I had a sheik come in to cure me of depression.

[bishōnenmaxxer]

To make a long story short, I said too much to my Hoyo. I regret it significantly, because I made her very concerned for my mental state. It wasn't responsible of me so now she's all worried that I'm gonna rope (Which I'd never do).

After I spilled my guts out her first instinct was to pay for a shiek to come to our house and read Quran on me for 2 hours, and throw water onto me afterwards. We did this twice on seperate days, so that was around 5ish hours spent on this.

Has this happened to you bhais?

@Xangsane
@emeraldglass
@JohnDoe
@TRUE_CEL [Thanks for freeing a nigga]
@mrriceguy
@KING REIDYZ
@Manchild
@SecularIslamist
@fauxfox
@AspiringMogger

 

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[Dr. Bludy]

Stupid religion

 

[BigBoy]

Na that’s crazy, jit thinks he can slash the depression away

 

[bishōnenmaxxer]

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[Deleted member 24444]

You are Muslim?

 

[bishōnenmaxxer]

You are Muslim?

No I'm a reformed orthodox rabbi.

 

[Zer0/∞]

yeah

Zoomali

 

[OCDisneyChad]

I think Zelda coming over would make you happy

 

[Deleted member 19174]

shalom brother

 

[bishōnenmaxxer]

I think Zelda coming over would make you happy

Zelda Williams doesn't fog tbh

 

[OCDisneyChad]

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Zelda Williams doesn't fog tbh

Non canon Zelda btw

 

[Primalsplit]

The power of Allah compels you! The power of Allah compels you!

 

[House Lannister]

The fuck lmfao

 

[Deleted member 30283]

Meantime your counter part @AspiringMogger ,,,,,, is slaying prime teens while you're bulshiting your Hooyo (mom) to oblivion.

 

[AspiringMogger]

Has this happened to you bhais?

Nope

 

[dimorphism]

mashallah u horner?

 

[BearBoy]

Gayass shit innit?

 

[JohnDoe]

Well my mother doesn't care and is the cause of many of my problems. The quran can heal but i think in this case you have to address the problem yourself. Never reveal yourtrue feelings to your mother again. Women and even other men will never understand.

 

[emeraldglass]

To make a long story short, I said too much to my Hoyo. I regret it significantly, because I made her very concerned for my mental state. It wasn't responsible of me so now she's all worried that I'm gonna rope (Which I'd never do).

After I spilled my guts out her first instinct was to pay for a shiek to come to our house and read Quran on me for 2 hours, and throw water onto me afterwards. We did this twice on seperate days, so that was around 5ish hours spent on this.

Has this happened to you bhais?

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@Xangsane
@emeraldglass
@JohnDoe
@TRUE_CEL [Thanks for freeing a nigga]
@mrriceguy
@KING REIDYZ
@Manchild
@SecularIslamist
@fauxfox
@AspiringMogger

I've witnessed this occurrence before. However, the truth is that ruqya can uplift your spirits, but only really alleviate certain illnesses caused by the jinn or evil eye. To fully overcome depression, it ultimately depends on your personal relationship with Allah. The recitation of the Quran and engaging in prayer can be major beneficial and a cure, but you must actively participate in these practices.

 

[Gengar]

To make a long story short, I said too much to my Hoyo. I regret it significantly, because I made her very concerned for my mental state. It wasn't responsible of me so now she's all worried that I'm gonna rope (Which I'd never do).

After I spilled my guts out her first instinct was to pay for a shiek to come to our house and read Quran on me for 2 hours, and throw water onto me afterwards. We did this twice on seperate days, so that was around 5ish hours spent on this.

Has this happened to you bhais?

View attachment 2293086

@Xangsane
@emeraldglass
@JohnDoe
@TRUE_CEL [Thanks for freeing a nigga]
@mrriceguy
@KING REIDYZ
@Manchild
@SecularIslamist
@fauxfox
@AspiringMogger

I had an imam-in-training come to my house to discuss my OCD and he was hilarious without meaning to be. I laughed so hard at his ridiculous statement that my friend outside my house heard me too.

 

[fauxfox]

Similar thing happened to me before. I came to understand my parents will never truly understand modern day struggles I go through so I never tell them since it only makes them stress.

Many Somalis can't understand these things and just label them shaytaan/evil eye due to limited worldview.

Realistically there are no qualifications to be a sheikh either. My grandfather told me to never trust a man that introduces himself as a sheikh.

 

[bishōnenmaxxer]

mashallah u horner?

My parents were from Somalia, then moved to Kenya and then Canada. So yes I think? Assuming horner means I trace my ethnicity to the horn of Africa.

