I had a date yesterday, but she still thinks about her ex

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Okay, so yesterday i was at my place with a group of friends and this girl (im htn 5 psl/5'11 and a half and she's htb 4'11/5'0 she had bones but not so good eyes so harmony it wasnot top tier)

and tbh im NT and the days before i wasnt nervous but yesterday i was so fucinkg anxious when she arrived, im not saying i acted like a complete autist but i didnt escalat things very well, however we madeout like 4 times.

The thing is I didnt find her very comfortable(like 7, being 10 she felt very comfortable), maybe cause i escalated sexually bad (socially i did it quite good, i talked with her a lot and she was very receptive and i made her laugh many times, i wasnt needy, i didnt say yes to her everytime and we had similar tastes),so like when we were kissing she maybe moved her head backwards (a very bit), she wanted to escort her other female friend because she had to go earlier and the come back (i think if she really wanted me she would stayed at my place) and didnt want to sleep at my place(same as before).

Although, when we made out she kissed me with eager and kiss me the neck, and she told my friends later she finds me cute (im 19 she is 20), and tbh im quite a prettyboy (I look like chico lachowski but obv not that good combined with david laid, i also have body halo but i wasnt shirtless, and she only could see my veins in my forearms), i have almond eye shape, nice eyebrows, eyelashes, nice lips, good harmony but i lack jaw (like a 4.25 psl) below average nose shape, not good skin(little acne scarring) and highset cheekbones but right one is A tier, but left one is a bit smaller ,so maybe it is not cope and she really found me cute and it's not all that bullshit girls say to dont hurt the feelings of the guy, idont really know.

Then she told to my friends she still thinks about her ex and she didnt get over him, so summing up, idk if she really want me and she acted the kisses(i dont think so but who knows because, maybe she felt pressured to do it???), idk if she still thinks about him or is a excuse, and idk if that "cute" is really a compliment because i look like a prettyboy or she just didnt want to hurt my feelings, cause she knew my friends would tell me about her response. i read here that if she really likes u she will have sex with u in the first date, is that completely true?

This is my first post thread, pls seriious i dont want people tellimg me to rape her or dnr, and im not trolling, i want advice, thanks
 
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Forget about her
 
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it's a red flag
when she mentions her ex
 
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Forget about her
yh i was thinking the same cause i only saw her yesterday and i dont feel very attached but tbh i think it could be a good LTR.
My friends told me that she broke up with her ex like a month or two, maybe if i wait we can see each other again? i will obv talk with other females, im not a fcking cuck waiting for her
 
it's a red flag
when she mentions her ex
yh i know, but she only mentioned with my friends because my friends asked her when they left if she finally likes me or not,, and once when we were talking about anime because she said he started watching anime because her ex force her beacuse i literally asked her how she started
 
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She is not ready to be your gf and will never be.
she broke up with him 1-2 months ago, tbf the average time to forget(i think)ur ex is like 2-3 months.
but yeah i dont give a fuck is she is not with me, just wanted to know what really happened
 
go this fast
 

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Dnr put up w it until you sleep with her then leave or leave now telling you it WONT go good if shes still in love w him
 
Okay, so yesterday i was at my place with a group of friends and this girl (im htn 5 psl/5'11 and a half and she's htb 4'11/5'0 she had bones but not so good eyes so harmony it wasnot top tier)

and tbh im NT and the days before i wasnt nervous but yesterday i was so fucinkg anxious when she arrived, im not saying i acted like a complete autist but i didnt escalat things very well, however we madeout like 4 times.

The thing is I didnt find her very comfortable(like 7, being 10 she felt very comfortable), maybe cause i escalated sexually bad (socially i did it quite good, i talked with her a lot and she was very receptive and i made her laugh many times, i wasnt needy, i didnt say yes to her everytime and we had similar tastes),so like when we were kissing she maybe moved her head backwards (a very bit), she wanted to escort her other female friend because she had to go earlier and the come back (i think if she really wanted me she would stayed at my place) and didnt want to sleep at my place(same as before).

Although, when we made out she kissed me with eager and kiss me the neck, and she told my friends later she finds me cute (im 19 she is 20), and tbh im quite a prettyboy (I look like chico lachowski but obv not that good combined with david laid, i also have body halo but i wasnt shirtless, and she only could see my veins in my forearms), i have almond eye shape, nice eyebrows, eyelashes, nice lips, good harmony but i lack jaw (like a 4.25 psl) below average nose shape, not good skin(little acne scarring) and highset cheekbones but right one is A tier, but left one is a bit smaller ,so maybe it is not cope and she really found me cute and it's not all that bullshit girls say to dont hurt the feelings of the guy, idont really know.

Then she told to my friends she still thinks about her ex and she didnt get over him, so summing up, idk if she really want me and she acted the kisses(i dont think so but who knows because, maybe she felt pressured to do it???), idk if she still thinks about him or is a excuse, and idk if that "cute" is really a compliment because i look like a prettyboy or she just didnt want to hurt my feelings, cause she knew my friends would tell me about her response. i read here that if she really likes u she will have sex with u in the first date, is that completely true?

