I hate when my father gives me advice

[JovenCansao]

He and my mother were both each others first and they married at early 20s, had us very young, before graduating uni even and to this day they still live together as a happy couple.

He literally lived the bluepilled dream, never experienced the dating market nor the struggles of social isolation.

And yet he comes to me thinking he knows my struggles or thinking he understands why I do the things I do.
"Why do you want a car? You have a bike already"
"Why would you want those clothes? The old ones are fine"
"Don't do drugs and smoke, they will ruin your health"
"Why do you go to the gym?"
"Why do you eat a lot?"
"Why do you want to invest in this? Just save your money"
"Why would you go with your friends there? It's dangerous there"

It sucks having such bluepilled father tbh, he tries to keep me tame in all aspects of my life while barely having lived his own when young.

Surprisingly my mother which is also very bluepilled and conservative can see the bigger picture as to why I'm doing all this, it's maybe true that women are backpilled from birth, she sometimes even gives me a face of embarrassment when my father does something beta or pathetic jfl

 

[Deleted member 52057]

 

[JovenCansao]

He and my mother were both each others first and they married at early 20s, had us very young, before graduating uni even and to this day they still live together as a happy couple.

He literally lived the bluepilled dream, never experienced the dating market nor the struggles of social isolation.

And yet he comes to me thinking he knows my struggles or thinking he understands why I do the things I do.
"Why do you want a car? You have a bike already"
"Why would you want those clothes? The old ones are fine"
"Don't do drugs and smoke, they will ruin your health"
"Why do you go to the gym?"
"Why do you eat a lot?"
"Why do you want to invest in this? Just save your money"
"Why would you go with your friends there? It's dangerous there"

It sucks having such bluepilled father tbh, he tries to keep me tame in all aspects of my life while barely having lived his own when young.

Surprisingly my mother which is also very bluepilled and conservative can see the bigger picture as to why I'm doing all this, it's maybe true that women are backpilled from birth, she sometimes even gives me a face of embarrassment when my father does something beta or pathetic jfl

Typing all this shit makes me realize how shit it is that the person supposed to raise me as a man was there all along but he simply didn't because idk why the fuck not.

Having an absent parent would be worse for sure but in terms of being raised as a man both that and having a beta father are equally harmful imo

 

[Pikabro]

Just let him speak his mind tbh and keep doing what you want it’s not big deal. Only if you feel pressured and fold is when things get ugly

 

[JovenCansao]

Just let him speak his mind tbh and keep doing what you want it’s not big deal. Only if you feel pressured and fold is when things get ugly

Terrible advice.
What you hear, what you read, what you see affect your psychology and your way of thinking to some degree.
His beta advice would eventually get to me unnoticed, so I try to cut his advice short

 

[Pikabro]

Terrible advice.
What you hear, what you read, what you see affect your psychology and your way of thinking to some degree.
His beta advice would eventually get to me unnoticed, so I try to cut his advice short

I’m the type to fold immediately tbh and that’s the problem

 

[Primalsplit]

I’m the type to fold immediately tbh and that’s the problem

Hahaha what a loooser.

 

[mogstars]

He and my mother were both each others first and they married at early 20s, had us very young, before graduating uni even and to this day they still live together as a happy couple.

He literally lived the bluepilled dream, never experienced the dating market nor the struggles of social isolation.

And yet he comes to me thinking he knows my struggles or thinking he understands why I do the things I do.
"Why do you want a car? You have a bike already"
"Why would you want those clothes? The old ones are fine"
"Don't do drugs and smoke, they will ruin your health"
"Why do you go to the gym?"
"Why do you eat a lot?"
"Why do you want to invest in this? Just save your money"
"Why would you go with your friends there? It's dangerous there"

It sucks having such bluepilled father tbh, he tries to keep me tame in all aspects of my life while barely having lived his own when young.

Surprisingly my mother which is also very bluepilled and conservative can see the bigger picture as to why I'm doing all this, it's maybe true that women are backpilled from birth, she sometimes even gives me a face of embarrassment when my father does something beta or pathetic jfl

He feeds your subhuman ass

Stop bitching and just be intelligent

Jfl if you think having your father give bad advice is comparable to any male struggle in history, don't be a pussy

 

[Deleted member 14693]

all decent advice except the saving money part

 

[flippasav]

Weakling

 

[Pikabro]

all decent advice except the saving money part

Well car is good for logistics
Nothing wrong with freshening up your wardrobe but maybe it's a financial drain idk what their situation is like
100% true. The problem is having to do those things to fit in or socialise.
The rest seems to be him just asking questions or expressing his opinions but idk how he expressed this irl.

It's not even a big deal. The only problem is if you're afraid to do anything and your parents come off as oppressive. If it's just bluepilled or out of touch father I don't see a big deal. Nobody's perfect, alpha male father would be prone to abusing his kids turning OP into a meek little cuck/mentally ill or being absent which leads to the worse fate of a single mother household.

 

[lestoa]

stfu and listen to ur father nigga

 

[TrueBlueRetard]

Respect your father even if you go against his advice. He only wishes the best for you, to him the bluepill is reality for everyone.