Well my mother doesn't care and is the cause of many of my problems.

The quran can heal but i think in this case you have to address the problem yourself. Never reveal yourtrue feelings to your mother again. Women and even other men will never understand.

Honestly having a crisis of faith at the moment. I've been following the Sunnah to the best of my ability given my knowledge and I've really only been burned by the "Islamic" people in my life. What I really need is to get out the house and vent my frustration but I'm hardly allowed that.

Hopefully it's just a matter of wrong place wrong time, and I'll have more faith in my faith once I meet "true" Muslims.

And yeah I'll keep quiet on it around her as I was before. After I told her everything she said she would evict me and send me to my absentee fathers house "for her own mental health". And in regards to talking to men the same is true. My IRL normie friends don't get it really.

I've witnessed this occurrence before. However, the truth is that ruqya can uplift your spirits, but only really alleviate certain illnesses caused by the jinn or evil eye. To fully overcome depression, it ultimately depends on your personal relationship with Allah. The recitation of the Quran and engaging in prayer can be major beneficial and a cure, but you must actively participate in these practices.

I've been reciting the Quran daily and praying my 5 prayers for years. Didn't get anything out of it thus far.

My mom claimed everything I have is a result of evil eye but I doubt that. I'm not a spiteful or aggresive person so I can't imagine anyone feeling the need to curse me.

I had an imam-in-training come to my house to discuss my OCD and he was hilarious without meaning to be. I laughed so hard at his ridiculous statement that my friend outside my house heard me too.

jfl @ having an imam come in for OCD is quite comical. How would an internal emotional/spiritual conflict relate to that?

Similar thing happened to me before. I came to understand my parents will never truly understand modern day struggles I go through so I never tell them since it only makes them stress.

Many Somalis can't understand these things and just label them shaytaan/evil eye due to limited worldview.

Realistically there are no qualifications to be a sheikh either. My grandfather told me to never trust a man that introduces himself as a sheikh.

Elab, what happened with you?

And in fairness I cannot be too harsh on my parents. We are quite literally living in different worlds.

 

[Gengar]

jfl @ having an imam come in for OCD is quite comical. How would an internal emotional/spiritual conflict relate to that?

Because he says we are made from sperm so he questioned if I would find it gross if someone threw semen at me, expecting me to say no. He said it with such a straight face. I dunno how he didn’t laugh either.

 

[emeraldglass]

I've been reciting the Quran daily and praying my 5 prayers for years. Didn't get anything out of it thus far.

My mom claimed everything I have is a result of evil eye but I doubt that. I'm not a spiteful or aggresive person so I can't imagine anyone feeling the need to curse me.

Merely going through the motions of reading the Quran and praying without genuine connection won't be sufficient. You must have a genuine desire for it, remain focused, and avoid praying absentmindedly or reading the Quran without understanding its meaning. You should fully engage yourself in these practices, just as we do with things we truly enjoy. We don't hastily devour our meals without savoring the flavors; instead, we savor each bite to derive maximum pleasure. The same principle applies to Islam, don't do it out of obligation, but rather out of genuine desire. Additionally, simply reading the Quran and praying without living according to the rules of Islam will yield limited benefits. It's essential to strive to adhere to the principles and guidelines to fully experience the rewards it offers.

 

[Gengar]

enjoy. We don't hastily devour our meals without savoring the flavors; instead, we savor each bite to derive maximum pleasure.

I don’t. I hastily devour.

 

[JohnDoe]

My parents were from Somalia, then moved to Kenya and then Canada. So yes I think? Assuming horner means I trace my ethnicity to the horn of Africa.

Honestly having a crisis of faith at the moment. I've been following the Sunnah to the best of my ability given my knowledge and I've really only been burned by the "Islamic" people in my life. What I really need is to get out the house and vent my frustration but I'm hardly allowed that.

Hopefully it's just a matter of wrong place wrong time, and I'll have more faith in my faith once I meet "true" Muslims.

And yeah I'll keep quiet on it around her as I was before. After I told her everything she said she would evict me and send me to my absentee fathers house "for her own mental health". And in regards to talking to men the same is true. My IRL normie friends don't get it really.

I've been reciting the Quran daily and praying my 5 prayers for years. Didn't get anything out of it thus far.

My mom claimed everything I have is a result of evil eye but I doubt that. I'm not a spiteful or aggresive person so I can't imagine anyone feeling the need to curse me.