This is my first post thread, pls seriious i dont want people tellimg me to rape her or dnr, and im not trolling, i want advice, thanks
Damm bro... Are you all right?
 
Dnr put up w it until you sleep with her then leave or leave now telling you it WONT go good if shes still in love w him
so i fuck her and the leave? that is what u trynna say?
 
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All ill say is do whatever you want but dont be attached since she still ljkes her ex
ok, i didnt understand well ur message as my first language is spanish so i just wanted to make it clear.
Btw, she didnt talk to me more after that day (i guess she still thinks about her ex or is a excuse and im not that attractive jfl) so i basically forgot her the next 3-4 days
 
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ok, i didnt understand well ur message as my first language is spanish so i just wanted to make it clear.
Btw, she didnt talk to me more after that day (i guess she still thinks about her ex or is a excuse and im not that attractive jfl) so i basically forgot her the next 3-4 days
Yes so she was mostly using you as attention or rebound 😢
 
she broke up with him 1-2 months ago, tbf the average time to forget(i think)ur ex is like 2-3 months.
but yeah i dont give a fuck is she is not with me, just wanted to know what really happened
Jfl
 
Okay, so yesterday i was at my place with a group of friends and this girl (im htn 5 psl/5'11 and a half and she's htb 4'11/5'0 she had bones but not so good eyes so harmony it wasnot top tier)

and tbh im NT and the days before i wasnt nervous but yesterday i was so fucinkg anxious when she arrived, im not saying i acted like a complete autist but i didnt escalat things very well, however we madeout like 4 times.

The thing is I didnt find her very comfortable(like 7, being 10 she felt very comfortable), maybe cause i escalated sexually bad (socially i did it quite good, i talked with her a lot and she was very receptive and i made her laugh many times, i wasnt needy, i didnt say yes to her everytime and we had similar tastes),so like when we were kissing she maybe moved her head backwards (a very bit), she wanted to escort her other female friend because she had to go earlier and the come back (i think if she really wanted me she would stayed at my place) and didnt want to sleep at my place(same as before).

Although, when we made out she kissed me with eager and kiss me the neck, and she told my friends later she finds me cute (im 19 she is 20), and tbh im quite a prettyboy (I look like chico lachowski but obv not that good combined with david laid, i also have body halo but i wasnt shirtless, and she only could see my veins in my forearms), i have almond eye shape, nice eyebrows, eyelashes, nice lips, good harmony but i lack jaw (like a 4.25 psl) below average nose shape, not good skin(little acne scarring) and highset cheekbones but right one is A tier, but left one is a bit smaller ,so maybe it is not cope and she really found me cute and it's not all that bullshit girls say to dont hurt the feelings of the guy, idont really know.

Then she told to my friends she still thinks about her ex and she didnt get over him, so summing up, idk if she really want me and she acted the kisses(i dont think so but who knows because, maybe she felt pressured to do it???), idk if she still thinks about him or is a excuse, and idk if that "cute" is really a compliment because i look like a prettyboy or she just didnt want to hurt my feelings, cause she knew my friends would tell me about her response. i read here that if she really likes u she will have sex with u in the first date, is that completely true?

This is my first post thread, pls seriious i dont want people tellimg me to rape her or dnr, and im not trolling, i want advice, thanks
red flag
 
Okay, so yesterday i was at my place with a group of friends and this girl (im htn 5 psl/5'11 and a half and she's htb 4'11/5'0 she had bones but not so good eyes so harmony it wasnot top tier)

and tbh im NT and the days before i wasnt nervous but yesterday i was so fucinkg anxious when she arrived, im not saying i acted like a complete autist but i didnt escalat things very well, however we madeout like 4 times.

The thing is I didnt find her very comfortable(like 7, being 10 she felt very comfortable), maybe cause i escalated sexually bad (socially i did it quite good, i talked with her a lot and she was very receptive and i made her laugh many times, i wasnt needy, i didnt say yes to her everytime and we had similar tastes),so like when we were kissing she maybe moved her head backwards (a very bit), she wanted to escort her other female friend because she had to go earlier and the come back (i think if she really wanted me she would stayed at my place) and didnt want to sleep at my place(same as before).

Although, when we made out she kissed me with eager and kiss me the neck, and she told my friends later she finds me cute (im 19 she is 20), and tbh im quite a prettyboy (I look like chico lachowski but obv not that good combined with david laid, i also have body halo but i wasnt shirtless, and she only could see my veins in my forearms), i have almond eye shape, nice eyebrows, eyelashes, nice lips, good harmony but i lack jaw (like a 4.25 psl) below average nose shape, not good skin(little acne scarring) and highset cheekbones but right one is A tier, but left one is a bit smaller ,so maybe it is not cope and she really found me cute and it's not all that bullshit girls say to dont hurt the feelings of the guy, idont really know.

Then she told to my friends she still thinks about her ex and she didnt get over him, so summing up, idk if she really want me and she acted the kisses(i dont think so but who knows because, maybe she felt pressured to do it???), idk if she still thinks about him or is a excuse, and idk if that "cute" is really a compliment because i look like a prettyboy or she just didnt want to hurt my feelings, cause she knew my friends would tell me about her response. i read here that if she really likes u she will have sex with u in the first date, is that completely true?

