I had a breakdown and told my dad about my depression and blackpilled thoughts

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So for context i was making some chicken liver/heart dish and my dad got mad at me for making a mess. We proceeded to argue alot (basically he just shitting on me) and at a certaint point i broke down and started crying.

So now here i am crying as a 17 year old with facial hair:lul: (While im cutting pompegrenade and paprika). After argueing i said it was because im a loser with no friends and depressed (while crying). He said he didnt think i was a loser (holy cope) and i responded with "im the literal definition of a loser look it up". He got silent for a bit and than i said i dont care though im only depressed cause of my looks and i dont need friends. We proceeded to talk and i said friends are temporary and i hate people. He responded by quote on quote "wow thats dark":lul::forcedsmile:. I said im ugly and thats why i grew up to be a loser and he said i looked good. I gave him a example of one of my failos (SFS). My face lenght is only 19 cms (i was wrong about 18.3 cms in last thread) and he laughed at me and said why does that matter, you look good. I proceeded to tell him it makes me look like a ball cause of the combination of my 15-16 cm cheeckbone wideness. He said people dont care about that because you look good enough. I responded with "they do subconsiously though?". He yapped about personality and stuff after. We were argueing that looks give you more oppertunities at life and gives a better childhood. After some argueing we got to clubbing and he said a shy introverted handsome dude wouldnt pull more than a ugly dude talking to everybody and being extremely NT:lul:. I said thats fake because we literally had a revolution in a mere span of 20 years and that all his experience is not useful in the current times we live in (he spoke from his experience in the 90s). After he basically said nobody cares about your ratios or face length blablabla (i didnt believe normies could believe this enourmes cope) we got to the point of what life should be. I told him its to have a stress free life with a family and he argued that you cant get that without a degree (i didnt respond with models can though because its to :blackpill: for him and i just continued listening). In the end he talked about how it all doesnt matter its to much in your head (he is a 189 105 kg 60 cm bidelt muscle dad with htn face. Basically chadlite smv). He always had friends in childhood to go back to and argued that "children are harsh on people without limit" and that they also talked shit to him. He had friends to go back to though and i didnt. He told me my the people i talked with are very ugly compared to you and i hope you understand that. He also said like out of 50 girls in a room 48 would want to go on a date with me :)lul:jfl chad would have 50 ready to marry).

In the end he said he loved me and hugged and went away to drink something. After a few minutes he came back and i said youd be more handsome if you also didnt have a shorter skull (he meassured it aswell and had 19 cms). After that he looked at me with much concern and went to go take a bath:forcedsmile:.

But yeah now i am taking a bath and just chilling. I regret saying all this cause now he probabely thinks im extra crazy. I also forgot to mention he said i really need to seek a therapist for thinking im ugly and i said thats cope and it wont work.

Anyways thats it

TLDR: Title or read thread:forcedsmile:

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Lol?
 
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Read every word
 
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so much copes from your dad, he migthve graduated from bluepill university :feelskek:
 
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oftentimes, parents refuse to believe that their child, specifically their son, is a genetic dead end despite missing out on important social milestones growing up, such as having a girlfriend or a normal friend group that genuinely cares about them. their parental instinct drives them to look for any reason other than their looks to explain why their son isn’t performing well.

great read ngl
 
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So for context i was making some chicken liver/heart dish and my dad got mad at me for making a mess. We proceeded to argue alot (basically he just shitting on me) and at a certaint point i broke down and started crying.

So now here i am crying as a 17 year old with facial hair:lul: (While im cutting pompegrenade and paprika). After argueing i said it was because im a loser with no friends and depressed (while crying). He said he didnt think i was a loser (holy cope) and i responded with "im the literal definition of a loser look it up". He got silent for a bit and than i said i dont care though im only depressed cause of my looks and i dont need friends. We proceeded to talk and i said friends are temporary and i hate people. He responded by quote on quote "wow thats dark":lul::forcedsmile:. I said im ugly and thats why i grew up to be a loser and he said i looked good. I gave him a example of one of my failos (SFS). My face lenght is only 19 cms (i was wrong about 18.3 cms in last thread) and he laughed at me and said why does that matter, you look good. I proceeded to tell him it makes me look like a ball cause of the combination of my 15-16 cm cheeckbone wideness. He said people dont care about that because you look good enough. I responded with "they do subconsiously though?". He yapped about personality and stuff after. We were argueing that looks give you more oppertunities at life and gives a better childhood. After some argueing we got to clubbing and he said a shy introverted handsome dude wouldnt pull more than a ugly dude talking to everybody and being extremely NT:lul:. I said thats fake because we literally had a revolution in a mere span of 20 years and that all his experience is not useful in the current times we live in (he spoke from his experience in the 90s). After he basically said nobody cares about your ratios or face length blablabla (i didnt believe normies could believe this enourmes cope) we got to the point of what life should be. I told him its to have a stress free life with a family and he argued that you cant get that without a degree (i didnt respond with models can though because its to :blackpill: for him and i just continued listening). In the end he talked about how it all doesnt matter its to much in your head (he is a 189 105 kg 60 cm bidelt muscle dad with htn face. Basically chadlite smv). He always had friends in childhood to go back to and argued that "children are harsh on people without limit" and that they also talked shit to him. He had friends to go back to though and i didnt. He told me my the people i talked with are very ugly compared to you and i hope you understand that. He also said like out of 50 girls in a room 48 would want to go on a date with me :)lul:jfl chad would have 50 ready to marry).