I understand what you're feeling as i have a crisis of faith every day. My health is really poor and i don't understand why God doesn't heal me even though i beg every day to be healed and nothing happens. Reciting the quran and praying 5x a day is admirable, you are a better muslim than me, i don't pray.
I do believe in evil eye/nazar because I've seen one too many times the envy/jealousy of people causing misfortune or bad things happening. My cousins used to stare at my hair because i have long hair and they were all balding and then i started losing hair. Evil eye is very real imo. Pray 4 qul + surah fatiha + surah bakarah + ayat ul qursi daily to remove evil eye. Assuming there is anevil eye on you and your recent troubles in life aren't just due to circumstance. How old are you? I get the impression you are quite young.
You don't need to be spiteful or aggressive, people suck in general and hate on you if you have something they don't.
Try to get out of the house, chances of finding like-minded men is slim but it will help.
Keep your head up brother, inshallah things will get better for all of us.

 

[JohnDoe]

I don’t. I hastily devour.

This. I gobble that shit down like I'm in a food eating contest.

 

[emeraldglass]

I don’t. I hastily devour.

Your stomach most certainly hates you for it.

 

[JohnDoe]

Merely going through the motions of reading the Quran and praying without genuine connection won't be sufficient. You must have a genuine desire for it, remain focused, and avoid praying absentmindedly or reading the Quran without understanding its meaning. You should fully engage yourself in these practices, just as we do with things we truly enjoy. We don't hastily devour our meals without savoring the flavors; instead, we savor each bite to derive maximum pleasure. The same principle applies to Islam, don't do it out of obligation, but rather out of genuine desire. Additionally, simply reading the Quran and praying without living according to the rules of Islam will yield limited benefits. It's essential to strive to adhere to the principles and guidelines to fully experience the rewards it offers.

Why does God not heal my diseases? I don't understand, surei don't pray but i believe and ask god every day but nothing happens. I haven't lost faith in god but I've lost faith that i will ever be healed. Perhaps that is gods will.

 

[Gengar]

This. I gobble that shit down like I'm in a food eating contest.

Based and gobblepilled.

Your stomach most certainly hates you for it.

I certainly cannot tell if this brings problems. Mind enlightening?

 

[emeraldglass]

Why does God not heal my diseases? I don't understand, surei don't pray but i believe and ask god every day but nothing happens. I haven't lost faith in god but I've lost faith that i will ever be healed. Perhaps that is gods will.

First and foremost, brother, there is one crucial aspect hindering your complete healing, and that is your lack of prayer. The majority of scholars agree that someone who neglects prayer cannot even be considered a Muslim. Therefore, my suggestion is to address this issue first.

Secondly, it's important to understand, brother, that healing does not happen instantaneously. It may take years before Allah answers your prayers. It's possible that through this illness and suffering, He intends to purify you drom sin and lead you to forgiveness, ultimately granting you entry into paradise.

Allah says in the Quran in Chapter 2 verse 216 "But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not."
Volume 7, Book 70, Number 545:
Narrated Abu Sa'id Al-Khudri and Abu Huraira:

The Prophet said, "No fatigue, nor disease, nor sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor distress befalls a Muslim, even if it were the prick he receives from a thorn, but that Allah expiates some of his sins for that."

 

[emeraldglass]

I certainly cannot tell if this brings problems. Mind enlightening?

If food isn't chewed properly, food may remain undigested as it passes through your stomach to your intestines, which can lead to an overgrowth of bacteria in the intestines, which in turn leads to bloating. and, constipation, abdominal pain, cramps and other digestive problems.

Harm if not chewing food carefully

The habit of not chewing food thoroughly is a bad habit that affects the overall health and reduces the quality of the food. People who do not chew food thoroughly have a higher risk of experiencing gastrointestinal diseases such as gastroesophageal reflux disease, gastritis or food poisoning...

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[Gengar]

If food isn't chewed properly, food may remain undigested as it passes through your stomach to your intestines, which can lead to an overgrowth of bacteria in the intestines, which in turn leads to bloating. and, constipation, abdominal pain, cramps and other digestive problems.

Harm if not chewing food carefully

The habit of not chewing food thoroughly is a bad habit that affects the overall health and reduces the quality of the food. People who do not chew food thoroughly have a higher risk of experiencing gastrointestinal diseases such as gastroesophageal reflux disease, gastritis or food poisoning...

www.vinmec.com

Thanks for sharing this. Strangely enough, I have never experienced this.

 

[emeraldglass]

Thanks for sharing this. Strangely enough, I have never experienced this.

Over time it can become a problem.

 

[Gengar]

Over time it can become a problem.

I have been doing this for as long as I can remember bhai.

 

[emeraldglass]

I have been doing this for as long as I can remember bhai.

Nevertheless, I would prefer not to take the risk of falling ill. Plus, you'll end up overeating if you don't chew. I would advise against it.