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Your looks aren't going to matter because you're probably at a 9 or even 10 looks wise. The work will have to come from your personality. Shyness is fine, but it needs to be displayed in an attractive way.
Here's what I recommend. Find a hobby you like doing that can be done in a group. An example is I joined a running club and a few single girls show up here and there. I usually end up introducing myself and chit chatting after the run because the group gets coffee afterwards usually. This can be hard but as long as you show a little bit of interest (it doesnt even have to be you talking, it could just be you quietly stretching or just saying "hi" really quick) in meeting someone or about the hobby and keep coming back, someone will probably introduce themselves. Don't rush anything, make a friend (guy or girl) and then go from there. Ask around and slowly climb out of your shell. It takes time, but eventually you'll find the confidence to talk to someone and get to know them
If you're feeling extra adventurous or just want to do something that you might find REALLY difficult, go to a popular bar that has an event like darts or corn hole or something along those lines. Look around, get a drink if you'd like, and just see if a group of girls or a solo girl is interested in, say, the dart board or in participating in one of the activities. Go up and ask them if you can join them as youre "new in town" and wanted to meet new people. If they decline, don't take it personally and just go about your night/day and, I cannot stress this part enough, **DO NOT FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELF** if you get get rejected. It's just a part of life. Please do not think it's something you did or something about your physically or even socially. This can also be made much easier if someone who is less shy helps you out or wingmans for you. If you don't have friends, well... Make some at the bar or hobby group! Shyness can be cute to a LOT of women and can even make you seem more empathetic or like a challenge to someone who might find you very attractive physically.
Also your height doesn't matter to like 90% of women. If you find one that does care that much, then she's not the one and DEFINITELY isn't worth your time. Do not waste your time on people who do not like you and who you do not like.
Here's what I recommend. Find a hobby you like doing that can be done in a group. An example is I joined a running club and a few single girls show up here and there. I usually end up introducing myself and chit chatting after the run because the group gets coffee afterwards usually. This can be hard but as long as you show a little bit of interest (it doesnt even have to be you talking, it could just be you quietly stretching or just saying "hi" really quick) in meeting someone or about the hobby and keep coming back, someone will probably introduce themselves. Don't rush anything, make a friend (guy or girl) and then go from there. Ask around and slowly climb out of your shell. It takes time, but eventually you'll find the confidence to talk to someone and get to know them
If you're feeling extra adventurous or just want to do something that you might find REALLY difficult, go to a popular bar that has an event like darts or corn hole or something along those lines. Look around, get a drink if you'd like, and just see if a group of girls or a solo girl is interested in, say, the dart board or in participating in one of the activities. Go up and ask them if you can join them as youre "new in town" and wanted to meet new people. If they decline, don't take it personally and just go about your night/day and, I cannot stress this part enough, **DO NOT FEEL BAD ABOUT YOURSELF** if you get get rejected. It's just a part of life. Please do not think it's something you did or something about your physically or even socially. This can also be made much easier if someone who is less shy helps you out or wingmans for you. If you don't have friends, well... Make some at the bar or hobby group! Shyness can be cute to a LOT of women and can even make you seem more empathetic or like a challenge to someone who might find you very attractive physically.
Also your height doesn't matter to like 90% of women. If you find one that does care that much, then she's not the one and DEFINITELY isn't worth your time. Do not waste your time on people who do not like you and who you do not like.
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sexual attraction is looks but relationships are not all about sexual attraction
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It’s not all about looks
There’s also status
There’s also status
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