Rhevan
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I started dating this girl a few weeks ago. She’s really friendly, attractive, and also intelligent. For me, getting into a relationship is usually pretty stressful because it feels like extra pressure, and honestly, I don’t really want that kind of stress.
Lately, we’ve been seeing each other more and more, and I even stayed at her place for a few days. I genuinely enjoy spending time with her—it feels easy and natural when we’re together.
Now she’s gone for a week to visit her parents, about 500 km away, and I’ve started to actually miss her and catch feelings, which kind of caught me off guard. At the same time, that also makes me a bit anxious, because I’m worried about what might come with it—like arguments, expectations, or things getting complicated.
I like being with her, but I’m also a bit scared of where it could lead and whether it might turn stressful over time. So now I’m kind of stuck between enjoying what we have and worrying about what could go wrong, and I’m not really sure how to deal with it.
Lately, we’ve been seeing each other more and more, and I even stayed at her place for a few days. I genuinely enjoy spending time with her—it feels easy and natural when we’re together.
Now she’s gone for a week to visit her parents, about 500 km away, and I’ve started to actually miss her and catch feelings, which kind of caught me off guard. At the same time, that also makes me a bit anxious, because I’m worried about what might come with it—like arguments, expectations, or things getting complicated.
I like being with her, but I’m also a bit scared of where it could lead and whether it might turn stressful over time. So now I’m kind of stuck between enjoying what we have and worrying about what could go wrong, and I’m not really sure how to deal with it.
