I have a Madonna-Whore complex

[AspiringMogger]

The definition…

“In order to minimize anxiety, the man categorizes women into two groups: women he can admire and women he finds sexually attractive. Whereas the man loves women in the former category, he despises and devalues the latter group”.

I lose severe respect, and entirely lose interest in a woman I’m crushing on, if I find out she has dated a loser.

Not necessarily redpill but i see it as the madonna-whore complex.

My mind subconsciously builds up this crush as a symbol of love, purity, affection. Someone who is so special, so beautiful so sublime that I feel a strong sense of limerence and admiration. She is the Madonna

However, when I discover the truth, that she is indeed flawed, dates losers and all that, my mind revolts that it has essentially believed in a collossal lie, that the object of my affection and reverence would be so readily given to someone I deem undeserving. By extension I subconsciously blame the woman and devalue her. In my mind the Madonna has turned into a whore.

I genuinely want to know why I do this?

Anyone else who have a Madonna-Whore complex that want to share?

 

[AspiringMogger]

@Gargantuan @Amnesia @fogdart @LightSkinNoob @LiterallyNightwing

 

[AspiringMogger]

Word to my mother last hour I’ve found out so much about myself. I’m genuinely cooked

 

[mrdouchebag]

There are women best fit for the position of the wife like this one:

Then there are women best fit for the position of the mistress like this one:

You'll never be truly satisfied until both positions are filled. Also, ideally you need at least two mistresses. One is simply not enough.

 

[Clown Show]

Same, however lately I am starting to feel unconditional hatred towards all foids, no exception.

 

[Surfsup]

There are women best fit for the position of the wife like this one:

Then there are women best fit for the position of the mistress like this one:

You'll never be truly satisfied until both positions are filled. Also, ideally you need at least two mistresses. One is simply not enough.

2 wives theory

 

[AspiringMogger]

There are women best fit for the position of the wife like this one:

Then there are women best fit for the position of the mistress like this one:

You'll never be truly satisfied until both positions are filled. Also, ideally you need at least two mistresses. One is simply not enough.

This isn’t what the Madonna whore complex is about. It’s not looks, it’s stem from men’s primary hatred of women, stimulated by the child's sense that he had been made to experience intolerable frustration and/or narcissistic injury at the hands of his mother. According to this theory, in adulthood the boy-turned-man seeks to avenge these mistreatments through sadistic attacks on women who are stand-ins for mother.

 

[AspiringMogger]

Same, however lately I am starting to feel unconditional hatred towards all foids, no exception.

This isn’t what the Madonna whore complex is about. It’s not looks, it’s stem from men’s primary hatred of women, stimulated by the child's sense that he had been made to experience intolerable frustration and/or narcissistic injury at the hands of his mother. According to this theory, in adulthood the boy-turned-man seeks to avenge these mistreatments through sadistic attacks on women who are stand-ins for mother.

 

[LightSkinNoob]

I relate a lot to this. I’ve found it is one of the biggest hurdles for me in building a relationship with a woman exclusively.

I suspect for me it has something to do with that fact I was never validated by women as a child/teenager and didn’t have any connection with a woman until I was 20.

When I noticed girls had a past before me, especially the attractive ones, and that past involved low SMV men who treated them bad, it made me feel so sick inside if I liked the girl, I would think “she’s dating me now and we’re having a good time, but this low SMV, lazy guy before me was her first love and got everything but mostly good treatment for her” this would frustrate me and drive me crazy.

Funny you say that last line because I currently have two girls exclusive to me I’m dating (one for two years almost and one for the last 3 months), and I have subconsciously classed both of them into one of those categories, however I was aware of this complex two years ago when I met the first girl and developed retroactive jealousy.

However I’ve realised if your the highest SMV guy she’s gotten with and probably close to the best she can get, and can give her the best sex, there is not much to worry about. For me they have to have less the 5 body count for me to consider them for marriage.

 

[incel194012940]

i saw that video yesterday too lol

 

[wollet2]

loL me too

does anyone else suffer from madonna whore complex

didnt know i had it until one girl mentioned basically whoever i love i dont wanna fuck and whoever i wanna fuck i dont love. this has plagued me forever but its worse in the recent years. the moment i get more intimate and develop feelings of care for a girl i lose all sexual attraction to her...

looksmax.org

im unable to ltr. i wonder if its my brain protecting me

 

[wollet2]

just today i developed some softer emotions for a insanely hot and beautiful brunette milf with a alt look and i lost sexual attraction
days ago with another pornstar looking milf. its insane and tiring how quickly i shift

 

[wollet2]

i saw that video yesterday too lol

what vid. these cringy tiktoker subhumans giving these names tbh

 

[incel194012940]

what vid. these cringy tiktoker subhumans giving these names tbh

idk exactly but part of it was animated with those blob people and had a clip of old woman psycholgist speaking

 

[Toad]

Sounds autistic and asexual. I just like pussy and titties, I don't care who a whore has been with. I just want to get my dick wet, pronto

 

[AspiringMogger]

However I’ve realised if your the highest SMV guy she’s gotten with and probably close to the best she can get, and can give her the best sex, there is not much to worry about. For me they have to have less the 5 body count for me to consider them for marriage.

I’ve come to a different conclusion entirely, I don’t think relationships are as fulfilling as the media portrays. I don’t plan on ever getting married and my goal is to just mog as hard as I possibly can and slay whores instead.

I think I run into about 2 women a year that I class as Madonna’s in my head, and it’s genuinely painful to realise a woman you admire is a whore.

By admiring the Madonna you give her all the leverage. By being with the whore you give up dignity.

The only solution is to just slay whores and find fulfilment in other things such as career and whatnot.

 

[AspiringMogger]

i saw that video yesterday too lol

Which video? I was reading Freud and self-diagnosed myself.

 

[AspiringMogger]

Sounds autistic and asexual. I just like pussy and titties, I don't care who a whore has been with. I just want to get my dick wet, pronto

I’ve currently slept with more women than you ever will in your life time buddy. Do me a favour and kys

 

[uksucks]

I have this

 

[AspiringMogger]

just today i developed some softer emotions for a insanely hot and beautiful brunette milf with a alt look and i lost sexual attraction
days ago with another pornstar looking milf. its insane and tiring how quickly i shift

I only feel lust around them when I’m drunk. Life would be so much easier if I just viewed every woman as a Whore

 

[Chadeep]

You're looking for a Mom In a Woman if you Admire her.

 

[AspiringMogger]

You're looking for a Mom In a Woman if you Admire her.

That’s part of the cause of the Madonna whore complex.

Psychoanalyst Richard Tuch suggests that Freud offered at least one alternative explanation for the Madonna–whore complex:
“This earlier theory is based not on oedipal-based castration anxiety but on man's primary hatred of women, stimulated by the child's sense that he had been made to experience intolerable frustration and/or narcissistic injury at the hands of his mother. According to this theory, in adulthood the boy-turned-man seeks to avenge these mistreatments through sadistic attacks on women who are stand-ins for mother”.

 

[ascension]

Sounds autistic and asexual. I just like pussy and titties, I don't care who a whore has been with. I just want to get my dick wet, pronto

Only sane response in the whole thread