognize i lost some of my nieche appeal, i go for more "normal" clothes if you know what i mean
 
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bump dis shiet
 
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Blackpill debunked
no, i get treated better now that i look better, but it bugs me, i thought that if i got more attractive i would get approached more but its the other way around jfl
 
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no, i get treated better now that i look better, but it bugs me, i thought that if i got more attractive i would get approached more but its the other way around jfl
No all I am saying is that you are EXTREMELY Lucky to even get approached to be a partner by a MTB and HTB while your a fucking LTN :lul: in all honesty this is much better than winning the lottery. How tf can you even be approached as a ltn you lucky ass mf. Give me your luck please
 
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No all I am saying is that you are EXTREMELY Lucky to even get approached to be a partner by a MTB and HTB while your a fucking LTN :lul: in all honesty this is much better than winning the lottery. How tf can you even be approached as a ltn you lucky ass mf. Give me your luck please
life is a bitch isnt it? one girl did an fbi investigation and found my IG (with no fucking pictures of my face at the time whatsoever) just bcuz she saw me walking in the street to my home after school
 
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life is a bitch isnt it? one girl did an fbi investigation and found my IG (with no fucking pictures of my face at the time whatsoever) just bcuz she saw me walking in the street to my home after school
No way. I will forever be luckpilled. Overrr
 

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No way. I will forever be luckpilled. Overrr
well i really hope there is a reason that i can fix to get approached as much as i used to besides fucking luck
 
my first post (and its already a shitty one tbh) but as title says, even tho im more attractive than i was 2 years ago (taller, less bodyfat, better body, fashionmaxxed) im getting approached less than 2 years ago, anyone else suffers from this?
my theory is that i look less approachable, im by no means a intimidating nigga, but i have positively tilted dark eyebrows and high FWHR and lots of people tell me i look serious/pissed/like a player/like an asshole, ive had numerous girls tell me "i wanted to talk to you, but you look fucking pissed"
Did u discover bp 2 years ago when u were an LTN?
 
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Damn bruh so it'll take me so much time to ascend:feelswhy::feelswhy:
nah it depends, i got taller which is completely up to luck time and genetics but the rest is achievable very fast (like working out, losing body fat, dressing better) shiet, im not even fully looksmaxxed i need to lose some bodyfat still
 
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chad is minimum in 2025
 
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nah it depends, i got taller which is completely up to luck time and genetics but the rest is achievable very fast (like working out, losing body fat, dressing better) shiet, im not even fully looksmaxxed i need to lose some bodyfat still
Tru totally agree, I'm alr kinda tall so i think I'll squeeze another 2 inches, it's just i dont have much bones, and my lower third is cooked and i look much older like 22-25 when I'm 17.
 
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Tru totally agree, I'm alr kinda tall so i think I'll squeeze another 2 inches, it's just i dont have much bones, and my lower third is cooked and i look much older like 22-25 when I'm 17.
i look younger, than my age despite smoking 20 cigs per day, eating like shit and sleeping just 6 hours, collagenPill is brutal, also you might grow bones, my jaw got more foward growth from 16 to 18, my nose kinda got a bump now tho...
 
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i look younger, than my age despite smoking 20 cigs per day, eating like shit and sleeping just 6 hours, collagenPill is brutal, also you might grow bones, my jaw got more foward growth from 16 to 18, my nose kinda got a bump now tho...
Tru man, i regret now not eating and sleeping properly:feelswhy::(
 
tbh, i dont even know who my itis fucks with so you may be right. the only thing i know for sure is that she HATES me
i relate somewhat, my itis which is my ex hates me but im 80% sure she humps the big ass plushie i gifted her
 
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i relate somewhat, my itis which is my ex hates me but im 80% sure she humps the big ass plushie i gifted her
she is a mystery, i will be over it once she blocks me
 
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she is a mystery, i will be over it once she blocks me
good luck bro, im still kinda hoping my ex texts me back in my case, but im ok if she doesnt
 
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good luck bro, im still kinda hoping my ex texts me back in my case, but im ok if she doesnt
i have a plan to elicit a block and it will most likely work. i think her narcissism got limits tbh tbh
 
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last bump before going to sleep
 
Looksmaxxing is cope
 
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my first post (and its already a shitty one tbh) but as title says, even tho im more attractive than i was 2 years ago (taller, less bodyfat, better body, fashionmaxxed) im getting approached less than 2 years ago, anyone else suffers from this?
my theory is that i look less approachable, im by no means a intimidating nigga, but i have positively tilted dark eyebrows and high FWHR and lots of people tell me i look serious/pissed/like a player/like an asshole, ive had numerous girls tell me "i wanted to talk to you, but you look fucking pissed"
FRR
 
pls revive this shit thread, im bored and need anwsers
 

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