prince_
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Last friday i was at a party with like 10 friends and its a massive party like there was about 300+ people so you just get the setting.
We were in the middle of the crowd dancing and singing and i made eye contact with this girl few times from a bit far but as the time passed our groups got closer and we made longer eye contact for like 3 seconds and she came over to me and stuck out her hand and i gave her my hand and she pulled me towards her and her friends, i was like HELL YEAH beacuse she is a strong HTB maybe even a Stacylite so the fact that she approached me first made it so much easier for me.
Now it comes the embarrassing part, i don't know why but i got so frightened from that i couldn't think straight it was like im on autopilot and I DON'T FUCKING KNOW WHY like i've been with multiple women and never had problems to talk to them but i was just so out of this world like i didn't know where i was.
And now we began to dance and everything and my still feeling uneasy beacuse she is with her friends idk i felt like they were all judging me and all my friends were 3 meters back so i felt like an outsider.
So know we were holding both hands and dancing and shared a cig and when we continued to dance she took my hand a put it on her waist, again i was like hell yeah i don't have to do it myself and fear to be rejected and now we were dancing closer and all, then the song where the lyrics are ,,but she's looking at you" started playing and she was pointing to me during that song i was sure that was that beacuse she was so obviously flirting.
So now looking at everything:
1) She approached me first 2) She was really closely dancing with me 3) She put my hand on her waist 4) She sang that lyrics while pointing at me
And you would think that thats it you literally have all the signs that you should kiss her, thats what i thought too...
Then what everyone would naturally do due to all the circumstances i kissed her and she didn't reject me and she looked into my eyes for a few seconds and then she kissed me back and after a few seconds told me to go back to my friends???!!!
LIKE WHAT??!! THESE ARE PEAK MIXED SIGNALS
Like what else was i supposed to get from all the stuff she did??
I will never understand women this is frustrating...
TLDR; but i recommend you read the whole thing
look at the bolded text
We were in the middle of the crowd dancing and singing and i made eye contact with this girl few times from a bit far but as the time passed our groups got closer and we made longer eye contact for like 3 seconds and she came over to me and stuck out her hand and i gave her my hand and she pulled me towards her and her friends, i was like HELL YEAH beacuse she is a strong HTB maybe even a Stacylite so the fact that she approached me first made it so much easier for me.
Now it comes the embarrassing part, i don't know why but i got so frightened from that i couldn't think straight it was like im on autopilot and I DON'T FUCKING KNOW WHY like i've been with multiple women and never had problems to talk to them but i was just so out of this world like i didn't know where i was.
And now we began to dance and everything and my still feeling uneasy beacuse she is with her friends idk i felt like they were all judging me and all my friends were 3 meters back so i felt like an outsider.
So know we were holding both hands and dancing and shared a cig and when we continued to dance she took my hand a put it on her waist, again i was like hell yeah i don't have to do it myself and fear to be rejected and now we were dancing closer and all, then the song where the lyrics are ,,but she's looking at you" started playing and she was pointing to me during that song i was sure that was that beacuse she was so obviously flirting.
So now looking at everything:
1) She approached me first 2) She was really closely dancing with me 3) She put my hand on her waist 4) She sang that lyrics while pointing at me
And you would think that thats it you literally have all the signs that you should kiss her, thats what i thought too...
Then what everyone would naturally do due to all the circumstances i kissed her and she didn't reject me and she looked into my eyes for a few seconds and then she kissed me back and after a few seconds told me to go back to my friends???!!!
LIKE WHAT??!! THESE ARE PEAK MIXED SIGNALS
Like what else was i supposed to get from all the stuff she did??
I will never understand women this is frustrating...
TLDR; but i recommend you read the whole thing
look at the bolded text
