I got told by 2 people today that I overthink too much

[RAITEIII]

JFL each of them at different times. But, I can't help but analyse all possible outcomes in all situations that I consider worthy and try to be one step ahead.

The thing is that I do admit that it also puts stress on me, and I am more prone to mess it up or have a weird behaviour this way.

 

[ToursOverBoyo2020]

I'm the say way. I had a foid tell me I overthink things 8 years ago jfl

 

[Deleted member 9380]

your overthink too much

 

[Deleted member 2012]

Giga incel trait btw

 

[Hightwolf]

If u overthink well enough people won't realize you're overthinking because you would have considered that scenario and thought of the way to avoid it.

 

[RAITEIII]

I usually need a beer to chill

Giga incel trait btw

 

[Ritalincell]

U are overthinking too much making this thread.

 

[RAITEIII]

U are overthinking too much making this thread

Good one tbh. Here i am (its) over- thinking about this on the bus

 

[Deleted member 10125]

yeah man, overthinking is a really bad habit that increases cortisol and pulls you out of the moment making it impossible to truly let go and be anxiety free. I used to do it like crazy and it was hell tbh, meditation and healthy lifestyle choices ultimately cured it for me but it takes conscious effort to eliminate those thought patterns.

 

[RAITEIII]

yeah man, overthinking is a really bad habit that increases cortisol and pulls you out of the moment making it impossible to truly let go and be anxiety free. I used to do it like crazy and it was hell tbh, meditation and healthy lifestyle choices ultimately cured it for me but it takes conscious effort to eliminate those thought patterns.

But idk i dont think its necessarily bad jfl i dont like to be careless. I guess i just need to identify better whats really worth my thoughts.

 

[RAITEIII]

yeah man, overthinking is a really bad habit that increases cortisol and pulls you out of the moment making it impossible to truly let go and be anxiety free. I used to do it like crazy and it was hell tbh, meditation and healthy lifestyle choices ultimately cured it for me but it takes conscious effort to eliminate those thought patterns.

Thx graycel tbh

 

[Deleted member 4612]

If u overthink well enough people won't realize you're overthinking because you would have considered that scenario and thought of the way to avoid it.

yup, OP is thinking more than average but not enough to where it benefits him

 

[Deleted member 10125]

But idk i dont think its necessarily bad jfl i dont like to be careless. I guess i just need to identify better whats really worth my thoughts.

Sure maybe this would’ve been a useful trait in hunter gatherer times, but in modern society overthinking is synonymous with being afraid to embarrass yourself by making a mistake in front of others.
But that risk is only as real as ones response to the moment they do inevitably make a mistake, an illusion that only has merit if you acknowledge it to be true.

You can either choose to let fear inhibit you from doing what you want to do, or learn to let go and truly act upon what feels right in a given moment. And as someone who has spent time in both fields I can assure you that the latter is magnitudes more fulfilling.

 

[RAITEIII]

yup, OP is thinking more than average but not enough to where it benefits him

If u overthink well enough people won't realize you're overthinking because you would have considered that scenario and thought of the way to avoid it.

I will need to adress this comment of you both.

Sometimes you just can't help it. Cuz in order to prevent your possible calculation you need to warn someone else so you both(or only u) don't get fucked up. Yh maybe nothing happens and u didnt have to worry, bit it could have happened.

It's good to be this way but not with everything. And yh always u can avoid folks realizing then do it so , which I do.

I dont know what type of idiot im dealing wit.

 

[Azoriko]

too much thinking son