In the end he said he loved me and hugged and went away to drink something. After a few minutes he came back and i said youd be more handsome if you also didnt have a shorter skull (he meassured it aswell and had 19 cms). After that he looked at me with much concern and went to go take a bath:forcedsmile:.

But yeah now i am taking a bath and just chilling. I regret saying all this cause now he probabely thinks im extra crazy. I also forgot to mention he said i really need to seek a therapist for thinking im ugly and i said thats cope and it wont work.

Anyways thats it

TLDR: Title or read thread:forcedsmile:

Tags: @gangiewangie @Nick.Harte @Snicket @O'Pry @fr0st
Damn your young but learn to not do this again. Parents are delusional, they can’t accept if they gave there kid shit genetics.
 
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so much copes from your dad, he migthve graduated from bluepill university :feelskek:
He lived in a time where looks werent as important as it is now with the rise of social media.
oftentimes, parents refuse to believe that their child, specifically their son, is a genetic dead end despite missing out on important social milestones growing up, such as having a girlfriend or a normal friend group that genuinely cares about them. their parental instinct drives them to look for any reason other than their looks to explain why their son isn’t performing well.

great read ngl
I am coping with the fact that i will get surgeries and braces. Already did rhino for free cause of medical reasonings which literally is shy i need braces:forcedsmile:
 
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It’s not possible to see your own kids as unattractive if you are blue pilled…. Utterly pointless
 
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Aren't you good looking ?
 
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Aren't you good looking ?
Only ascended after highschool. My last social interaction has been in highschool (about 4 months ago). But the damage is already done. Im also decent looking i guess compared to the avarage male
 
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Only ascended after highschool. My last social interaction has been in highschool (about 4 months ago). But the damage is already done. Im also decent looking i guess compared to the avarage male
Mogs me
Should I rope?
 
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Ask him for slaying tips
 
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Only ascended after highschool. My last social interaction has been in highschool (about 4 months ago). But the damage is already done. Im also decent looking i guess compared to the avarage male
All of this thread is just cope on ur end if you’re say MTN.

What u said is only justified if you’re ltn or below btw. If you’re mtn, who cares that there are ppl that look better than you.

Just go for mtbs and be happy. Than to stress urself with all this stuff. I’ve come to this realization too.

If you’re mtn, then you’re literally volcel. Just work on becoming more nt and socialmaxx.

(Pua section needs to be opened on this forum man.. :feelswhat:)
 
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dad minutes
 
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thank you for creating family section of forum ur parents shuldnt even know u looksmax nigger:ROFLMAO:
 
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Honestly fair enough to your dad, he tried to support you and give you copes

I mean can't expect him to tell you to rope
 
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Tales from the slums of GalΓ‘pagos Islands
 
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* Conflict and Emotional Breakdown:
* A cooking incident led to a heated argument between you and your father, resulting in you crying and expressing feelings of being a "loser," friendless, and depressed.
* You attribute your depression to your perceived physical appearance, specifically your facial features and measurements.
* Disagreement on Appearance and Social Dynamics:
* You believe your facial ratios and length negatively impact your social interactions and opportunities.
* Your father insists that appearance isn't as critical as you think and emphasizes personality and social skills.
* You argue that social dynamics have changed since his youth, making his experiences less relevant.
* You believe that looks heavily impact how people are treated subconsiously.
* Differing Views on Life and Happiness:
* You express a desire for a stress-free life with a family.
* Your father emphasizes the importance of education and career success for achieving that.
* You are very fixated on your facial features, and how that is impacting your life.
* Concerns and Recommendations:
* Your father expresses concern about your mental state and suggests seeking therapy, which you reject.
* Your father said that many girls would go on a date with you, trying to build your self esteem.
* Your father is concerned about your focus on your skull length.
* Aftermath:
* Your father expresses his love and concern, but the interaction leaves you feeling regretful and worried about his p
erception of you.
 
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All of this thread is just cope on ur end if you’re say MTN.

What u said is only justified if you’re ltn or below btw. If you’re mtn, who cares that there are ppl that look better than you.

Just go for mtbs and be happy. Than to stress urself with all this stuff. I’ve come to this realization too.

If you’re mtn, then you’re literally volcel. Just work on becoming more nt and socialmaxx.

