I hate when foids are overly nice to me

[TrueVolcel]

Because I'm LHTN I've had multiple LTB/MTB and even some LHTB approach me throughout my life, who I'd normally go for and while I am searching for a relationship and want to lose my virginity, I've always been grossed out when they are too nice to me. It's not because their kindness comes off as fake or smth, it's real. I don't know why, but it makes me dislike the foids so much, I have to cut contact with them after like 1-2 months of talking

 

[lookingforadvicecel]

You probably feel like something is off with the way they’re acting or it’s too good to be true because otherwise they would have given you the attention you deserve but the perverse is often true

 

[o_Owtf]

I think often it can be a sense of guilt. Like when somebody is nice to you, and you know it's because they want to have a friendship/relationship with you, but you can't bother to reciprocate because there's nothing there for you. So you feel like you're forced to be nice and a dickhead because you don't want to.

 

[ascension]

Yeah I don't know how to process it. Just seems fake, like I'm being pranked or something.