I Had a decent talk with Therapist 3 days ago, is it true? (please gih)

[wishicouldascend]

the good thing is she increased daily Vyvanse from 30mg to 40mg, better than no increase

but after my parents were done telling her how lazy and rude I was, not wrong tbh. we got to talk alone a bit and I was complaining to her about how fake everybody was and how much I hated it, hated them, how if they actually cared they would've went up to me, talked to me when I was going to taekwondo classes for 4 years, instead of standing in line the whole time, just listening to them talk, getting ignored every time I talked until I gave up on trying to start a conversation, all they do is try to look better in front everyone, feel better
but she agreed for the whole thing, which I didn't expect I thought shed just tell me to try more but she said she agreed it was annoying and that everyone was fake, and she said she felt the same too (said she was nd before) and like, I don't know if it was a good thing she said it or not, will it ever get better? I have no social skills really from homeschool, not interacting with people barely but I don't think I ever act rude in public, I'll hold the door, say good job if someone did something cool, thanks if they maybe picked something off the ground or something idk

does every nd person feel the same about it.

I'm not saying I am nd for sure, though she said I was nd,(autism, and adhd I guess.) though I dont really believe in most that stuff like ADHD doesn't really exist, prolly some other stuff

tldr told therapist I hated everybody for being fake and never talking to me and she agreed with it, shes probably like 40, will it ever get better.

not technically a therapist, more supposed to give meds etc but she acted like one, most I've enjoyed talking to someone in a While :/ WHY DO I HAVE NO FRIENDS, while she did agree, she said before shes had friends, I've never had a single one. hate all this stuff, its not fair
if you dnr'd no biggie

 

[wishicouldascend]

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[wishicouldascend]

@BigBallsLarry @davidlaidisme67 @Ghost Philosophy

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

She’s right, most people are fake. Good example: if you’re rich, they’ll only be your friend because you buy them stuff (just an exaggerated example). If you were poor, they wouldn’t even look your way. It’s just one example but it’s like this all the time.

 

[One Rep Max]

t h e r a p i s t

 

[wishicouldascend]

She’s right, most people are fake. Good example: if you’re rich, they’ll only be your friend because you buy them stuff (just an exaggerated example). If you were poor, they wouldn’t even look your way. It’s just one example but it’s like this all the time.

yeah, just didn't expect her to agree. Nobody else agreed before 3 people not much but still, shes higher up in life than me obviously making money and stuff, thought only someone unsuccesful I guess would agree, that everybody was fake and stuff thought nobody older would really think it I guess.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

yeah, just didn't expect her to agree. Nobody else agreed before 3 people not much but still, shes higher up in life than me obviously making money and stuff, thought only someone unsuccesful I guess would agree, that everybody was fake and stuff thought nobody older would really think it I guess.

Well, I think more people would agree with that. She’s not there to gaslight you. Now if you say “Oh, my looks are bad, that’s why girls don’t like me,” then she would gaslight you and say looks have nothing to do with it, etc. But if you talk about other things, like how people are fake, then she’ll just agree since there’s no need to gaslight you. In fact, she thinks she’s doing good by agreeing with you, as to save yourself from society. She’s just doing her job, you know?

 

[davidlaidisme67]

She’s right, most people are fake. Good example: if you’re rich, they’ll only be your friend because you buy them stuff (just an exaggerated example). If you were poor, they wouldn’t even look your way. It’s just one example but it’s like this all the time.

Exactly most relationships are conditional and transactional

 

[MOLEPULE]

i,ll be your friend

 

[kisslessvirgin]

Exactly most relationships are conditional and transactional

david always on go mode

 

[kisslessvirgin]

he aa spin onna ho

 

[kisslessvirgin]

tldr told therapist I hated everybody for being fake and never talking to me and she agreed with it, shes probably like 40, will it ever get better.

a therapist isnt supposed to tell you what to do shes going to help you cope and the goal is that you discover your own way of dealing with the problem