This is my first post thread, pls seriious i dont want people tellimg me to rape her or dnr, and im not trolling, i want advice, thanks
TLdr niggerrr
 
Okay, so yesterday i was at my place with a group of friends and this girl (im htn 5 psl/5'11 and a half and she's htb 4'11/5'0 she had bones but not so good eyes so harmony it wasnot top tier)

and tbh im NT and the days before i wasnt nervous but yesterday i was so fucinkg anxious when she arrived, im not saying i acted like a complete autist but i didnt escalat things very well, however we madeout like 4 times.

The thing is I didnt find her very comfortable(like 7, being 10 she felt very comfortable), maybe cause i escalated sexually bad (socially i did it quite good, i talked with her a lot and she was very receptive and i made her laugh many times, i wasnt needy, i didnt say yes to her everytime and we had similar tastes),so like when we were kissing she maybe moved her head backwards (a very bit), she wanted to escort her other female friend because she had to go earlier and the come back (i think if she really wanted me she would stayed at my place) and didnt want to sleep at my place(same as before).

Although, when we made out she kissed me with eager and kiss me the neck, and she told my friends later she finds me cute (im 19 she is 20), and tbh im quite a prettyboy (I look like chico lachowski but obv not that good combined with david laid, i also have body halo but i wasnt shirtless, and she only could see my veins in my forearms), i have almond eye shape, nice eyebrows, eyelashes, nice lips, good harmony but i lack jaw (like a 4.25 psl) below average nose shape, not good skin(little acne scarring) and highset cheekbones but right one is A tier, but left one is a bit smaller ,so maybe it is not cope and she really found me cute and it's not all that bullshit girls say to dont hurt the feelings of the guy, idont really know.

Then she told to my friends she still thinks about her ex and she didnt get over him, so summing up, idk if she really want me and she acted the kisses(i dont think so but who knows because, maybe she felt pressured to do it???), idk if she still thinks about him or is a excuse, and idk if that "cute" is really a compliment because i look like a prettyboy or she just didnt want to hurt my feelings, cause she knew my friends would tell me about her response. i read here that if she really likes u she will have sex with u in the first date, is that completely true?

This is my first post thread, pls seriious i dont want people tellimg me to rape her or dnr, and im not trolling, i want advice, thanks
Imagine if you knew how it would play out, would you do things differently? Usually, they don't. This is where the selfish concept of the parallel universe was generated. I want this, I want that, I want to try everything. Selfish people live meaningless lives.
 
Imagine if you knew how it would play out, would you do things differently? Usually, they don't. This is where the selfish concept of the parallel universe was generated. I want this, I want that, I want to try everything. Selfish people live meaningless lives.
wtf are u talking about nigga
 
Okay, so yesterday i was at my place with a group of friends and this girl (im htn 5 psl/5'11 and a half and she's htb 4'11/5'0 she had bones but not so good eyes so harmony it wasnot top tier)

and tbh im NT and the days before i wasnt nervous but yesterday i was so fucinkg anxious when she arrived, im not saying i acted like a complete autist but i didnt escalat things very well, however we madeout like 4 times.

The thing is I didnt find her very comfortable(like 7, being 10 she felt very comfortable), maybe cause i escalated sexually bad (socially i did it quite good, i talked with her a lot and she was very receptive and i made her laugh many times, i wasnt needy, i didnt say yes to her everytime and we had similar tastes),so like when we were kissing she maybe moved her head backwards (a very bit), she wanted to escort her other female friend because she had to go earlier and the come back (i think if she really wanted me she would stayed at my place) and didnt want to sleep at my place(same as before).

Although, when we made out she kissed me with eager and kiss me the neck, and she told my friends later she finds me cute (im 19 she is 20), and tbh im quite a prettyboy (I look like chico lachowski but obv not that good combined with david laid, i also have body halo but i wasnt shirtless, and she only could see my veins in my forearms), i have almond eye shape, nice eyebrows, eyelashes, nice lips, good harmony but i lack jaw (like a 4.25 psl) below average nose shape, not good skin(little acne scarring) and highset cheekbones but right one is A tier, but left one is a bit smaller ,so maybe it is not cope and she really found me cute and it's not all that bullshit girls say to dont hurt the feelings of the guy, idont really know.

Then she told to my friends she still thinks about her ex and she didnt get over him, so summing up, idk if she really want me and she acted the kisses(i dont think so but who knows because, maybe she felt pressured to do it???), idk if she still thinks about him or is a excuse, and idk if that "cute" is really a compliment because i look like a prettyboy or she just didnt want to hurt my feelings, cause she knew my friends would tell me about her response. i read here that if she really likes u she will have sex with u in the first date, is that completely true?

This is my first post thread, pls seriious i dont want people tellimg me to rape her or dnr, and im not trolling, i want advice, thanks
Just forget about her, if you like her you can fuck her and just do only that but if you're looking for something romantic then just leave her, it's not a good sign if she mentions her sex bro
 

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