(Pua section needs to be opened on this forum man.. :feelswhat:)
β€œJust go for mtbs”

As if hypergamy hasn’t put them out of reach from 90% of guys
 
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* Conflict and Emotional Breakdown:
* A cooking incident led to a heated argument between you and your father, resulting in you crying and expressing feelings of being a "loser," friendless, and depressed.
* You attribute your depression to your perceived physical appearance, specifically your facial features and measurements.
* Disagreement on Appearance and Social Dynamics:
* You believe your facial ratios and length negatively impact your social interactions and opportunities.
* Your father insists that appearance isn't as critical as you think and emphasizes personality and social skills.
* You argue that social dynamics have changed since his youth, making his experiences less relevant.
* You believe that looks heavily impact how people are treated subconsiously.
* Differing Views on Life and Happiness:
* You express a desire for a stress-free life with a family.
* Your father emphasizes the importance of education and career success for achieving that.
* You are very fixated on your facial features, and how that is impacting your life.
* Concerns and Recommendations:
* Your father expresses concern about your mental state and suggests seeking therapy, which you reject.
* Your father said that many girls would go on a date with you, trying to build your self esteem.
* Your father is concerned about your focus on your skull length.
* Aftermath:
* Your father expresses his love and concern, but the interaction leaves you feeling regretful and worried about his p
erception of you.
High iq version
 
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every molecule
 
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oftentimes, parents refuse to believe that their child, specifically their son, is a genetic dead end despite missing out on important social milestones growing up, such as having a girlfriend or a normal friend group that genuinely cares about them. their parental instinct drives them to look for any reason other than their looks to explain why their son isn’t performing well.
exactly how my parents act.

they cant come to terms with the fact that them mixing races created a genetic dead-end in me :forcedsmile:
 
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the bluepill is a powerful drug.

you cant blackpill your parents no matter how hard you try. they grew up in a completely different world than us.

hope things get better
 
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the bluepill is a powerful drug.

you cant blackpill your parents no matter how hard you try. they grew up in a completely different world than us.

hope things get better
though i do drop some slight blackpills on my family from time to time when given the opportunity

just to see their reaction
 
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Damn your young but learn to not do this again. Parents are delusional, they can’t accept if they gave there kid shit genetics.
Ill try not to
 
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Ill try not to
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So for context i was making some chicken liver/heart dish and my dad got mad at me for making a mess. We proceeded to argue alot (basically he just shitting on me) and at a certaint point i broke down and started crying.

So now here i am crying as a 17 year old with facial hair:lul: (While im cutting pompegrenade and paprika). After argueing i said it was because im a loser with no friends and depressed (while crying). He said he didnt think i was a loser (holy cope) and i responded with "im the literal definition of a loser look it up". He got silent for a bit and than i said i dont care though im only depressed cause of my looks and i dont need friends. We proceeded to talk and i said friends are temporary and i hate people. He responded by quote on quote "wow thats dark":lul::forcedsmile:. I said im ugly and thats why i grew up to be a loser and he said i looked good. I gave him a example of one of my failos (SFS). My face lenght is only 19 cms (i was wrong about 18.3 cms in last thread) and he laughed at me and said why does that matter, you look good. I proceeded to tell him it makes me look like a ball cause of the combination of my 15-16 cm cheeckbone wideness. He said people dont care about that because you look good enough. I responded with "they do subconsiously though?". He yapped about personality and stuff after. We were argueing that looks give you more oppertunities at life and gives a better childhood. After some argueing we got to clubbing and he said a shy introverted handsome dude wouldnt pull more than a ugly dude talking to everybody and being extremely NT:lul:. I said thats fake because we literally had a revolution in a mere span of 20 years and that all his experience is not useful in the current times we live in (he spoke from his experience in the 90s). After he basically said nobody cares about your ratios or face length blablabla (i didnt believe normies could believe this enourmes cope) we got to the point of what life should be. I told him its to have a stress free life with a family and he argued that you cant get that without a degree (i didnt respond with models can though because its to :blackpill: for him and i just continued listening). In the end he talked about how it all doesnt matter its to much in your head (he is a 189 105 kg 60 cm bidelt muscle dad with htn face. Basically chadlite smv). He always had friends in childhood to go back to and argued that "children are harsh on people without limit" and that they also talked shit to him. He had friends to go back to though and i didnt. He told me my the people i talked with are very ugly compared to you and i hope you understand that. He also said like out of 50 girls in a room 48 would want to go on a date with me :)lul:jfl chad would have 50 ready to marry).

In the end he said he loved me and hugged and went away to drink something. After a few minutes he came back and i said youd be more handsome if you also didnt have a shorter skull (he meassured it aswell and had 19 cms). After that he looked at me with much concern and went to go take a bath:forcedsmile:.

But yeah now i am taking a bath and just chilling. I regret saying all this cause now he probabely thinks im extra crazy. I also forgot to mention he said i really need to seek a therapist for thinking im ugly and i said thats cope and it wont work.

Anyways thats it

TLDR: Title or read thread:forcedsmile:

Tags: @gangiewangie @Nick.Harte @Snicket @O'Pry @fr0st
lol chadlite dad and still ugly
 
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You are retarded. Your dad is correct. Holy shit.
 
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